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Best Place to find someone? - 10/1/2005 6:07:03 PM

StevenJ33

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hello all,

I am really interested in finding a female dominant, I had one and that's over and I would like to get another one. Where is the best place to find someone that could such a person?

thank you for your time.

Steven.

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/1/2005 6:19:14 PM

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hard to say where the best physical or virtual location would be, but I have noticed in my own life & by observing others that we tend to find our mates/matches when we aren't looking.

Good luck with meeting yours

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/1/2005 7:26:43 PM

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I think you should look at Dommes R us in the leather asile.

Seriously you find a new Domme the same way you found the previous one. Munches, conferences, etc. I would also recommend a more respectful tone to your profile, it comes off kind of like a bar pick up.

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/1/2005 8:58:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: StevenJ33

hello all,

I am really interested in finding a female dominant, I had one...

Steven.

Based on the many threads we've had on this site, I bet there are a lot of submissives who would be dying to hear how you managed to find your previous "female dominant" in the first place (and, perhaps, why you don't see that same method as working now.)

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/1/2005 9:29:56 PM

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Where did you find the first one? Try that route again. M

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/2/2005 5:27:48 AM

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quote:

hello all,

I am really interested in finding a female dominant, I had one and that's over and I would like to get another one. Where is the best place to find someone that could such a person?

thank you for your time.

Steven.

Personally, I would flat out turn down anyone who contacted me with a profile like yours...Honestly. It makes you look really bad.

But that said, I think if one is seriously looking, you need to do a combination of things. Have a couple of personals posted online that are complete, really paint a good picture of who you are and are RESPECTFUL of others.....but also get out and about regularly in the local scene, making the effort to be friends with everyone, i.e. not just chasing after potential dommes. Volunteer to do things for local organizations, clubs, get out to a munch or two a month.

It will most likely take a fair amount of time and effort.

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/2/2005 10:49:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood
get out and about regularly in the local scene, making the effort to be friends with everyone, i.e. not just chasing after potential dommes. Volunteer to do things for local organizations, clubs, get out to a munch or two a month.

Excellent advice. In the Detroit area, there should be more than one to choose from.

And yes, Steven your profile paints an unattractive picture of yourself. You might want to put some more work into it.

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RE: Best Place to find someone? - 10/2/2005 11:04:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: StevenJ33

hello all,

I am really interested in finding a female dominant, I had one and that's over and I would like to get another one. Where is the best place to find someone that could such a person?

thank you for your time.

Steven.

You talk about femdoms like we are a commodity or a "thing." You don't "get" a femdom just because you want one. Like most women, they expect a certain level of respect and a connection before they will want to get intimate.

You can "get" domination by contacting a local professional dominatrix and paying her for her services.

Other than that, you have to rely on your charm, classiness and wit to connect with a woman so that she'll find you attractive and have a desire to dominate you. So far, you haven't done much to differentiate yourself from the masses.

And at 27, you shouldn't be referring to women as "chicks" (from your profile) -- that's high school maturity.

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