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RE: Walking the rope - 3/31/2008 12:28:03 PM

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So, I took the advice of many who posted on this thread and stepped back and re-evaluated my situation and what I was comfortable giving. I have spoken with J, Barb and J's son to inform them of my choice and all readily agreed except J of course but after a few hours of ignoring me he's decided that I'm right and its time to let me live my own life. Hopefully, it'll stick longer then his decision to ignore me did.

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RE: Walking the rope - 3/31/2008 12:45:12 PM

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This strikes too close to home for me to comment on... I am headed towards J's fate sooner than My Love would like and it pains me more to know this than any of the physical pain ever could, even though there are more frequent times I wish it could all be over.

I would only hope My Love has the strength you have exerted.

My sympathies and best wishes for you and yours.

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RE: Walking the rope - 4/1/2008 10:09:34 AM

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A little funny I had to share.

After talking to J about his Domme' friend who can't respect his right to privacy or to die in peace and how one of these days I'm just gonna punch her in the mouth. He told me to grab $50 out of his wallet. Then he told me the next time she comes over to hand her the money and ask her if she'll fulfill a fantasy of mine when she says yes I'm supposed to tell her to put a ballgag in and stand in the corner.

Its not gonna fly, but the mere thought still cracks me up.

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RE: Walking the rope - 4/1/2008 10:14:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

This strikes too close to home for me to comment on... I am headed towards J's fate sooner than My Love would like and it pains me more to know this than any of the physical pain ever could, even though there are more frequent times I wish it could all be over.

I would only hope My Love has the strength you have exerted.

My sympathies and best wishes for you and yours.

Dear Sir,

I'm sorry to hear you are ill. I've read your profile and the profile of your girl and found them both to be a beautifully written testament of your relationship. So hearing this news saddens me.

If either of you ever need someone to just scream at or to talk to who won't take it personally...you know where to find me.

Sincerely,
Haven

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RE: Walking the rope - 4/1/2008 8:48:43 PM

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TY. I will point My Love in the direction of this thread so as she can have the additional perspective.

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RE: Walking the rope - 4/2/2008 5:50:32 AM

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I'm deeply sympathetic and sorry for your hardship. I am faced with something similar, as My Lord has expressed, and the truth is that whatever you feel is perfectly appropriate for the situation you're in. I hate to cry. I don't really see it as a sign of weakness, really, more that it takes so much of my energy and leaves me feeling so crappy and nothing is better when I'm done, anyway. However, I have granted myself permission to cry about this, because it's the only thing I CAN do.

I have finally decided that I was put her for just this purpose: to make sure that whatever time is left for him is filled with my love. How beautiful that you have decided the same. My best wishes and caring thoughts go out to you.

I'm sure you are receiving many messages, but if the mood strikes, please feel free to send me a message. I would love to know you better.

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RE: Walking the rope - 4/2/2008 7:55:01 AM

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Hi Haven;

I'm sorry to hear all you (all) are going through. I always enjoy reading your posts and hope that you will continue to do so.
You're all in a strange place right now, and don't know your way around. Please use each other as guideposts and touchstones, and, as others have said, make sure to take time to yourself. (exercise is very helpful during stressful times)

(((((HUGS))))))

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