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Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:10:51 AM   
EveoftheWorld


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Status: offline 		I'm sure this has been posted before, but  I needed a little rant time.

Why do people respond to ads just to be negative towards who you are? For example, if you're a female Domme - what purpose does a male Dom have in just randomly sending you a nasty message?

He has his turn ons, you have yours. I don't get it. It's not just this site, either. Is it that they're bored? What does it serve to try and start a fight or just pointless banter back and forth?

I don't get it. And probably never will.
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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:13:25 AM   
xxblushesxx


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Sometimes someone's ad is so extreme that I am tempted to say something.
Every once in a while I succumb.
That's why I do it, anyway.
(I haven't read your profile btw, so, I'm not sure why someone would do that to yours...boredom, maybe?)

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:14:45 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Why do they do it?
Simply because they can.


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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:15:33 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		well i love sending blushes nasty msgs...

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:20:38 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		Well I try not to be rude, unless someone deserves it. (one time, on another site, a guy wrote about his beliefs of male supremacy, I wrote a email blasting him. though I did write back a few weeks later apologizing.)

And since one of my favorite activities is perving profiles, I look at everyones, and I frequently write comments.

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I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:25:01 AM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		Perhaps they are frustrated admirers. Want you. Cannot have you. Send you a nasty message in revenge, because it is of course your fault that they cannot have you..

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 9:30:26 AM   
LadyEllen


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From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Not this again!

Its not generally known, but on the "edit profile" pages where you can select types of people you want to hear from, there's a little box in the bottom right hand corner which you have to tick if you dont want to hear from jerks, fuckwads and onehanded typists. Its like one of those "no I dont want to receive offers from you or your associated companies" type things - if you leave it unmarked youre bound to get stuff.

E

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 10:23:47 AM   
EveoftheWorld


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Status: offline 		Thanks for that - I didn't know it was there. :)

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 10:28:33 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Gotcha Eve! A bit early for 1st April, but gotcha nonetheless!

Sorry LOL!

(Wonder how many others went looking for it?)

More seriously, I believe there is the possibility to filter out unwanted mails on the other side.

E

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In a test against the leading brand, 9 out of 10 participants couldnt tell the difference. Dumbasses.

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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 11:41:17 AM   
Maya2001


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Gotcha Eve! A bit early for 1st April, but gotcha nonetheless!

Sorry LOL!

(Wonder how many others went looking for it?)

More seriously, I believe there is the possibility to filter out unwanted mails on the other side.

E


Go to ..Read Mail  --> upper right corner click on Mail Controls .. then you can set the mail filters, messages from those you do not want to hear from will go into the bulk mail instead


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RE: Why Respond to an Ad in a Genre You Don't Offer? - 3/20/2008 11:51:47 AM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		I believe it is called the fuck factor...........

As is the case with me, I like to either fuck, or fuck with everyone.

(You'll have to excuse my dry humor, I just left the British humor thread.)

Bull



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Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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