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Stephann -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 7:02:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor quote: You have every right to enjoy any sort of activity that makes you happy. *not so sure Stephann I agree with this statement taken in or out of context--as that opens a multitude of things deemed illegal by societies. I might perchance add "within reason"---* *as for the OP----if the general public didnt have a differing opinion of WIITWD, then we'd be mainstream wouldn't we?* *It's always been amazing to Me that society has accepted ( for the most part) same sex couples long before it has accepted someone wearing diapers under their clothes as a kink or preference. IMHO* Like the assault I'm guilty of when I swing a flogger? Or the violation of state laws when I made use of dildos, when I lived in Texas? Kindly refer to my disclaimer. Stephan

TracyTaken -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 7:05:06 AM)
I don't think it's freaky. I don't think it is in any way related to pedophilia. I would have said "not my kink" until I watched the video. It looked like charming fun. Maybe something I'd try sometime, without scat play and the like, just because that would make me gag. Liver and onions make me gag too, but I don't mind that other people like it. [;)] You are gutsy for putting it out there where many narrow-minded jerks will go balistic over it. But, those people don't matter anyway.

LaTigresse -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 7:14:57 AM)
My absolute first reaction would be something like "okayyyyyyy!" or "well, alrighty then!" ......and NEXT!

akisha -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:11:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subsnow If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought? Thanks but no thanks. Not my thing but what ever blows your hair back. quote: Do you accept it as just another fetish? Are you ok with it? Do you just shrug and move on? Accept it as their fetish not mine and move on. quote: ......or....... Do warning bells start ringing? Do you think pedophile? Are you disgusted? Do you think "FREAK"? Nope, none of the above. Well the thought of myself in a diaper i would find disgusting but again. What ever gets their motor running is fine with them, its just not for me. quote: What about a girl who enjoys being a baby? Glad therea are some to match the Guys that want girls in diapers S But again, not my thing so don't really concern myself about it.

Sunnyfey -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:16:06 AM)
both my gay male roomates are AB and I dident know it when we moved in together...we all knew each of us were in the lifestyle, and the boys are dateing...they told me and all though I dont understand the dynamic behind it, they enjoy it and are happy. Then again they dont understand the dynamic me and my Sir have.....its how they do WIIWD and...well I have my way of WIIWD. We're all happy and have a blast living together....I dont mind a giggle at the sub ABer being a brat and he gets a giggle when I go uber subby and chastise him for being a bratty boy...and....fun dynamic none of us epected...us subbys tell on each other!!! And thats FUN

Gemini1766 -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:37:41 AM)
My thought, if it works for you, good for you. Another thought, it doesn't affect me as it is not something I partake of, so no reason for it to bother me. The people involved are consenting adults, and that's what matters.

AMaster -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:48:55 AM)
I'm not into that, but I have no problem with those who are. Who an I to judge? Believe it or not, some people think I'm kinky and strange.

subsnow -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:57:27 AM)
It seems as if everyone is saying pretty much the same thing. That's great! I'm glad that there are SOME open minded and accepting people in this world. I like what mastervalentine said: quote: What I do think is that people should be honest with themselves, first and foremost. If it's something someone enjoys, who does it harm? Life is too short, and too miserable to limit oneself merely for the sake of avoiding scorn and derision. This is one of the biggest reasons why I did the show. This is what I live by. It's why I know I'll be fine no matter how much negativity I recieve. It's what gives me confidence.

JohnWarren -> RE: What's your first reaction? (3/26/2008 8:57:59 AM)
When I'm asked questions about fetishes by vanillas, I try to difuse the tension by making it a nonsexual allegory. I ask the interviewer if he or she likes anchovies on pizza. If the person says "yes," I ask "can you explain why you want to ruin a delicious pizza with a piece of fish?" If no, I ask, "Can you imagine anyone explaining why you should like fish on your pizza?" Usually that gets 'em thinking. Another hint. If the interviewer is hostile, don't get hostile back. Your job isn't to win the jerk over; it's to get dispassionate information to the audience.

