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MasterBlueTiger -> RE: How to change my mind from liking submissive bdsm to control others in bdsm? (3/20/2008 8:33:40 PM)

You need muscles to intimidate people[sm=confused.gif]. Thats a new one on me. I have a lotof people tell me I creep them out because I don't talk alot in public.(for whatever reason I feel much more comfortable writting, go figure.) And have had others tell me they can tell when I'm pissed without me even saying anything. And I hate to break it to you, but I used to be the smallest kid in my class way back yonder. Big doesn't scare me, just some forewarning for when you decide to pick on some little old korean guy named Miyagi.
Humor aside though, if you feel submissive then you should go out and find a Domme that makes you feel good inside and go for it. Go get em'. The best way to be happy is to be yourself, have no clue who said that the first time, but truly among the wisest words ever spoken for sure.




LordSinistR -> RE: How to change my mind from liking submissive bdsm to control others in bdsm? (3/21/2008 3:37:24 AM)

if you want to know how to put it all together read a book by Neil Strauss "The Game" it goes in depth about being an alpha, a leader of men, a protector of women and a provider. 4 things women desire. That is what an alpha is. Plus it interwines (sp i know) how a woman thinks and how she is hardwired to gravitate to an alpha male. Male dominance is hardwired in our brains just like submission is hardwired in women's brains but over time there was a split in the chemestry and not all are dom males but it's still hardwired in your brain. Someone pisses you off and your a submissive male then you will find yourself being dom because it's hardwired in your subconcious. Same thing for dom women when they are traumatized they become submissive and want someone to cry on.

Good luck

Sin




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