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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 12:46:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

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one of my last Master's biggest fantasy while having phone sex with me was him killing me in various unpleasant ways.

Oh, we play on that edge all the time. I LOVE it! But then, one of my biggest fantasies is to be placed in a coffin underground for a week or so. One day, when we manage to work out the logistics, that one might come true.

I don't think I've had a fantasy that I wouldn't want to come true... except for one I wrote a short story about, and that's only because the heroine actually dies (willingly) at the hand of her lover. Death for real is not an option.

Denise
the Kaptin's wench

This is one i might actually be living out before too long...when taken into training by my Owner (we're waiting to work out some logistics before it actually happens) i'm to be placed in a sensory deprivation box for a period of about two months, give or take, while i'm reprogrammed to Mistress's liking...maybe not an exact replica of what You are talking about...but one i'm excited about.

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 12:47:45 PM

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As yet, i have not had my r/t experience yet, but i am looking foreward to it to say the least. I hope to find someone who will let me start slow and work up to things.
So, i hope that i can thank and mahalo to all You experienced Doms to understand these minds of ours...evil little purr..mahalo. EFG

There are a couple of BDSM groups in the Islands. I happen to know because a guy from this board asked me about finding a submissive in the area. [evil grin] You aren't alone.

Check out www.darkheart.com/usalist.html for the groups

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 1:32:35 PM

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oh mahalo plenty!!!...........*our local wierd way of speaking...lol*
since You posted this to me, i have found some Doms actually registered right here!!!....there arnt many, that are in my range, about 35 or so, but 35 is 35 more than i thought there were here!!!...........almost every one i posted to posted back!!!............thanks again!!!!

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 2:00:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

If your mate made you feel stupid and embarrassed for sharing your fantasies, maybe he's not the right mate for you.

I totally agree with this statement, if you cant tell your partner your fantasies then you should find one you can tell, life is to short to be unhappy

Sincerely andie and her Master Hal

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 2:40:03 PM

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oh mahalo plenty!!!...........*our local wierd way of speaking...lol*
since You posted this to me, i have found some Doms actually registered right here!!!....there arnt many, that are in my range, about 35 or so, but 35 is 35 more than i thought there were here!!!...........almost every one i posted to posted back!!!............thanks again!!!!

[grin] We are everywhere!

Seriously, wonderful news and good luck

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 10/13/2005 4:38:02 PM

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I guess I've been pretty lucky.

Firstly, I have had a very hard policy of NEVER sharing my fantasies with anyone who isn't into what I am.

And secondly, every fantasy I have ever wanted that has been fullfilled I have enjoyed greatly.

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 12:40:45 AM

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It's not anything he did or said to make me feel silly. I am just really self contious anyway and when you're bareing dusty secret parts of yourself, and the results kind of bombed, well It made me feel silly. expesially since my mates not experince din bdsm like I am, and then you add history of sexual abuse to things from my child hood, and then no wonder things can bomb when discussed lol

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 12:50:36 AM

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hey there

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 1:27:16 AM

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hey there

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 2:29:04 AM

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An interesting topic. I talk about fantasies when I play. I masturbate her while talking about things that I know she has fantasies about or sometimes I use my fantasies. This is the time to let the extreme things be voiced. Choking, cutting, gang bangs or whatever works. This is the time for her to be the victim or slut in a safe manner. There is something powerful about verbalizing these dark thoughts.

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 6:32:38 AM

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That is how they invented Tang.

LOL...I always wondered how it got the "unique" flavor.

Tasha

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 7:45:30 AM

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And then what happens if you get what you thought you wanted, but it's not what you thought you wanted

Hello There,
I say what you get is at least you knew you tried it.
It gives you confidence that you are brave enough to explore your darker side.
You learn from the lesson and move on to your other fantasies with the knowledge you are open to experiencing things you dream of instead of wishing you did.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 8:10:44 AM

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I have lived out a few of my fantasies but the others will stay just those, fantasies! Maybe I will have others along the way that will be feasible to work out. In the meantime, I will just use them in my mind or what is left of it!

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Fantasies that sound better in your head? - 11/4/2005 8:20:23 AM

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