MsBearlee
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ORIGINAL: sydneypig
I would like to share my experience since i am similiar in size(under 4inches) Every survey that i have seen would indicate that this is small.My experience with women....all have stated that this is small.
In regards to leading too a submissive mindset.....i believe it has in my mind.As a teenager i do not believe i was submissive or had submissive desires in a kinky sense.During my twenties when i started dating women i was like any male but receiving comments like "what a dissapointment"and"your such a big man,but you have such a small cock"and"you have a cock like a little boy"etc when leading to sex, had a major impact on me.At the time it was like a hit over the head,i became less confident,insecure, ashamed and felt less than a man.I began to take a more submissive role because i felt i was not a powerful male who could satisfy women.....and realized that women had the real power.So i became interested in dominant women......
As far as cuckolding goes, having been cuckolded in the more contempory sense,that is living with a woman who had affairs in our relationship which i knew.....although i felt quite negative emotions. I did not comment because i wanted her to be happy and that was more important to me than anything else.I do not have strong cuckold fantasies but i could move in that direction if a woman so desired because these days i have strong small penis humiliation desires....
I hope hearing from someone in a similiar situation helps you......
sydney,
I would like to say that your post was one of the most heartfelt, honest, and down to earth I’ve seen here. I cannot imagine how painful it must have been, hearing that crap as a young man. I can certainly understand how it undermined your self-worth and confidence.
I find it interesting and commend you for your attitude now that you have somehow managed to turn the pain around and find a way to enjoy your sexuality. I suppose we are shaped by our experiences, aren’t we?
Personally, I would hope you are able to find someone who would fit with what you desire…and cherish you for who you are and what you bring to a relationship. You are worth that.
I’m sorry…cheating is not my idea of ‘cuckolding’…not in the consensual way we here come to think of it here anyway; and unless you have agreed to an open relationship or Polyamory…it’s cheating, in my book.
As an aside, I sometimes think both size and penetration are over-rated. Still, I agree with what others have said here…that it’s a good idea to become a student of cunnilingus, g-spots, rimming, use of vibrators and dildos and all kinds of other sensuality. It is not by size alone that a man usually satisfies a woman. And what does a big man do when he runs out of Viagra?
http://www.cunnilingustutor.com/
MsB
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