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RE: .TheKewlCrew. - 3/17/2008 7:36:10 PM

catize

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I am sure that separating the lines between reality and fantasy are troubling for many, but most people have sexual fantasies that they never intend to act out... which is why they call it "fantasy". Just because someone has a fantasy that is not "legal" or "consensual" doesn't mean they will feel compelled to act on it.

Perhaps my concern is a bit over the top. I agree that most people do have healthy boundaries and know where the line is. But in my line of work I deal with the unhealthy and their victims. I concede that gives me a jaundiced view.

edited 'cuz an "i" got poked out

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RE: .TheKewlCrew. - 3/17/2008 7:45:04 PM

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But in my line of work I deal with the unhealthy and their victims. I concede that gives me a jaundiced view.

That is completely understandable.. it would probably do the same for me.

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RE: .TheKewlCrew. - 3/17/2008 9:35:22 PM

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my list of fantasies is pretty short. I'm a pretty hands on person in this case, so one of the prerequisites for me to fantasize about something is that it must be something I can actually do safely (well, as safely as hanging someone naked by their wrists from the basement ceiling can be)

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