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submission - 10/3/2005 4:22:37 AM

flugfisch

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I am a guy with a deep submissive feeling.
All I would dream about is to be in a hand of a strong woman - to be there for her whishes, fantasys and desires. I am not someone who sends somewhere "whishlists" or something like this.
But when I write to dominant woman here - I get strange answeres - everybody asks me for money - or they whish a a houscleaner.
I can´t belive this is normal. Why nearly nobody deals here open with his fantasys?

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RE: submission - 10/3/2005 4:41:17 AM

Kasia

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From: The Coast of Adria
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Not after your money, thanks, have enough of my own.
Can clean my own house myself, and would freak out if someone else even try to do it (for they all do it wrong way however hard I try to teach them).

Looking for weekend-sex-toys.

Only flaw is - you have to speak English for my German is next to zero.

Opened enough?

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I DO have profile - just lost an S somewhere along the way

Kassia

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RE: submission - 10/3/2005 5:19:19 AM

BeeQueen

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as in every chat there is a lot of fakes or strange ppl, as in all dating services there is a lot of abusers, just have to have luck. best way to meet someone in my opinion is to walk on the streets with open eyes and to go to fetish events and munches. the expectations we all carry around r often in our ways. i do love to chat and meet ppl, but i never do it with the intention of finding anyone. it just doesnt work that way. i prefer to meet ppl, talk to them, and if i get a feeling for the person than i try to do my next step.
good luck tho

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RE: submission - 10/3/2005 6:05:58 AM

FTopinMichigan

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quote:

ORIGINAL: flugfisch
But when I write to dominant woman here - I get strange answeres - everybody asks me for money - or they whish a a houscleaner.
I can´t belive this is normal. Why nearly nobody deals here open with his fantasys?

Interesting! Most of the men that contact me are only looking to satify "their" needs, without consideration for my own.

My suggestion would be to be careful to read and comprehend the full profile. The ones that seek money or just house cleaners, usually have this information within their profile, or at least there's a hint to it.

As your profile indicates that you've only been on this site for less than a month, I would be careful not to judge "all" by the "few."

Don't give up!

If every single female member, that you've contacted, asked for money, I'd question if you're responding to the same thing that is written within their profiles. Perhaps there are catch phrases that are exciting you, and in fact, have a different meaning, or your words are implying something you don't intend.

Don't give up on your search, but remain selective to your needs, but be sure to match their's in your responses too. If they respond, and request things you are not willing to offer in return...just don't respond back, and move onto someone that may be a better fit to you...and you to her.

K

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