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So much information .... - 3/30/2008 5:35:39 AM   
RedAnhedonia


Posts: 50
Joined: 3/26/2008
Status: offline 		Hello everyone!! I brand new to the site less than a week.  I am,  what is less than a novice??? Infant?  Anyhow, I have always known that I am, at my core, submissive.  Though I have never explored this crazy BDSM world!   Since I've joined I've had my e-mail box flooded everyday, and it is all rather overwhelming.  People asking what I'm looking for ... asking what I want... what my kinks are... These are all things I am unsure of yet, because, I just don't know.

One thing I DO know however, is that I need information.  I need to be able to read and explore, ask questions and gain clarity, to try and discover what is the right thing for me.  I think I belong here, but if for some reason I decide I don't,  many have already called me names, so that won't be neccessary.

Thank you all for your time... and if you think you may have something I can use... please, let me know!

~Red
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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 6:01:03 AM   
masterofdrkness2


Posts: 1697
Joined: 3/17/2008
Status: offline 		hello and welcome red..... there is a world of information on these forums..  I   hope you enjoy your stay and find what you seek.

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 7:39:00 AM   
Arrrchibald


Posts: 350
Joined: 1/3/2008
Status: offline 		Heyas, welcome.  Yeah there a lot of information here.  There's even little a bit of good information too.  

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 7:49:28 AM   
RedAnhedonia


Posts: 50
Joined: 3/26/2008
Status: offline 		Thanks !! Interesting photos Arrrchibald ... very interesting, as well as the profile.

Im hoping that the mass influx of e-mails will slow down, so I can mete through and decide what it is I am actually here for.  A caring partner, a demon lover?? I'd like both.  Does he exist ?? Who knows.

~Red

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 7:56:46 AM   
Gemini1766


Posts: 991
Joined: 3/7/2008
Status: offline 		Welcome, Red. I love your hair. You've got a lovely face. I'm sure your time here will be both enjoyable and disturbing. Just ignore/block the ones who are idiots towards you. There are plenty of us here who are helpful, caring, and not full blow morons with a belief that saying, "I'm a Dom here Me roar, and bow to me and follow my demands" will get them anywhere.

Respect, it goes both ways. Not just from you up.


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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 8:02:58 AM   
AMaster


Posts: 814
Joined: 8/4/2005
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.  If you have any questions, I'll try to answer them.

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 11:08:49 AM   
Verdelet


Posts: 148
Joined: 8/2/2007
From: Central WI
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM! Finding information is easily come by on this site. Also, meeting people and making friends will also lead to web links. This lifestyle is vast in resources and will take time to soak everything in. Don't let others overwhelm you. Many are like you too...just starting out, but unfortunately they themselves don't know how to ask a simple question. Collarme has many members who have 5 and 10 and 20+ years of experience. Remember to remain teachable, enjoy yourself and don't be afraid to ask. Wish you the best.

Verd




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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 11:23:41 AM   
RedAnhedonia


Posts: 50
Joined: 3/26/2008
Status: offline 		Thank you!! I appreciate your comments!

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 12:20:46 PM   
ominousdominus


Posts: 445
Joined: 8/26/2007
Status: offline 		Welcome, enjoy and go slow.-OD

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RE: So much information .... - 3/30/2008 12:27:44 PM   
Deliena


Posts: 623
Joined: 6/16/2007
From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		Hey Red welcome to CM - like the others have said just take your time enjoy wandering around and try not to let the flurry of inital interest put you off too much - it generally settles down later and becomes manageable and there are some really decent people on this site

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RE: So much information .... - 3/31/2008 4:04:53 PM   
RedAnhedonia


Posts: 50
Joined: 3/26/2008
Status: offline 		Slow is not something I have ever done well.... but I am trying ... and trying to be patient with myself too!
~Red

< Message edited by RedAnhedonia -- 3/31/2008 4:05:18 PM >

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RE: So much information .... - 4/1/2008 12:35:46 AM   
SirsPetAdrina


Posts: 1731
Joined: 3/27/2008
Status: offline 		welcome to CM thought im not an infant i am a novice along with my Sir but if you would like to chat with me or Sir we are here at Adrian28 and SirsPetAdrina. i hope you stay and find the ones that you are comfortable with and that we can chat on yahoo or something.

heather


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RE: So much information .... - 4/1/2008 2:08:09 AM   
hydranmenace


Posts: 52
Joined: 2/14/2007
Status: offline 		I am fairly new here as well. Well thats not entirely true, i created a profile quite some time ago, but just recently have i been active and on the forums. Before i got on the forums i had few replies to my messages, because as you have discovered, you are having to weed through hundreds or thousands of messages. Since i starting posting though, responses have increased considerably, my profile looks a lot better, and im making friends, as im sure you will. Just don't let the guys or girls with sub-room-temp IQs get to you. Im sure you can spot the difference between a Dom and a jerk. Here is some info you may find useful Note that i am not the author, but i recently read its opposite, for men. It was quite good. There are a lot of other resources here, and on other sites. I am a big proponent of personal growth and constant learning, so i have a hefty bookmark list, if you would like other links or recommendations.

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RE: So much information .... - 4/1/2008 6:20:28 AM   
YourDomNow


Posts: 4170
Joined: 1/24/2008
From: originally TX, now PA
Status: offline 		Red..Greetings and welcome to the wonderful world of CM.....as you can see, lots to see, plenty of people to talk to with a variety of interests, ideas, wants, needs in there lives. Take your time, look around, talk to others, watch what others have to say....and you just never know where you might end up...lol..
be well and enjoy..
 
~M

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RE: So much information .... - 4/1/2008 6:26:28 AM   
RedAnhedonia


Posts: 50
Joined: 3/26/2008
Status: offline 		Thank you.  I read the entire thread and did find it helpful!

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