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Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 4:20:27 PM

MasterDarell

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Training a new slave. Does any one know if it's possible to train someone to overcome her natural gag reflex and if so what is the best way of doing that?

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 4:57:07 PM

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It's possible with practice. I've found that a peeled cuke warmed in the microwave for about 10 seconds is a good tool on which to practice. You don't have to worry about biting while the bottom is getting there but at the same time don't have to worry about something softer (like a banana) breaking during the process and causing a choke plus you can freeze the cuke between practice sessions. Start off with thinner rather than thicker cukes and once the thinner is mastered, you can gradually move up in size to the thicker ones until you get the bottom to the place you want.

Starting off slow, breathing through the nose giving the bottom complete control over the depth can help alleviate fear. Use some sort of mark on the cuke so the bottom can see their progress. (A small notch in the side will work.) Give lots of encouragement any time progress is made and be there while the practice goes on (after all, you'll have a vested interest in the outcome!) If no progress is made on a given day, don't worry about it or call it a failure. They have probably just reached a plateau and will just need to keep working on it.

When learning to deep throat, relaxation is key so setting a mood with music and lighting isn't going to do a bit of harm. Also, and don't laugh at this .. get the bottom a book on sword swallowing because the technique is the same.

With consistent practice and your encouragment, it shouldn't take all that long before deep throating becomes a thing of ease for the bottom and a source of pleasure for, hopefully, both of you.

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edited: Opps.. didn't realize this was in Ask a Master .. you can ignore me if ya want. ::chuckles::

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 5:10:09 PM

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When learning to deep throat, relaxation is key

Yes. Have her practice relaxing the back of her throat on the down slide, with thinner, flexible dildoes. She should go slow and try to take as much as she can with each try. If she practices on you, she will be more worried about pleasing you versus practicing her methodology. In this way, she can practice even when away from you, or during the day, if you work. Perhaps one day you'll come home and she'll have a surprise for you!! The Big Gulp!! *chuckle*

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 6:09:33 PM

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Just a friendly note, you probably already have this covered, as a beginner she will probably have a lot of trouble or will not be able to breathe at all when she first learns to perform this skill. It's very hard to learn to time yourself and breathe out of your nose, or even impossable if the object is too big. Good Luck!

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 7:01:34 PM

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Grab her by the hair, yank her head back and fuck her with 4 fingers ...oh...not in a nice way.
She will learn, eventually...

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 7:08:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Grab her by the hair, yank her head back and fuck her with 4 fingers ...oh...not in a nice way.
She will learn, eventually...

oh yes, yes.

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 7:22:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Grab her by the hair, yank her head back and fuck her with 4 fingers ...oh...not in a nice way.
She will learn, eventually...

I like your thinking

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 7:31:12 PM

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There are numerous threads covering this exact subject in the Ask a Submissive section. I would suggest checking there as there are countless posts by many people who have overcome this exact "hurdle".

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 8:17:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Grab her by the hair, yank her head back and fuck her with 4 fingers ...oh...not in a nice way.
She will learn, eventually...

And a great way to practice Roman showers! Kill two birds with one stone.

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/21/2008 8:31:56 PM

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Maybe starting off a little at a time and with encouragement she will continue at her pace to relax and be able to handle all of you .

For me i could never practice on anything that was not my Master , although some could in effect learn to down a dildo or cuke etc , some have a gag reflex with precum and cum itself so practicing on other items may not work ... i know if i had that problem it wouldnt work for me to practice on anything but my Master .

let her relax and practice on you with encouragement from you ....

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RE: Gag reflex - 3/22/2008 10:19:51 AM

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bita truble I was wondering why I see a femdom answering here, even tho I do respect the position of a Misstress, was concern did u know this was the Master answering section lol

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