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ORIGINAL: lokmyk

any mistresses out there that practise breathplay to the passing out point? which methods do you use ?

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ORIGINAL: lokmyk

any mistresses out there that practise breathplay to the passing out point? which methods do you use ?

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ORIGINAL: HerJewel

I rather feel like Gomer Pyle when someone says something that grabs me like that... sitting here with my mouth hanging open and thinking, "Go o ooolly." or "shezam!"

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I have a real lust for breath control and it's one of my kinks that's been with me as far back as I can remember. However, there are way too many safety issues that prevent me from exploring it beyond simple dabbling or roleplaying. Any breath control "to the point of passing out" is NOT safe. It's a gamble, and one I'm not willing to take.

I can't tell you how many times -- hundreds -- I've had a guy pass out from lack of oxygen. Of course, it was all make believe!

I practice breath control by putting my hand over his nose and mouth, by "ordering" him to hold his breath until I say stop, by face sitting, by holding his face roughly against my breasts, by putting him in the shower with clear glass doors and telling him that there's only enough air to last a minute.

In fact, I'll be engaging in my hottest breath control games tonight at the Anaheim/Los Angeles Kings game any time one of the boys goes to the penalty box. I just imagine what it would be like if his punishment was that the clear box was actually air tight, and my panties get soaked every time.

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam
<busts out laffin!
Thanks for the chuckle, HerJewel....lololol

Oh, the pleasure is all mine, Ma'am, believe me. I looove to see a woman enjoying! I try to keep my own ever-loving Mistress here in Ohio in stitches, I do... because she just loves her sharp things, you know.

On a more serious note than Gomer (who, by the way, was a classic, bumbling, yet good-hearted submissive just like me), breath play to the point of passing out is quite dangerous. I should know. I went to nursing school - twice - finally ended up quitting though, because I just didn't like HURTING people. I'm not a licensed professional, but I do know the heart can stop, if not this time, then perhaps the next, and even if the person revives time and again, it does damage to the heart and its electrical system. Passing out is already well into the dangerous part of this activity. Actually, even sleep apnea does damage to the heart, and if you think about it, those who have this disorder partially awaken and breathe well before the passing out stage.

Now... do I want her to do it until I panic and struggle, though? Do I want her to feel she has my life in her... um... control? Do I want to be totally immobilized and helpless, trusting that she loves me, and needs me to give her this power over me time and again. Do I enjoy her looking down and seeing a normally strong and spirited woman whose eyes are now begging her to allow me a breath? Do I FANTASIZE and write about more, and ever-increasing edge-play in this area? Am I getting excited just thinking my little thoughts here? You betcha!

But wise women and men know better than to put someone they love in true danger (although feigned is pretty fun sometimes), and not to let another put them in danger, so we keep it safe and sane too, which necessarily includes learning from others and health teachings as to what is, and was is not, good to try. And yes, I typed that all in one breath [;)] ...