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LadyHathor -> How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 4:27:14 AM)
Here is My number one pet peeve, ok one of My pet peeves--boys who may be a distance not thinking of things they can or could do to show devotion or celebrate a holiday with a Mistress when there is a distance involved. What happened to ingenious thinking? Like e-cards, mailing a card, sending flowers, sending a virtual gift--what happened to the thoughts? *How do you celebrate special occasions together when you are apart?*

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 5:25:46 AM)
Daddy and i celebrate with cards and FedEx gifts to each other. however i do understand your frustration - i know few guys (my pet is one of them) that you would have to drop MEGA hints and constantly remind them about upcoming holidays/birthdays. it does peeve me that he did forget to wish me a "happy easter" yesterday though i sent him an e-card.

DesFIP -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 7:56:09 AM)
He's not religious so it never even occurred to me to wish him a happy Easter. It isn't something personal like a birthday or an anniversary, it's a day for a person to commune with their God.

colouredin -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 7:59:36 AM)
I sent an E-Card because neither celebrate Easter I didnt make a big deal, its girlies brithday next week and I sent her card today.

AquaticSub -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 8:16:04 AM)
~Fast Reply~ When we were long distance, it never occured to either of us to find ways to celebrate Easter together. We may have visited for the 4th of July but probably because we are both firebugs and it happened to be on our visiting weekend. Things being as they are now, I'm rather happy he remembered not to wish me a happy Easter and he just doesn't care about religious holidays that someone else decided on. When he does care about such things, it is entirely for my sake.

LadyPact -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 9:53:55 AM)
I really don't have a good answer for you, Lady H. As I've mentioned on other boards, not only was yesterday Easter, but it was My wedding anniversary as well. I also happened to have put in a twelve hour day at work, so there was local 'distance', if you understand My meaning. I'm not particularly religious, so Easter isn't a significant event. I don't place particular importance to it, other than the opportunity for a good dinner and fun for little ones out hunting Easter eggs. I had pretty much established the day's importance geared more toward the anniversary than anything else. My sub spent the night Saturday, but left early Sunday morning to allow whatever private time was possible for My husband and I around My work schedule. My boy did send Me a note wishing Me a Happy Easter and best wishes for a Happy Anniversary, so I was more than satisfied.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 9:58:59 AM)
Angel and I have been apart for the majority of our holidays, birthdays and such. Even when I live here and he does as well, we dont always get to be together for those days. We message one another happy "whatever" and then make up for it when we see one another again. I took him shopping for his birthday, he takes me out to dinner for mine, when we eventualy get together afterwards. For other holidays, we usually dont do more than dinner either, since neither has the money to really be spoiling the other. Maybe I am wierd, but Id ratehr they ignore a holiday, then force a gift or card otr anythign else just ebcaue the date on the calender says so. I prefer the little cards, gifts, emails and phone calls I get on any old day, telling me they need me or want me rather than the Hallmark Holiday required effort on certain designated special days. DV

ownedgirlie -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 10:02:13 AM)
He is Jewish. :) And I don't celebrate Easter. Aside from that, we don't really do romanticy types of things. We'll wish each other a happy ___ day, and then we go about our days. We do cool and special things for each other all year. I buy him special gifts when I am inspired to, or if I see something really cool that I just know he will like. Such things come from a place of devotion and love and not due to a date on the calendar. But that's how I am wired. On the other hand, if it was his expectation and desire that I do fun things like send cards and candies on holidays, he would let me know that. As I was trained (yeah there's that awful word again lol), he communicated all of his expectations. He would rather I get it right and succeed, and made sure I never had to guess if he could help it. As you bring these boys into submission to you, do you let them know these things are important to you and you wish to be acknowledged in such a way?

LordOfTheMad -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 10:08:58 AM)
I don't send cards. If I don't feel inclined to wish someone a greeting via a more personal means, they're not worth bothering sending a card too.

colouredin -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 10:11:25 AM)
aww thats sad LordoftheMad, cards are lovely :D I tend to cover the whole thing in writing and then the person can keep it forever :D

Justme696 -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 11:56:35 AM)
I didn't do a thing about it...but will see her tomorrow :D (well I left an sms and an email today)

SailingBum -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 12:15:39 PM)
I'm curious what you sent your boy to mark the passing of easter? BadOne

MzMia -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 12:23:03 PM)
I am not in a long distance relationship, but I can share what I have done in the past! I am a possessive person, and I need to be in touch with my matey {even long distance}. Sooooooooooo long distance phone calls are damn near free these days, so phone time and CAM! I think inexpensive high quality CAM's have to help many long distance relationships, A LOT. Oh, the possibilities!! heehee [:D]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How did you celebrate the weekend with the distance? (3/24/2008 5:39:30 PM)
Ditto to Aquatic. Heck we LIVE together and still don't do anything to "celebrate" Easter. Unless you've expressly said "I would like for you to show me in little material ways that you are thinking of me and enjoying the holidays" I don't see where the problem is.

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