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westside -> Spanking... (9/29/2005 8:56:57 AM)
Is who spanks whom a good way to find which of the "switch" you fall on?

dommemagnet -> RE: Spanking... (9/29/2005 9:04:25 AM)
No, because by definition a switch can be alternatively the spanker or the spankee depending upon the mood. Unless a switch does both, they are either a sub or dom.

fastlane -> RE: Spanking... (9/29/2005 11:44:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: westside Is who spanks whom a good way to find which of the "switch" you fall on? YES, Spanker = Top Spankee = bottom but only for that session. Like dommemagn indicated, an hour later you may reverse roles and go from Top to bottom, which is why one would be labeled a switch. The are shizophrenic in a fun way, Top today - bottom tomorrow? Or vice versa ...... confused? Then you're a switch!

Saint -> RE: Spanking... (9/30/2005 3:34:28 PM)
Not really. Only you can figure out which side of being a switch you predominantly are. Take some time, dwell on your likes/dislikes, fantasies, etc.etc That should give you a good idea of what side you like most of all.

tarnishedhalo777 -> RE: Spanking... (9/30/2005 5:16:52 PM)
No, b/c my ex subbie was the emotionally dominant one even tho he is a pain slut. I am submissive emotionally even tho' I was the one doing the restraining and flogging.

FangsNfeet -> RE: Spanking... (10/14/2005 11:49:58 PM)
It really depends on what the Spanking is for. After all, if both deliver it as punishment, then yes it might as well be a swich couple. If the spanking is for pleasure, then you are looking at more of a D/s relationship. Being sadist or massochist has nothing to do with being a switch. It's the switching off of the D/s role of discipline that makes a couple a switch.

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