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Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 2:28:26 PM

shaobaihu

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I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?
2. How to go about training with them?
3. What household items can be used to help train with them?

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 2:33:12 PM

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I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?

They can hurt going in, depending on size and how fast they are pushed in. I prefer glass ones as they are easier to clean. Too much lubricant on glass plugs makes it difficult to hold them in, however, particularly during vaginal sex.

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2. How to go about training with them?

Start very small, work your way up, use lots of lubricant, and keep them in for about an hour at a time at first, to become accustomed to feeling them inside of you. Bear down (as though going to the bathroom) during insertion as that will assist in their entry.

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3. What household items can be used to help train with them?

Nothing that I can think of. Your finger is a good start. Massaging around your rim with lube will help you adjust to the area being touched.

Good luck!

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 2:42:36 PM

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I love love love anal plugs, both using them and wearing (not the right term, but whatever) them. The only negative experiances I've had with them are getting over eager with some of the larger ones and trying to take them out after you're finished. What went in easily in the heat of the moment can be rather uncomfortable coming out once your body is getting back to normal, especially if it's been in for a while.

As for positive experiances, I can't say enough about them. There are the obvious uses, but they're also good for setting the tone for the evening. Ordering someone to strip and insert a plug is a great way of taking control. After that, it is a good passive reminder. With the larger ones, and people who are big on ass play, simply moving around with a plug in generates a whole host of sensations. Actively playing with the plug can have someone whimpering in no time. In the same vein, I really like anal beads as well. They're actually even more fun- mine have a little hoop at the end, so it's easy for me to add a bead or yank one out when someone isn't expecting it. That's a fun little game to do if you have someone bent over your knee, in between swats. Of course, if people are really into anal, making them beg for each additional bead is always fun.

I'm not sure what you mean by training, but as far as my experiance goes, the rules are the same for any anal play- start small and brief and work up. Warm up the person taking the toy with some vaginal or cock stimulation before you do anything else. And again, beads are key here. They really do lend themselves to training. Did I mention I like anal beads? Buy some anal beads.

Once someone is used to taking things in their ass, you'll need less and less warmup, and play can become much more spontaneous. It helps if they use beads and small plugs during masterbation. You're trying to get the body to seriously link anal with pleasure, and it's just a matter of repeating the stimulation. I used to have trouble with anal (it was kind of uncomfortable, I had zero endurance, etc.), but now I love it can almost get off from ass play alone.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 2:53:50 PM

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Nothing negative to report, but we didn't try "Gigantor's Sooper Poop Special."

Interesting sensations, especially when paired with other movement (like me moving or a vibrator).

I don't know what you mean about "household items" but I've heard good things about using them in conjunction with a hot water bottle.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 6:16:39 PM

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quote:

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I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?
2. How to go about training with them?
3. What household items can be used to help train with them?

I have used anal plugs to help in preparing the girl for anal play. I have her wear it for an hour at a time several times a day. I start out with a small plug and move up to larger plugs. This not only loosens her anus up but also gets her use to the feeling of having something in there.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 6:41:16 PM

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Pretty much follow what everyone else has stated. Go slow and use plenty of lube. Try not to rush inserting the plug as it could cause pain and then the person tenses up which could halt any further activity. Sometimes if you use a finger to stimulate around the outer sphincter, that muscle will relax which will make for easier insertion of an anal plug. I have heard of people wearing a plug for several hours per day, though that depends on how experienced a person is in wearing one and being completely comfortable with it. It's a good idea to pay attention to what your body tells you and if you fell discomfort, remove the plug and wait a bit and try wearing it again.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 6:50:04 PM

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Jelly rubber is shit-never ever buy toys made of it. If you decide to use one uncovered, it will end up smelling like shit-since it's porous. You will not be able to clean it-and will have to throw it away.

You won't be sorry you were not a penny pinching cheapskate, by spending more on decent silicone rubber plugs. Next best thing to glass.

