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dea2008 -> What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 11:11:39 AM)

I am scared to get some infection or virus
How the best I can protect myslef sanitarially in order to protect my self from any virus ?
What practice is dangerous sanitarially speaking ?
Thank you




chamberqueen -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 11:15:30 AM)

To protect from STDs, use a condom.  Refrain from taking in any bodily fluids, especially blood and feces which can carry hepatitus.  Urine is typcial safer but still not a good idea to drink unless you are aware of the risks.

If any toys are used make sure that they have been cleaned, especially anything insertible such as a dildo or butt plug. 

Most skilled Dom/mes keep everything safe and clean.  If it is a concern of yours bring it up to the one that you will be meeting with.  There is nothing wrong in letting it be known that this is a fear of yours.




Leatherist -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 11:17:12 AM)

Avoiding bing bittten to the point of skin breaking is a good idea as well.




chamberqueen -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 11:19:17 AM)

Very true, along with any other type of skin breakage such as piercing, cutting, or severe paddling (be it with paddle, cane, whip, etc.)




MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 3:59:45 PM)

Do a search for safe sex practices in your primary language.   There is TONS of information out there.




undergroundsea -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 7:59:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dea2008


The risks you describe exist with activities that involve exchange of bodily fluids and the two partners are not fluid-bonded. To mitigate this risk, you can (1) avoid activities that have such an exchange, (2) take steps to prevent the exchange of fluids if you enage in such an activity, or (3) limit who you play with and become fluid-bonded with someone with whom you have mutually verified your respective health statuses.

Service is fairly safe. I feel reasonably good about the safety of footworship--I've been fortunate to not encounter any athlete's foot and, thus, have never had a case of athlete's mouth ;-)

Cheers,

Sea




Lynnxz -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 9:07:46 PM)

Ewwww.. athlete's mouth sounds like pretty serious business...  [:'(]

OP... Bring your own toys. I'm a pro sub, so in order to stay safe, I bring my own stuff... from the cuffs to the cane to the piles and piles of rope.  If someone wants to bring something in.. it's got to be in the original packaging.. haha.

I don't have sex with anyone, but I suppose if you are, and are wanting to stay safe, I'd say use a condom, and a dental dam if you are doing anything oral.




bipolarber -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/28/2008 9:31:51 PM)

Safe sex and STD's aside, you might also consider taking a shower immediately afterward, using an anti bactirial soap, and keep a little Purell in your overnight/playbag. Some viruses, like the one that causes the flu, can remain on your skin, and infiltrate your body when you pick your nose, eat, or even scratch your ear. "Points of entry" are any places where you might put your hands, that have soft tissue.

Of course, the single best way to avoid all of this, both safer sex and viral exposure, is to have your scene online, on the phone, or with your partner across the room, directing you.

If you don't want to get THAT impersonal, then I'd suggest simply not getting intimate until you've met someone you trust, and have had traded medical reports with them.




MistresssAria -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/29/2008 12:19:17 AM)

All the fun stuff is dangerous.............*pouts*.  [sm=crop.gif]




LeatherBentOne -> RE: What is the most secure session ? (3/30/2008 7:16:35 AM)

Purchase your own toys and refuse to play with anyone elses.




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