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RE: forced feminization - 5/31/2008 12:05:38 PM

bicuriousohiosub

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i share the same fantasies and desires. i hope its normal!

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RE: forced feminization - 5/31/2008 12:10:17 PM

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That is the one thing I do not understand about this fetish. If you ask for it, it is not forced. To be forced would be to do so against your will. Once you are femenized, what extent it goes to does not make it a force matter or not. You are already femme, regardless of if that femme stops in panties of it you go for the entire makeup wearing dress modeling body make over.
You cannot ASK to be raped, you canot ASK to be forced femenized.

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RE: forced feminization - 6/1/2008 3:51:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

That is the one thing I do not understand about this fetish. If you ask for it, it is not forced. To be forced would be to do so against your will. Once you are femenized, what extent it goes to does not make it a force matter or not. You are already femme, regardless of if that femme stops in panties of it you go for the entire makeup wearing dress modeling body make over.

No, but someone else in control of it, and pushing the boundaries of it, does involve an element of D/s. I imagine a Mistress who makes me wear more ultra-feminine or daring clothing than I would normally choose, or takes me out in public more often, or insists on ultra-ladylike behavior, or just decides when, where, and how I will dress at all times.

I have run into this question before -- "How can I force you when you like it?" It seems odd to me when no one seems to have trouble with the idea of, say, binding and whipping someone who likes it. In fact, any time you're around serious BDSM people you run into the world "consensual" constantly. I'm actually about to start another thread on this subject, so...

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RE: forced feminization - 6/1/2008 7:10:09 PM

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hah trust me...your normal when in company of the rest of the boys on here

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RE: forced feminization - 6/3/2008 2:57:16 AM

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the debate can go on for ever on is it forced or is not forced ? but i think Pinnipedster said it best so far as i ever seen it written or explained here.... Forced or not forced how far to take it how much is done and whos sees or how public you take it ? adding more fuel to the flams here if you sio like or not what type of panties would you like on the sub ?

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RE: forced feminization - 6/3/2008 6:41:42 AM

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You can't force the willing.

This is the knee-jerk reaction I've often seen, but it's actually not true. It's like saying someone can't be raped if they enjoy sex. Think about it, folks. The fact that you generally like something doesn't mean that someone can't force you to do it anyway.

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RE: forced feminization - 6/3/2008 9:30:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

You can't force the willing.

This is the knee-jerk reaction I've often seen, but it's actually not true. It's like saying someone can't be raped if they enjoy sex. Think about it, folks. The fact that you generally like something doesn't mean that someone can't force you to do it anyway.

I think you're looking at it rather incorrectly, personally. A person who loves sex doesn't -want- to be raped. A person who loves forced feminization does "want" to be forced. So no matter how much they're supposedly forced and pushed towards the femme side of things... It's still something that they want and desire. They actively seek it and promote it. So, it's not forced, it's merely guided by somebody under the extremely hot guise of being forced.

It's two entirely different things.

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RE: forced feminization - 6/3/2008 2:30:44 PM

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