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OsideGirl -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 7:13:50 AM)

Married for 7 years and together for 8 eight years. My previous relationship was 6 years. We have several friends that have together longer than Master and I.




Mercnbeth -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 8:02:00 AM)

we met in March of 2003, committed to each other in September of that same year as Master and slave, married in September of 2006 and can't stand to be away from each other at present.[:)]




littleone35 -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 11:49:23 AM)

Is is possible as you see from the other postings.  Master have been together for 2+ years and we ane not breaking up any time  and he says he is never letting me go.

Matt's littleone




whipkicksmai -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 12:14:38 PM)

of course it's possible, been with mine for 3 years, he is my Master, my partner my everything, we are to have a hand fast ceremony later this year, to hold us together for  life,
neither of us feel we need to get married and to us this is much better my collar meant everything the hand fast will just be the icing on the cake and make him more my owner and partner.






Rayne58 -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 10:40:13 PM)

Together just over 4 years, married since December 9 2006 [:)]




MaamJay -> RE: LTR (3/28/2008 9:59:04 AM)

Oh, I remember the time when it dawned on Me that people actually LIVE this way ... and that maybe I could too! Exciting moments! So, to encourage you OP:

Met July 2003, He moved over 5000 miles to live with me June 2004, He collared me June 2006, February 2007 i left the state where i'd lived 40 years to travel back 5000 miles with Him to settle near His home. Master and i are very much in love, very happy, despite all the trials of life.

The Domme side of Myself has had much more up and down times ... currently seeking a sub who will live with U/us and be a longterm 24/7 member of Our poly family.

YES IT CAN HAPPEN ... but don't expect it to happen overnight! And don't get overanxious when it starts to happen and throw yourself in at the deep end (read the Jealousy thread for an eg where I think that's the case!). Use the time in between to educate yourself!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]




Bound2One -> RE: LTR (3/28/2008 11:19:18 PM)

It does exist.  It just may take you a long while to find someone you're that compatible with. 




SirsPetAdrina -> RE: LTR (3/28/2008 11:59:37 PM)

it exists because i fore see me and Sir are lifemates and will be together for a long time




eyesopened -> RE: LTR (3/29/2008 6:02:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lmystery

Is there such a thing as a long term relationship within this lifestyle. i seek someone that can be my Dom / Master as well as my soul mate i want someone in which i can give myself to completely but i want him to be able to do the same. am i asking for to much? Does the life i seek exist?

thank you lmystery


As you can see LTR does exist.  However, the problem seems to be that a lot of female submissives want the "soulmate" thing FIRST it's like arriving at your destination without ever having to actually travel.  By seeking "The One" and not being willing to investigate, discover or simpy enjoy. 

Truth is a lot of Dominants get skittish about the whole soulmate thing.  Let relationships grow on their own and don't worry so much about finding the One and He may just appear when you least expect it.




hejira92 -> RE: LTR (3/29/2008 6:19:31 AM)

There's a happy sub/slave rollcall thread right now that just keeps getting longer.
 
I second eyesopened. Have fun, explore, discover all the new and wonderful things about yourself in this lifestyle.
 
When Master and I first got together (2 years ago), He was very clear that He wanted a submissive, not a girlfriend. I had to weigh the pros and cons and decide if it was enough to accept His collar. I decided that, even as His sub, the regard and care with which He treated me was enough for me- if I fell in love with Him, I could deal with it. Lo and behold- less than 6 months in- He fell in love with ME!
 
I took a chance to have a wonderful Dominant and now I have it all. It's out there. Don't be afraid to go for the brass ring.




sabis -> RE: LTR (3/29/2008 2:43:21 PM)

Yes. 8 years together, nearly 3 years married.  It can happen. It can last. :)
 
PS:  Aquatic: Congrats!!!!!




BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: LTR (3/29/2008 2:48:20 PM)

WE are a married DOM couple and those around us said it wouldn't last since our personalities clashed so much, here we are married and still in love after 9  wonderful years.it can and will last if the love is there...bounty




LadyHathor -> RE: LTR (3/29/2008 2:51:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Well op first you have to ditch the boots. Im a leg man. Can't do long term while the boots are there.


yep and the babycarrier---not good, nope not good, subliminals.[:o]




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