And anus has two sphincters. One pushes out-one retains. A plug or dildo that does not have a neck down and a positive abrupt swell just beyond the first one will tend to be forced out. If you are using a stretching plug to give more skin diameter through the canal for fucking-without tearing-you will want to use a retention harness to keep it seated.

NEVER be an idiot and insert a tampon in a rectum. It will suck up the mucous membrane, and then adhere to the walls-making it pretty much impossible to remove without stripping out skin.
But if you enjoy Spanish Inquisition scenes, Then by all means do so-they used the same methods with a dry rag-to rip the lining out of mouths, tongues, and throats-tons of bloody fun.

Beyond that, buy a few and work up gradually. A big one right away-again- because you do not want to spend any money to be able to "bury caesar"-will proably leave a lovely negative lasting inpression about the whole thing.

Patience rules.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 7:30:33 PM

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Try heating or freezing the plugs. Temperature adds another wrinkle.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/17/2008 8:43:03 PM

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In my experience the only problem I have had with an anal plug is it not staying in and discomfort while sitting other than that if your body is ready and you are into anal its fun

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 7:49:08 AM

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they suck

uncomfortable, make you feel funny, make you walk wierd, hurt, gross and just are crap

thats my experience

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 7:52:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: DisenchantedLife

they suck

uncomfortable, make you feel funny, make you walk wierd, hurt, gross and just are crap

thats my experience

And why sadists like them.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 8:07:44 AM

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*sings* I hate them

Well, ok its more of a love/hate relationship.

Worn as a tool to introducing anal sex...wonderful asset

Worn to class as a punishment or out to dinner for fun...not so great

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 10:34:17 AM

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All I can add is Karo Syrup and Anal Plugs BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD Idea.

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(she still hasn't forgiven me)

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 11:40:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: shaobaihu

I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?

The great majority of my experience with anal plugs has been positive. They were invaluable in training my first submissive to anal play and, like others, I love to use them both that way and for various other aspects such as humiliation or for an example of control and place within the dynamic.

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2. How to go about training with them?

This has been covered pretty damn well. Lubrication is vital, finding the proper position to insert, taking the time to insert, having the submissive bear down as if she were going to the bathroom. I agree with the person that noted that the rubber gellee ones are basically worthless...either go with the silicone rubber or the glass ones and make sure you use a cleaning agent suited to proper cleaning...preferably one of those products made specifically for these types of toys. Whether you want to approach each session matter of factly or put elements of D/s or some form of roleplay into it is up to you but I would advise that at first, it is best to make it pretty matter of fact. Once the training has advanced a bit is probably the better time to begin adding other elements into it.

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3. What household items can be used to help train with them?

I am not exactly sure what you mean by this except I can recommend warming them first by soaking them in hot water but then, some dominants...sadistic bastards/bitches that we are...prefer to go in cold, so to speak.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 11:45:30 AM

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I would advise against butt plugs with razor wire and protruding glass shards. Safety, brothers and sisters ....

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 11:57:41 AM

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Pay special attention to the TIMING of the removal too. Some folks want them out the second they ask it- and others like to fall asleep with them in. It's all a personal thing.

Me, I used to be bad about clamping down right after climax- so that you couldn't take it out (without a signifigant YELP anyway) right after... I always had to wait for my body to come down off the climax before I could pop one out again, or even LET it be pulled out. ow.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 12:01:50 PM

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I would advise against butt plugs with razor wire and protruding glass shards. Safety, brothers and sisters ....

Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh man...I bet every single one reading your post is going to feel a sphincter squeeze.

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 1:59:52 PM

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All I can add is Karo Syrup and Anal Plugs BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD Idea.

BAD things happen when you run out of Superglue!

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 2:14:44 PM

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Skip the "household" stuff. Just go for the gold.

And am I the only one who keeps coming back to this thread for, uhhhhh, the strictly educational aspects??

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RE: Anal Plugs - 3/18/2008 2:18:13 PM

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Skip the "household" stuff. Just go for the gold.

And am I the only one who keeps coming back to this thread for, uhhhhh, the strictly educational aspects??

Cali

nope, I'm here for the education as well.

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