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ownedgirlie -> RE: My Master/Dom/me - who owns who here? (3/17/2008 2:15:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: foxhole
from the fox
in so many sub posts i read 'my Keyholder', 'my KH', 'my Master', 'my Mistress', 'my this', 'my that'. i find that quite surprising.
we possess 'our' Owners without a blick of an eylid. is it just through 'daily life' exerting itself? i often have to catch 'myself' of possessing, then re-phrasing in the mind.
are there different levels of possession, or is possession always ultimate, but not always exercised or insisted upon by the Possessor?
should the possessed learn in speech and written word to identify themselves always as property? most subs write about themselves in lower case, their Partner is addressed in upper case, all contrary to the principles of written english language, most Dom/mes do the reverse. so here we have already a start.
Y/you see here, i prefer to write in lower case from beginning to end of a sentence, except to indicate the status of another. i also attempt to be able to live without personal pronouns in regards to this person ('me', 'myself', 'my', 'mine'). Y/you will find it is not as easy or makes for a fluent flow of words, but i find it keeps the head space. at times i have to be weary at work not to practice it in conversation with collegues or emails/letters, as i attempt to keep the head space throughout the day, being possessed does not stop as i unlock the car to drive to work.
have i gone so far down the lane, have i gone too far?
the curious fox,
his tail shining bright and silvery
There are many who follow your line of thinking...and many who do not.
Would it make you happier if I said "He who owns me?" Or when referring to my mother, "She who gave me birth?" or to my siblings, "The people with whom I was raised?" Or my college professors, "Those who taught me in school?" Or my friends, "Those whom I have befriended" or my employer, "The establishment with which I am employed?"
Do you see how this could get a little out of hand?
Sometimes I simply refer to him as "Master", but then I have seen posts criticizing that as well, stating, "His name is not actually Master and he is not MY Master, so it is foolish to refer to him as that when talking to me."
Quite often I refer to him as Mr. Wonderful. And no, that is not his actual name, nor is he everybody's Mr. Wonderful, but it is a pet name by which I refer to him and so far it has not been met with criticism.
Then again, I do not write on message boards with the effort to please all readers universally.
As for upper case and lower case, I write with the grammer taught to me in school...not "my school" but the school I have attended. [;)] Master, my Master, Mr. Wonderful, the man who owns me, He to whom I submit, does not mind this. He knows my submission to him exists regardless (as opposed to irregardless) of what grammer I utilize, and has no problem with the way I write.
I meant no offense by the words I expressed above (as opposed to "my words above"), but I wanted to demonstrate how we all, in our great uniqueness, express ourselves in ways that work best for us.
[:)]
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