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Question - 3/25/2008 1:28:45 PM   
TeaseDenialsub23


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My online Mistress wanted me to post on here in order to try help her out with something. Now she teases me via webcam and phone, and after she is done teasing me wants to try and monitor me through the night. I obviously can leave my cam on all night, but she wants to try to think of a way to make sure that I do not orgasm throughout the night other than by chasity. The best way I could think of is a chasity device with those plastic locks that can just be cut off for next time. But does anyone else have any ideas, because I do not have that as of now.

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 1:31:33 PM   
OsideGirl


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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 1:43:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ordering you should be all that a sub/slave needs.  It always works for me.  However, you could have problems whilst actually asleep and that would have to be solved by some kind of chastity device.  Being a female slave i am not qualified to tell you which one works the best so i wait with interest to see what male slaves say.  Have you posted this question on the Ask a Mistress board?  i would imagine they would have some good ideas lol!!

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 1:45:15 PM   
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 1:52:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		My thoughts precisely...  He would have to wear something surely, but then as this is an online relationship, he would have to be able to remove it himself.  Would he be able to do that in his sleep too...?

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 2:23:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seems to me that when you start getting into real time solutions, maybe it's time the relationship went there, first?  More so if the simple act of ordering you not to touch is insufficient....
 
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 2:33:39 PM   
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 2:35:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well its not about me not touching myself. I am not going to do that without permission. What is is ment to do is to try to give her more control, so that because we can only be online for now it has a more real feeling. Plus if I did happen to have a wet dream she would be able to know.

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 3:13:12 PM   
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Plus if I did happen to have a wet dream she would be able to know.
Wouldn't she know anyway? Because you'd be honest and tell her, right?

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:07:37 PM   
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:09:53 PM   
TeaseDenialsub23


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Status: offline 		yeah she would know, because I would tell her, but like i said its trying to give up more control.

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:12:28 PM   
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Well its not about me not touching myself. I am not going to do that without permission. What is is ment to do is to try to give her more control, so that because we can only be online for now it has a more real feeling. Plus if I did happen to have a wet dream she would be able to know.


So to have more control, hire a local--have them stand watch--they can beat you everytime you have a thought and She can watch--can you send Me the link to purchase the dreamometer? the alarm that goes off when a boy has a wetdream??
 
have you visited the thread on nicks?

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:13:37 PM   
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:21:15 PM   
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Castration?



 A solid solution. That will make that online stuff seem very real.

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:26:15 PM   
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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:28:04 PM   
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Castration?



 A solid solution. That will make that online stuff seem very real.


Can't help it....  


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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:28:30 PM   
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yeah she would know, because I would tell her, but like i said its trying to give up more control.


If it's control based, you're going to need to explore other avenues.  Ask her what clothes to wear, what time to get up, what you should eat, how to cut your hair, etc.

If she wants more control over you sexually, I think it's going to have to be in person.  All it takes is to switch off the computer, so like it or not, any 'control' she has, extends only as far as you're willing to embrace that fantasy.

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 4:48:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		What does androcur do? You have some good points Stephan I will let her know. I was thinking along the lines of some kind of bondage or way to enclose my penis like a chasity device would do but not a chasity device. Any ideas?

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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 5:37:30 PM   
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What does androcur do? You have some good points Stephan I will let her know. I was thinking along the lines of some kind of bondage or way to enclose my penis like a chasity device would do but not a chasity device. Any ideas?


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RE: Question - 3/25/2008 5:41:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TeaseDenialsub23

yeah she would know, because I would tell her, but like i said its trying to give up more control.
In my opinion (your mileage may vary) ultimate control is when it's mental. Obeying when you have no choice because of a device isn't really obedience. What's easier laying still while being caned using your own will? Or laying still while being caned because you're tied to the table?



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