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YourhandMyAss -> Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 9:54:10 AM)

The one major thing he never asks for but I try to do, is to watch programing he absolutely hates while he's gone. He finds shows like wife swap, moment of truth and trading spouces insufferable, and will leave the room to watch tv in the livingroom so I may watch in peace, and I want him in here with me. So those shows are something I try to watch while he's gone.

What are some considerations you give your partner that, while they never asked for it specifically you do?



meatcleaver -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:08:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

What are some considerations you give your partner that, while they never asked for it specifically you do?


Live in a different country![:D]



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:11:50 AM)

when i have to fart...i go into another room.

oops....

not this time... [8|][8|]



JerryFrankster -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:14:04 AM)

I call shennanigans. Girls don't fart.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:14:55 AM)

you've never been in a girls locker room!!!!!



xxblushesxx -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:16:14 AM)

We watch Wifeswap and Super Nanny every Wednesday night. We both look forward to it.

I started typing some of the things I do, but, they're pretty pathetic imo...so, I'm not tellin'. *lol*

(I do watch some pretty boring shows with Him though)



JerryFrankster -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 10:20:25 AM)

This is true.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 4:34:22 PM)

Bullshit we do. WE may just not brag about it an think it's as hillarious as men do. Who started this nonsense pretense that women don't have such bodily functions such as farting and burping an pooping needs to be strung up
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ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

I call shennanigans. Girls don't fart.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 4:39:55 PM)

I have quite a few. I have learned to play video games so that Angel and I can play online together.
I have all but given up drinking and have no alcohol in the house becasue Fox is against it.
I warm the apartment up when Angel visits and cool it off when Fox does.
I keep snacks on hand they eat and I dont, and the same for sodas.

Peaceful coexistance is a good incentive.

DV




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 4:46:03 PM)

Yes. it is. All though I've asked james and in some cases out right told him, that I DO NOT want tons of junk food brought into the house cause it's not healthy for me, and I have no will power plus I do not think it's fair to stock tons of shit someone else likes but can't eat.  if you put cakes and doughnuts and ho ho's and chips and well any of that stuff that usualy trips my buttons  and I avoid cause they're bad for me in the house and  then expect me to work on loosing weigh an taking care of myself or at the very least not eat bad for me goods or not support my efforts to get healthy I am going to call bullshit on Daddy *cause he's the one buying it all*faster than someone who stepped in it. 

Or at the very least don't buy tons to stock up buy just enough for your ocasional snack that you knew  you'd want and please keep it out of my site. out of site out of mind for me, cause we have sweets in the freezer for months sometimes an as long as I don't remember or know it's there I don't bother em.
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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I keep snacks on hand they eat and I dont, and the same for sodas.

Peaceful coexistance is a good incentive.

DV





TracyTaken -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 4:51:51 PM)

It sounds like you are talking about trying to predict what he wants.  Yes, I do that.  I did it for every boss I ever had too.  But it is different in D/s.  I wouldn't actually *watch* the programs he likes, but I would try to remember to record them.  I try to keep on top of some media stuff because I know he loves that stuff.  Some of it we both like.  Some of it ... I don't even know what planet he is from that he likes it!  I don't feel like I have to be an expert on StarGate, for instance.  But's nice to be able to talk about it and relate and all that stuff.  So, I've watched it even though I normally wouldn't (not that it's not worth watching).



bipolarber -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/19/2008 4:54:58 PM)

Foot worship. I'm not that big of a foot fetishist, but she really enjoys that sort of attention. So...

I just look at it as work of a loving sort... like giving a massage, or taking on the yardwork (which she hates). Oddly, because she knows I'm not into worshipping her feet, she likes it even more when I do so. (It's a control/dominance thing, I'm sure.)



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 2:29:54 PM)

It makes sense, cause any one can do things they enjoy doing, it is honestly to me more of an act of service and her desires to do something you don't like to, or have no desire to do.
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ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Foot worship. I'm not that big of a foot fetishist, but she really enjoys that sort of attention. So...

I just look at it as work of a loving sort... like giving a massage, or taking on the yardwork (which she hates). Oddly, because she knows I'm not into worshipping her feet, she likes it even more when I do so. (It's a control/dominance thing, I'm sure.)



Lashra -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 3:48:00 PM)

One thing I do for him is I have learned to watch old westerns when we are together as he loves them. So this gives us more snuggling time.
One thing he has learned to do for me is not listen to rap music when I'm around. By doing this I don't have to fight the urge to smash the CD player into a million bits.

~Lashra



petitespitfire64 -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 3:53:26 PM)

I suffer through every episode of Daniel Boone ever made, lovingly lick Him clean after sex, beg to suck His dick, empty His ash trays, and tell Him i love him every time we speak.
He makes sure there is a huge supply of Diet Pepsi for me to swill, brings me truffles, and brings over food and litter for my furballs.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 4:42:33 PM)

during March Madness, i'll be cheering for Daddy's favorite college teams to victory



slaveluci -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 7:12:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss
What are some considerations you give your partner that, while they never asked for it specifically you do?


1.  Turn off the TV or radio when we go to bed.  It helps me go to sleep but I noticed He tosses and turns.  He never asked me not to leave them on but I didn't want to disturb His sleep so I began making sure all noise was absent when we turn in.

2.  I've learned to listen to music He likes that I don't particularly care for and to leave some of the types of music off that I love and He hates when He's present.  For instance, He loves jazz.  I am somewhat familiar with certain artists, but it's not something I really enjoy listening to alot of.  I have learned to enjoy or at least smilingly tolerate it for hours at a time[:D].  I love many different types of music including some He just can't tolerate such as most seventies pop music, rap, and some others.  I try to enjoy those at top volume when He is not home.  He has never requested I not listen to the seventies stuff but He makes so much fun and rolls His eyes that it's better just to wait until He's not around.  With the rap music, He's like Lashra.  The CD player would wind up smashed to bits if He had to listen to more than a song or so of it.

3.  Same goes for TV programs/movies I watch.  I've exposed Him to lots of movies He had never seen but some of the genres I know He doesn't care for, I save and watch at night after work when He is still working.

4.  I stay up later than I really care to.  Many nights, I should already be asleep when He is just getting off work.  He has specifically told me that I am free to go on to bed if I feel the urge.  I just don't feel right doing so and I've missed Him all day so I'll stay up an hour or two later than I really want to so that we can share some time together at night.

There are others I'm sure I'm forgetting but those are the biggies that popped into my head...............luci




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 7:42:10 PM)

I go to Houston to spend time with his family- he knows that's just for him to be supportive.  And some of his renewable energy meetups.

LOL I can't count the number of things he does, I'm still actively training him to remember it's ok for him not to love everything I want and to opt out on occasion.



adoracat -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 8:18:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

I call shennanigans. Girls don't fart.


they do, but it wafts about the room, smelling of roses.

kitten



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Things your partner doesn;t ask you to do, but you do it as a consideration to them anyway. (3/20/2008 9:20:36 PM)

mine don't waft, they stink like any other humans do.
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ORIGINAL: adoracat

quote:

ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

I call shennanigans. Girls don't fart.


they do, but it wafts about the room, smelling of roses.

kitten



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