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ORIGINAL: kentaro1980

Hello everyone :)

I have had an amusing message exchange the past 2 days during which, among other things, I was informed that my profile (30 some lines, not exactly a novel) is way too long for a "real Lady" to read. (her words)

So the question that is really already answered by myself but still I'd like some input -

What is an appropriate profile?

I have had some help from another Dominant on this site who gave me a few pointers and changed some text and told more about my person than my sexual preference and preferred activity, yet this was exactly what  that woman wanted to know:

"write more about how you would serve your mistress".

Personally I find that a bit tasteless and it ranks right up there with posting detailed photos of the crotch.
Sex (or more widely: playing), even though important in any relationship, isn't the only thing that I gauge a potential Mistress on.
I also like to exchange a thought or two and I don't want to hold back on a debate about any  subject just because she's the Mistress and "Mistress in always right" <- this is out of scene...I'm talking about a debate like Firefox versus Internet Explorer..which is the best way to make a snowman...why do people do retarded things and so on.
Yet when I explained my point of view ("I disagree. I  prefer reading profiles that give a little hint about who the person is rather than a short profile that has 2 or 3 cryptic quotes") I was told I'm being argumentative.

To wrap it up...what do you prefer in a profile? Both from the length of the text and the content?

Do you prefer short profiles that get straight to the point?
Do you prefer longer profiles that give more insight?
Do you prefer profiles where preferred sexual acts are not just hinted but written in bold red letters
Do you prefer profiles with little to no reference to playing?

Sincerly,

Kentaro  (not japanese)

If they r too lazy to read your profile, in which you put much effort, better then the emptyonce on here, or the oneliners, it says all about them, and not you kentaro.

That's a good start to see if they r genuine
to have read all which is importent to you.
It gives a good impression to whom you're.

There are more then one chatrooms out there on CM, so widen your horizon, and who knows who you ran into [:D]

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`