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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 8:37:06 PM

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 8:40:16 PM

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i'm not into the whole "baby" thing, but i do occasionally get indulged by my Daddy in some semi-age regression (like coloring, eating cotton candy with him and generally getting to feel little and safe and warm with him)

That being said, i feel really awful for the couple on the video shown, i looked at the links you provided and the second one, OMG the comments from all of the people were just horrible..

it's not my thing, but in a certain way there is some of that in me, just a bit older, and i get how being little feels.

Edited to add: i don't think it reeks of any latent child abuse type of desires...it's just something different that some ppl don'tget.

Hiya cherry,

See this is something I totally understand. I often joke that charlotte is like a 12 year old. I've played with my last slave as if she was 5 even.

I think my issues with ABs derive from what appears to be a division between "I like to play as if I were younger sometimes" and an "I am a baby inside, all of the time, and only behave as an adult because I'm obligated to."

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 8:42:51 PM

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gotta love the diversity. to each their own and enjoy, we only go around once.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 8:47:08 PM

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Try the reverse... I am a Female Dominant and my Angel is a little crossdressing boy in diapers when we play.
Nothing odd here, nothing to see, move along.
No pedophelia involved, I am not sexualy interested in him becasue of the diapers or the baby play. ACtually, we are not a sexual relationshp but thats splitting hairs. We enjoy it becasue it fits us. If otehrs dont, I just dont discuss it with them, but I am not going to change how he and I do things just to make it more user friendly for outsiders. What I do with my life is for me to worry about and for others to accept or reject, and thats fine. Just accept and reject and realize I wont change regardless of your decision.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 8:58:19 PM

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I find it completely unattractive and a bit repulsive, I guess I've changed to many dirty diapers.
I wouldn't equate baby play with pedophiles, since the scenarios I've seen are more about the baby than the Daddy/Mommy

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 9:00:15 PM

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If he said woman in diapers, I'd have the same reaction I have to many things: "Hey, whatever floats your boat".

I don't judge on that front unless someone is doing somethig truly harmful or abusive; for instance, I'm not okay with a disembowelment kink.

However, if he said "girls in diapers" I'd probably need to ask a few questions to figure out if he meant the adult baby thing, which is fine, or if he was a pedophile, which is not. So, overall, as long as it's the kink, whatever, knock yourself out. I'm sure there are stranger things out there (this is not an invitation to prove it).

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 9:00:55 PM

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If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought?

Diapers are cheaper than viagra. If it works, it works.

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Do you accept it as just another fetish? Are you ok with it?

Yes x2.

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Do you just shrug and move on?
......or.......
Do warning bells start ringing? Do you think pedophile? Are you disgusted? Do you think "FREAK"?

No to all the above.

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What about a girl who enjoys being a baby?

What about her?

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I'm going to be on a tv show soon to talk about what it's like to be an adult baby. There are already a couple of clips from the show floating around the internet. Most of the feedback that I've read has been negative. I'm wondering if the BDSM community (which I'm also a part of) has a different opinion than the general public. Here are a couple of the links:
http://link.brightcove.com/services/link/bcpid296756391/bclid301793942/bctid1453516500
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/267568/

(p.s. I'm not trying to advertise. I'm really looking for honest opinions here.)

Have fun with it. My wish would be for people to respond in an adult, mature fashion. My experience tells me that when it comes to kinks which lie outside someone's kinky 'norm', many tend to be neither adult nor mature about it.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 10:10:42 PM

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If he's sexually aroused by a 'woman' in diapers, then it by definition can't be pedophilia. If it were 'babies' in diapers that he was actually sexually attracted to, the adult woman would do nothing for him.

Personally, not my kink, but I couldn't give two hoots if anyone else wants to do it, so long as they undertake it in a healthy fashion (like making sure the diapered woman doesn't wind up with fecal matter in her vaginal canal).

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/25/2008 11:34:53 PM

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I don't get the daddy/daughter thing. To me diapers and drinking out of a bottle in a humilation thing, something that is done when I have been acting like a spoilt brat/child, its a case of if i act that way then i will be treated that way.

The AB thing doesn't gross me out or anything I just don't understand it. It may not be my kink but who am I too judge anothers kink.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 3:46:54 AM

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Thank you all for your responses. I'm love psychology and people in general. It's interesting to me that the vanilla world is completely turned off and disgusted by ABs, the BDSM world doesn't really care, and the AB/DL world is cheering me on. I love it!

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 3:58:21 AM

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Disgusted? No. It doesn't offend my senses thus. Freak? Hardly, we all have our differences in taste and pleasure, just because it doesn't appeal to me so strongly doesn't mean I have any right to think ill of it.

