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sweetwenchie -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 2:19:30 PM)

That is why i brought along my notebook Cali, if i am going to come here for an education i might as well take notes so as to not misremember vital informative posts. [8|]



OmegaG -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 2:24:02 PM)

FR

I love my anal plug, but it apparently doesn't love me as it likes to slip out,  It would be ideal if it would stay in during vaginal penetration, any ideas, thoughts?

And I would love it if one day I could wear it while doing mundane, boring-like normal stuff without worrying about it too.



MissHarlet -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 2:34:56 PM)

I find that anal beads stay in better than plugs during daily activities .. and can be quite exciting during a ride in a car ... <EG>



CalifChick -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 2:44:58 PM)

Omega, try one with a bigger difference between the widest part and the skinny neck part (note those really technical terms there).

I think we're at the point where we need visual aids. Seriously. Pictures.

Cali



TracyTaken -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 2:48:04 PM)

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I find that anal beads stay in better than plugs during daily activities .. and can be quite exciting during a ride in a car ...


I'm looking forward to trying some kind of ben-wah balls on a long drive.  Just having a can of soda between my legs can be fun, so I'm thinking that the balls would make a long drive seem shorter.



akisha -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:03:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: shaobaihu

I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?
Negative:  If you use something to big too fast it's probably going to hurt.
If you try to force the plug in instead of easing it in you could very well cause small tears in the sphincter and that friggin stings for a couple days.
 
Positives: It's an amazing sensation. It helps prepare for anal play/sex. And for some it makes them feel vunerable.

2. How to go about training with them?
Take your time, start small, use lube and have fun.

3. What household items can be used to help train with them?
Peeled Ginger works great *eg*
Not sure if I'd recomend anything "household wise" when just starting out and training and or learning to accept anal penatration.




MissHarlet -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:09:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: akisha

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaobaihu

I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.


3. What household items can be used to help train with them?
Peeled Ginger works great *eg*




Peeled Ginger ie "figging" causes a burning sensation also .. so be aware before insertion ..



akisha -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:11:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

quote:

I find that anal beads stay in better than plugs during daily activities .. and can be quite exciting during a ride in a car ...


I'm looking forward to trying some kind of ben-wah balls on a long drive.  Just having a can of soda between my legs can be fun, so I'm thinking that the balls would make a long drive seem shorter.



Tracy

I wouldn't advise Ben Wa Balls. they can travel and retreval is not fun lol.

You can buy something similar tho. I think they are called Thunder Balls. They are joined and have a retreival string for removal.



akisha -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:14:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaobaihu

I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.


3. What household items can be used to help train with them?
Peeled Ginger works great *eg*




Peeled Ginger ie "figging" causes a burning sensation also .. so be aware before insertion ..


Sure take all the fun out of the suprise MissH *S*



TracyTaken -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:16:47 PM)

Thanks, akisha.



jenf -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:18:36 PM)

 i am required to use my plug when ever my Master demands me to, and for the amount of time He specifies. i questioned Him once, "Why? What pleasure do You get from having me do this, especially when You are not even HERE?" His answer, "It keeps you thinking about Me." What he doesn't "get" is that i do think about Him 24/7 anyway!!!!
Household object? A hard chair or stool to keep it in place is helpful at times.



CreativeDominant -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:48:34 PM)

MMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmm...ah yes, I forgot to mention anal beads...especially those that get bigger and bigger, thence increasing the submissive's moans as you slowly push them in, sometimes being nice enough to add a twist to the bead as you do so...and sometimes not.  And, when they are sitting on that car seat with the beads in and you tell them to pull their pants down or their skirt up and bring their rounded ass up, grasp the pulling ring.............and pull quickly.

Gotta love ginger.  After all, spice does add variety to life, does it not?



CalifChick -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:54:21 PM)

Okay, that's it.  I'm getting "allergic to ginger root" tattooed on my ass.  I would have said "allergic to ginger", but I figure some smartass would say, "but my name isn't Ginger".

Cali
(has heard wayyyyyy too much talk about ginger lately)




FRSguy -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 3:57:50 PM)

For some reason through the day I have come back and back and back again to this thread.  I have never used a plug but somehow I think my girl has an interesting weekend around the corner [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m20.gif[/image]



OmegaG -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 6:32:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jenf

i am required to use my plug when ever my Master demands me to, and for the amount of time He specifies. i questioned Him once, "Why? What pleasure do You get from having me do this, especially when You are not even HERE?" His answer, "It keeps you thinking about Me." What he doesn't "get" is that i do think about Him 24/7 anyway!!!!
Household object? A hard chair or stool to keep it in place is helpful at times.



It's not the thinking about him, it's the physical connectiveness to him with this act.



Kirren -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/18/2008 8:21:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaobaihu

I would like to know these things about Anal Plugs.

1. Y/your positive and negative example of usages for Anal Plugs?
2. How to go about training with them?
3. What household items can be used to help train with them?





Positive would be to fuck some one with them.
Negative would be to use ones that are bigger than needed, not soooo big, but just enuff to be uncomfortable...and then make them wear them for prolonged periods.

Training with them should be slow...consistant and gentle...thats a pretty sensitive area...you cant just go in with an arm or anything. They do make an anal starter kit that has several different sizes so you can work your way up I am told.

House hold items? Candles...um...anything phalic like I am sure...or do you mean as far as lubes?

Anal play is something Ive done, but not that I do all the time, so Im a bit out of touch with this.



DiablosPet -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/19/2008 10:40:16 AM)

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They do make an anal starter kit that has several different sizes so you can work your way up I am told.

Do you know where???

My master and I have been tossing around the idea of anal training, and I'm perfectly fine with the area AROUND my anus played with, but as soon as he inserts something, even as small as his little finger, I can't stand it and beg him to remove it. He uses plenty of lube and we've tried with silicone based and water based, both with the same results... any ideas?



LilMissHaven -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/19/2008 10:42:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

All I can add is Karo Syrup and Anal Plugs BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD Idea.

Don't Ask, I won't tell.

(she still hasn't forgiven me)

As Always

Steel


Am I the only one tempted to ask?



FRSguy -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/19/2008 10:45:01 AM)

Okay not really looking to hijack but I didnt want to start another plug thread... so what do you look for when buying one... is there a such thing as a really great plug?



akisha -> RE: Anal Plugs (3/19/2008 10:45:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DiablosPet

quote:

They do make an anal starter kit that has several different sizes so you can work your way up I am told.

Do you know where???



Pretty much any sex store and probably about 100 or so online stores.

quote:


My master and I have been tossing around the idea of anal training, and I'm perfectly fine with the area AROUND my anus played with, but as soon as he inserts something, even as small as his little finger, I can't stand it and beg him to remove it. He uses plenty of lube and we've tried with silicone based and water based, both with the same results... any ideas?


You are probably tightening up and fighting against the intrusion, relaxing and breathing slowly and controlled might help. Trust that he isn't going to hurt you. Relaxing for anal play is key



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