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MontrealPhoenix -> RE: The end (3/29/2008 11:48:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: colouredin
Ok so ya'll probably know ive had a shit time emotionally recently (some do anyways) and due to a missunderstanding im now a bit not in a relationship, basically they thought I had ended it (i didnt realise) but the fact that they were rather quick to tell everyone/change profiles etcetc kinda was the final nail in the coffin thus proving that it was a wasted effort on my part. My question is these people know all my friends, they have already told them all actually and im not sure how to deal with it normally at the end of relationships i dont ever talk to the people again but if i go to events and stuff they will likely be there. Despite my bravado im actually a bit of an emotional mess a lot of the time and i dont know what to do, because i dont want to now stop talking to all these people or going to various things or whatever, but i know that a lot of people are gonna be saying its all my fault. umm yeah so thats it any advice?
First of all, why don't you give yourself a break? Of course you are an emotional mess, a breakup is bound to make you feel that way. I would be more worried it you weren't.
Secondly, you don't owe anyone an explanation, and those people who claim to be friends but don't ask you for your side of it aren't friends at all. People will talk, so what? Let them if they'd rather speculate rather than coming to you. Again, that proves that they aren't really your friends and you're well rid of them.
Meantime, if you need to talk you know where to reach me.
hugs and mushy stuff,
Phoenix
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