What I do think is that people should be honest with themselves, first and foremost. If it's something someone enjoys, who does it harm? Life is too short, and too miserable to limit oneself merely for the sake of avoiding scorn and derision.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 4:09:06 AM

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Well, I'm a guy so if another guy told Me that, I wouldn't be bothered either way, if a gal said it though I'd be interested because it may open lots of door in terms of humiliation play, and I'd be interested to find out what -else- she was into.

Not the kind of answer you were looking for I'm betting but its how My mind works I'm afraid.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 4:32:51 AM

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Not my kink, so definitely not compatible. But if that was just about the first thing he said, then I'd know he was just looking for a casual fetish play partner, not a true partner and I don't do casual.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 4:37:59 AM

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I'd know he wasn't the man for me because I'm not into diapers or being an adult baby. That said if people enjoy that activity more power to them. I wouldn't assume he was a pedophile because he is playing with an adult. As for her, its her turn on and it isn't hurting anyone so why not?

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 5:03:20 AM

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I would shrug and move on. If it gets somebody's juices flowing, then it's their thing. I won't have anything to do with it, but I'm not scandalised or anything. Just think it's a weird fantasy.

I don't see it as having any link with pedophilia. That thought had never crossed My mind actually.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 5:14:27 AM

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{If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought? }

If it was during the course of a fetish conversation, I wouldn't think anything negative about it (even tho' it isn't one of my own personal kinks).
If it was out of the blue or from a stranger, I might wonder why they are bringing it up and I might feel a little trepidation about their mindset or intentions.
IMO it's a pretty personal thing to share just casually in convo. But, then again that could be said about many kinks or fetishes.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 5:28:18 AM

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If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought?

Great! Someone else who thinks like I do!

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Do you accept it as just another fetish? Are you ok with it? Do you just shrug and move on?
......or.......
Do warning bells start ringing? Do you think pedophile? Are you disgusted? Do you think "FREAK"?

It's an acceptable fetish just as any other. I personally find it very arousing. Unlike what many have said, I don't automatically associate it with scat (which is another perfectly fine fetish, just one I don't happen to share).

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What about a girl who enjoys being a baby?

I enjoy that myself. It's not a full-time "I'm a baby" mentally and psychologically thing at all, but we have done some play involving pacifiers, being bottle-fed, cradled, etc (no diapers yet). In fantasy and reality it was very arousing and psychologically fulfilling.

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I'm going to be on a tv show soon to talk about what it's like to be an adult baby. There are already a couple of clips from the show floating around the internet. Most of the feedback that I've read has been negative. I'm wondering if the BDSM community (which I'm also a part of) has a different opinion than the general public. Here are a couple of the links:
http://link.brightcove.com/services/link/bcpid296756391/bclid301793942/bctid1453516500
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/267568/

Interesting clips. Too bad there are so many moronic jerks out there willing to shred you and yours over something they don't understand. Good luck...............luci

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 5:38:30 AM

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You have every right to enjoy any sort of activity that makes you happy.

not so sure Stephann I agree with this statement taken in or out of context--as that opens a multitude of things deemed illegal by societies. I might perchance add "within reason"---

as for the OP----if the general public didnt have a differing opinion of WIITWD, then we'd be mainstream wouldn't we?

It's always been amazing to Me that society has accepted ( for the most part) same sex couples long before it has accepted someone wearing diapers under their clothes as a kink or preference. IMHO

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 5:57:53 AM

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If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought?Very first thought: That I'm not physically comfortable in a diaper. Emotionally fine, but they don't physically feel comfortable.

Do you accept it as just another fetish? Are you ok with it? Do you just shrug and move on?
......or....... I totally accept it.
Do warning bells start ringing? Do you think pedophile? Are you disgusted? Do you think "FREAK"? Not at all, infact I get irritated when someone reacts that way.

What about a girl who enjoys being a baby? Well I can't not like that.. cuz aside from not being diaper-comfy I've been a babygirl several times. It is comforting and I like it. I wish you the best in your attempt to explain this to those that don't understand it. I hope that you don't let any negativity bother you!As long as you are okay with it that is all that counts, I know this can be a hot button and squicky thing for some folks.

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RE: What's your first reaction? - 3/26/2008 6:04:01 AM

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long ago i met a dominant here who enjoyed seeing (and snapping pics) of submissives in diapers which included having them talk baby sounds/talk, pooping/peeing in the diapers and bathing them like babies. i was told he got the fetish idea from caring for seniors.

i told him he was a sick freak and could never see myself revert back to infancy.

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