DesFIP
Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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Your idea of a wannabe could be someone else's perfect dom, six months of experience down the line. References are for people who play in public. If you have 60 people say you swing a mean flogger, what that means to me is that you aren't capable of having a long term relationship. If you were married for 20 years and then divorced, you are capable of having a long term relationship, but I wouldn't want a reference from you ex. Even if you did plagarize, you could have added paragraphs.
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