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atendersoul -> in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:37:36 AM)
after talking a few times with some Masters here....they demand that i post on my profile that i am in consideration.... i find this impossible to do with just a couple of emails exchanged and will not do this. By this action, have been told that i am not true.... what is proper when a Master ask for someone to be in consideration? thank You for Your time....

SteelofUtah -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:40:36 AM)
I would suggest that you place them on Ignore and Block as it seems they are interested in chattle and not in getting to know you and meeting your needs. BY THE BY Just about anytime I see someone use the word TRUE or REAL I Block or Ignore them cause I don't have the time the patience of the desire to put up thier thier pompas arrogance. Happy Hunting Steel

domahpet -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:41:14 AM)
hm, meeting in real life, spending time together, building trust..... letting them know thay will be under consideration as well is a good way to help ease the flow of crap thats apparently heading your way. welcome to cm lol! only you know if youre true or not, stay true to yourself!

mnottertail -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:42:46 AM)
Only after you have actually gobbled course upon course of his splooge, and you can look each other in the face the next day and laugh. Really, Fersome Trainer Master

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:42:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul after talking a few times with some Masters here....they demand that i post on my profile that i am in consideration.... i find this impossible to do with just a couple of emails exchanged and will not do this. By this action, have been told that i am not true.... what is proper when a Master ask for someone to be in consideration? thank You for Your time.... Whatever you want. Most newbies are dying to be considered desireable and in some form of relationship, so they'll leap at any opportunity to express it to the world and feel like they belong. I'd say you have to answer a few questions: What does being in consideration mean for both of you? What does proclaiming in public mean for both of you? Does this work for who you are and who you want to become and why? If you can answer those questions, then you should be pretty good to go. But most people use it to mean "He's still shopping around, but keeping me in his basket so I won't be tempted by something better." http://www.collarchat.com/m_1440008/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#1440226 "Under Consideration" Are most a farce? http://www.collarchat.com/m_1015458/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#1015553 "Under Consideration" http://www.collarchat.com/m_570779/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#570947 "Under Consideration" what does it mean to you? http://www.collarchat.com/m_437842/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#437958 Putting under consideration http://www.collarchat.com/m_297748/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#297748 collaring levels http://www.collarchat.com/m_293199/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#293199 some slaves have no http://www.collarchat.com/m_249659/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#249659 "Under Consideration"??? http://www.collarchat.com/m_167264/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#167264 Under Consideration http://www.collarchat.com/m_167264/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#167264 taking someone under consideration http://www.collarchat.com/m_136495/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#136495 under consideration http://www.collarchat.com/m_86003/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#86003 different "stages"/different treatment?

Kalista07 -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 10:43:50 AM)
If it were me (and trust me it has been in the past) i would concern myself less with what other people thought or believed about me and focus on making sure my needs are getting met. A 'man' (term used loosely) who wants You to state on Your profile that You are 'under consideration' before You've ever met is not one who may always be what He portrays Himself to be, in my experience. But, then my experience has left me a little jaded. Do what feels best to You, and know there are no categorical lists of 'right' and 'wrong'. Kali

Level -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 11:18:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul after talking a few times with some Masters here....they demand that i post on my profile that i am in consideration.... i find this impossible to do with just a couple of emails exchanged and will not do this. By this action, have been told that i am not true.... what is proper when a Master ask for someone to be in consideration? thank You for Your time.... It's a well known fact that certain sources believe a "collar of consideration" can be offered only after significant bonding; let's say, oh, an hour after meeting is good. Or..... just say no. Find someone compatible.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 11:22:25 AM)
Under consideration, to me, is meaningless...let me know when you have reached a decision...and I will let you know when I have reached mine..[:)]..Tempting

DesFIP -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 11:28:56 AM)
Anybody who needs to tell you to put that up, instead of waiting until you want to shout to the hills that you are his, is not someone I want to be with. If he wants that validation so badly, why isn't he asking if he can mention you in his profile? The truth is, profiles aren't worth anything. Mine says I'm taken and I get requests to domme, orders to kneel and suck, and other nonsense several times a week. Wait until you meet someone with whom you feel a real connection. And being bitchy, my response would be to say something on the order of "The fact that you demanded this tells me you aren't a real dom". Followed by block and ignore.

robertolapiedra -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 11:54:08 AM)
Hello atendersol. If you like (enjoy) the protocol, do it. If not, do not. In my opinion those who say you are not "true" if you do not do this or that in the beginning are either full of themselves or full of shit (bull kind). Always remember that some doms (so called) have their insecurities also and like "self-reassuring" protocols.Good protocols (the enjoyed kind) usually serve to make things easier for the sub, not harder. In the beginning, usually the normal "get to know you" culturally accepted "protocol" is sufficient for most subs and doms. Of course there are always "true" exceptions, right? RL.

CalifChick -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:12:20 PM)
FR How about telling them, "I'll give that all the consideration it deserves." Cali

happypervert -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:29:36 PM)
You need a protector. Send me a picture of your titties, and I will protect you from those big bad men until you are really ready for consideration. [:D]

CelticPrince -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:35:58 PM)
soul, Anopther 'consideration" thing. It does not bind either of you and so it need not be posted. LA says it best! CP

robertolapiedra -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:36:26 PM)
Hello CalifChick. Humm..."true" consideration?[sm=idea.gif]RL.

Constrictor1 -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:38:33 PM)
atendersoul, this is said to be humorous , but to illustrate a point. " I want to think about whether or not you might be worthy of maybe wearing a collar from me. In the meantime you will publicly tell everyone that you are being considered to stop others from attempting to offer a real opportunity at growth while I sit here in my dominant glory figuring out if I can fit you into my calendar. " At this point would it not be easier to have them piss on you to mark you like a dog marks it territory? If you can't tell I don't really care for "consideration." Just one man's opinion. Constrictor1

sabirah -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:56:12 PM)
greetings, TemptingNviceSub well said, I concur. To me, I see it as a way for a very insecure wanna be dom, trying to control a very insecure submissive. quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub Under consideration, to me, is meaningless...let me know when you have reached a decision...and I will let you know when I have reached mine..[:)]..Tempting

xxblushesxx -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 12:58:14 PM)
pffftttt.... They don't like competition hun. If you want to be exclusive with these people right away, go ahead and do it. If not, just laugh and tell them you're not a twue submissive because you haven't received your handbook in the mail yet. (you didn't did you?)[;)]

warrenwriter -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 1:13:57 PM)
Technically, aren't all people we've dated once or twice "under consideration"? It's something rather silly, in my humble opinion, because it presumes a fact. It's much like a promise ring. It really doesn't mean anything, but maybe it allays your fears for a short period of time.

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 1:25:10 PM)
I have no problems with chattel. However to be under consideration is like getting engaged. Being collared is like getting Married with no possability of divorce

Justme696 -> RE: in consideration..... (3/22/2008 1:27:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul i find this impossible to do with just a couple of emails exchanged and will not do this. B then don't.......

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