OnlyMels -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 6:51:32 PM)
Hey we all have our things I mean you can enjoy sitting under a sink and masturbate while your dom/me blows up balloons and throws them at you. ( Don't ask.. random thing my Daddy has said)

MsSaskia -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 9:34:46 PM)
Just saw the episode you were in last night. You did a great job! I really appreciated how supportive your family is. I kind of thought my family might be a little weird for being so supportive of me and my relationship and job (pro domme), so it was nice to see other families who are so cool and comfortable with their pervert freak members. [;)] I'm not so much into the AB scene, although I do have a client who's presents as a toddler girl when I see him, and that's fun. We do arts and crafts and decorate cookies and I take him to see kids movies and cover his eyes during the scary parts. He wears diapers with bloomers or plastic pants over them, but I don't change them. The group chew toy/mascot for my house became a diaper fetishist after the first time I put him in one for humiliation purposes. One of my apprentices is hosting an age play party this weekend and it's interesting how the diaper fetishists who aren't into AB stuff are trying to find a comfort level with being around other adult diaper wearers who don't present as adults. Fascinating stuff!

LadyPaige -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 10:08:31 PM)
I have to really respect your courage to reveal your fetish to the vanilla world. It isn't a kink I get into, but watching you I can see why you would enjoy feeling so cared for and cared about. I hope the reaction you get from people face to face is better than what the feedback was on those links, you deserve better.

SailingBum -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 10:15:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subsnow If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? What is your first thought? My first thought would be why in the fuck are you telling me this. Then I would explain to you my fav turn on is fucking my neighbors patio furniture. Like I give a shit what your kink is. BadOne

SailingBum -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 10:28:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPaige I have to really respect your courage to reveal your fetish to the vanilla world. It isn't a kink I get into, but watching you I can see why you would enjoy feeling so cared for and cared about. I hope the reaction you get from people face to face is better than what the feedback was on those links, you deserve better. The OP has issues. I adore fucking patio furnature. Do I have the need to show the world how I get off??? Uh no. BadOne

lilabbotsfordgrl -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 10:35:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subsnow If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? Do you think pedophile? You said "woman", so why would anyone assume he's a pedophile? If he was a pedophile, wouldn't he be chasing childre n? Diapers aren't my thing, but I don't see any harm in people with a fetish around diapers. That, and other forms of age play, can be very therapeutic. Just check out the many threads here on the topic. While some say "ewwww, shudder", that's a closed-minded reaction imo. NOTHING should be shunned from our community as "too weird" for crying out loud.

MsHonor -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/2/2008 11:11:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann You have every right to enjoy any sort of activity that makes you happy. I mentioned earlier, "if you want to dress up like a hobbit and dance on a pile of headless rubber duckies in a monsoon while singing Micheal Jackson tunes, you get on with your bad self." Dude. Now you -know- there's going to be porn of it on the tubes within a few weeks. Rule 34. quote: ORIGINAL: subsnow Do warning bells start ringing? Do you think pedophile? Are you disgusted? Do you think "FREAK"? I think you've got the opinions you were looking for... Sounds like an interesting project, and should be a ratings pleaser, at the very least. The only point I wanted to add was to agree / point out / reiterate that these are not behaviours indicative of pedophelia... Oh, and that, if I say "freak." to someone, then I'm more likely to find them endearing than disgusting. And while the whole diapers / AB thing means I probably won't want to come to their next party, it's not the best I've heard... Nothing quite makes me go "ew." as effectively as when an acquaintance told me she liked to be vomited on. Even then, it wasn't a "get away from me." ew... just a "well, -we- won't be dating..." ew.

DelilahDeb -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/3/2008 12:02:20 AM)
quote: If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? Have a nice life. Not my thing. Good luck with TV interacting with AB. Bad enough when I get the annual Halloween calls to interview a real witch. Delilah Deb

ExSteelAgain -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/3/2008 1:44:03 AM)
Go for it if it turns you on. Don't get any on ya. [:)]

DesFIP -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/3/2008 9:06:56 AM)
"I'm not compatible with this. Good luck" would be my response.

Justme696 -> RE: What's your first reaction? (4/3/2008 9:18:12 AM)
quote: If a man told you that he was sexually aroused by a woman in diapers, what would your first reaction be? why do you tell me?

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