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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 3:37:19 PM

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lol it grosses me out too seeing as i work in a care home and clean up the urine on people etc i dont find it remotly sexy at all not even slightly not a little bit nope nope ewwwww, not as much as people licking eyeballs though (like seriously thats just odd)

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 4:42:20 PM

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Eyeballs? Seriously?

Gross.

And the idea of watersports icks me no end.

I have had an offer to buy my piss-soaked knickers on here... I just say I've managed bladder control, thanks, and block!

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 5:33:18 PM

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piss play is gross I have done it and it was just nasty. I had to drink it one time form this Dom and couldn't drink it and accidently spilled it on his couch it was gross

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 5:46:24 PM

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I can understand your feelings on this, because I feel the same way about playing with shit, but piss doesn't bother me much at all. In fact sometimes I crave the humiliation of being peed on and "marked". And although I don't like to swallow it, I love having my mouth pissed in, as long as I can let it run out, or spit it out. It's not about the taste or smell of it for me; that IS kind of gross. It's more about the submission to it that turns me on. It's just one of those things that makes me feel lower than low and totally objectified like a dirty little used-up whore.

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 11:17:28 PM

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I wasn't fearful of watersports, I just didn't 'get' it or really have any desire for it, however, I was curious. Master isn't into it, but he arranged a fairly short scene that was warm and intimate (in the shower, candlelight). My reaction was 'ok, been there, done that, don't have to revisit.' Master isn't into it, I'm neutral about it, so there we stand.

As always, know the one you scene with so that you can trust him/her not to cross your limits!

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/28/2008 11:34:20 PM

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mmmmmmmmm Watersports, After five months together Master and I actaully came to that topic of discussion the other night, i had never raised it because i didn't know how he felt about it but it came up in joking around the other night and it seems we both have the same approach to it. Neither love it or hate it. Its a useful tool that helps me feel put in my place after all kneeling there while someone pisses on you is pretty submissive. It puts me in aparticular head space that I love, I love the humilation and degrading aspects of it as well and theres just something about it that is so intimate.

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/29/2008 8:03:23 AM

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Thanks to you all. My biggest concern regarding watersports isn't meeting up with someone who will consentually try to push my limits and expand them. What I am most afraid of is someone who appears to care about my limits until I amm completely immobilized and then pretends that I have no limits. I know there is someone on CM who would do this, but your comments have made me feel better that I might not ever run across that type of person.

So don't agree to restraints until you feel comfortable with him. Until you're had enough time to see what kind of person he really is. Nowhere does it say you have to do everything by yesterday. Take as much time as you need to get the relationship you want. And anyone who won't let you go at a pace you feel safe with, isn't someone to be in a relationship with.

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/29/2008 3:31:28 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: saradeanna469

Thanks to you all. My biggest concern regarding watersports isn't meeting up with someone who will consentually try to push my limits and expand them. What I am most afraid of is someone who appears to care about my limits until I amm completely immobilized and then pretends that I have no limits. I know there is someone on CM who would do this, but your comments have made me feel better that I might not ever run across that type of person.

So don't agree to restraints until you feel comfortable with him. Until you're had enough time to see what kind of person he really is. Nowhere does it say you have to do everything by yesterday. Take as much time as you need to get the relationship you want. And anyone who won't let you go at a pace you feel safe with, isn't someone to be in a relationship with.

I would never be immobilized unless I trusted the person. I'm just afraid someone will break the trust while I can't do anything about it. I worry way too much which is probably why I'm not with anyone right now.

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RE: Phobia of watersports - 3/29/2008 3:44:31 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: saradeanna469

Thanks to you all. My biggest concern regarding watersports isn't meeting up with someone who will consentually try to push my limits and expand them. What I am most afraid of is someone who appears to care about my limits until I amm completely immobilized and then pretends that I have no limits. I know there is someone on CM who would do this, but your comments have made me feel better that I might not ever run across that type of person.

So don't agree to restraints until you feel comfortable with him. Until you're had enough time to see what kind of person he really is. Nowhere does it say you have to do everything by yesterday. Take as much time as you need to get the relationship you want. And anyone who won't let you go at a pace you feel safe with, isn't someone to be in a relationship with.

I would never be immobilized unless I trusted the person. I'm just afraid someone will break the trust while I can't do anything about it. I worry way too much which is probably why I'm not with anyone right now.

Bingo. We have a winner. At least for me and mine, piss play is in many ways about submission. *Giving Over* in spite of fears and reservations. Being marked, submitting to what's not necessarily pleasant. This is at the heart of our power exchange dynamic. Who knows, you might just be a vanilla person that likes a spanking with her sex, and submission just isnt in the cards.

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