HerJewel
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I'm not a Mistress, but mine tells me I can switch when she SAYS I can. Seriously, still... if you are talking about real life here, and not VirtualLand, I think the local BDSM groups are a good place to shop, but don't forget the local lesbian groups. We've personally known more lesbians who could sure enjoy a great Top, than submissive women who would love to find a dyke (or at least they won't ADMIT as much  ). As someone mentioned before, GLBT people altogether are (supposedly) about 10 % of the general population, so if fairly represented at a BDSM get-together, how many SUBMISSIVE lesbians could one expect to find there? If I were a dominant, lesbian, unpartnered woman, hungry for a tasty and satisfying relationship, I would go with better odds and stroll my short legs down to the next meeting of out and proud women and look for those tell-tale signs of a (short) submissive. I think those are in another post, but mine are apparent, I'm sure. I blush something awful just trying to speak with a Domme, I'm TOLD anyhow. I giggle nervously but quietly, and look away from her seeming glare quite a bit. Whether my lady or another, I get awfully discombobulated often, when she is 'on', as in self-confidence-evident questioning or teasing, suggesting strongly, directing or demanding, much to their enjoyment, I understand. I believe I've heard tell of 'the voice' somewhere, and it is tough to work around. I am a real workhorse and can stay happily busy just in my own head even, but when it comes down to 'the voice' and attention, I tend to melt into a nearly speechless, shy, bare-my-throat, pitifully-nervous-but-sweet, obviously-submissive kitten. Our Grand Mistress and her Mistress wife sat at our dining table on their first visit, and she said "OH my GODDESS, you DO blush when I talk to you!" I am drawn like a magnet to sincere, intelligent, strong, respectable and respectful, humorous, confident, sensual women. It will be well with thee to be thyself, as you'll attract those who like and love you just as you are, without wanting to change you into something else... and that goes for dominant or submissive women. I love being with my best friend, because she is exactly who she was when we met, nearly five years ago... although we often 'quarrel' over who snatched up whom.
Take heart, M'Lady. We are out here, just waiting for that very special someone who can make us blush whilst we yet handily serve her. Sorry for the terrible olde English, but I yam so very into chivalry, because I think it is a beautiful thing, and I have had a bit too much "Mists of Avalon" lately, me thinks. Happy hunting!
Her Jewel
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