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submyt -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:00:57 AM)

Basheera...looking at your profile, it was similar to mine when I first came onto collar.  You are definitly going to hear from the pervs and wanna bes.  I can give you a number of pointers, but someone  with more experience could prob help u more than I.  That will help you a great deal.
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colouredin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:01:28 AM)

im thinking by spread the word he means put it on his profile, and im just pondering am i the only one that rolls my eyes, clicks my tounge and mutters twat under my breath to anyone who has that? It always seems to me that it means basically "I have been unable to pull this sub therefore she is a fake, she must be because I am so wonderful" - aka, "I am desperate for a shag but no one will fuck me cos im a tosser"



submyt -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:02:42 AM)

i don't have a picture up...but damn i'm good!



Phin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:03:49 AM)

I could give you advice on how not to get cmail from me, but that only takes "I am taken" or something similar or saying that you are looking for something I am not...

Gem, where did you see the pics? I think I might be going blind... now I am on her whos viewing me list twice... hope she doesnt think I am stalking...



basheera -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:04:49 AM)

thanks submyt any suggestion would be appreciated.



submyt -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:06:13 AM)

there aren't any picts, phin, but i AM a goddess <giggle>



Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:08:10 AM)

I'm with everybody else here, he sounds like a dumbass.  It's actually laughable he threaten to spread "the word" throughout the community.

This guy sounds like he either needs some major help with his social skills, or he's helpless.   Could be just some wanker screwing around with people online for  Entertainment. 





sirsholly -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:09:52 AM)

fr

my profile clearly states i am married, but i still get the "on your knees, bitch" e-mails. i generally will send a response that feeds the jerk so hopefully he will write a long winded self serving response, having no idea he is blocked.



Phin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:12:12 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: submyt

there aren't any picts, phin, but i AM a goddess <giggle>

I bet you are [sm=flowers.gif]



submyt -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:14:16 AM)

start by taking new out.  new means vultures.
then realize any Dom who knows what he is doing, or Domme, of course (I prefer men :)
can read between the lines.  it is our job to paint a picture of what we want.
your job to decide what you really want.
right now your profile says you want anything, any way.
when i changed mine, i actually got a whole new profile, changed names and everything, started fresh.

i hardly have anything listed as interests, even though tehy are blentiful.  a dom can read bondage and know that i will most likely be interested in all sorts of types of things that go along with that.  if i list them all, i look like i can be played.  make sense??

take a look at some other subs profiles. see what they wrote.  feel free to look at mine, though i am sure it is not perfect.  email me if you life, if you found this at all helpful, i would be happy to answer any other questions.



basheera -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:16:57 AM)

Thank you submyt. [:)] Sorry for my poor outburst on ur thread. I am just moody today. [:D]

Thank you very much.



Gemini1766 -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:18:09 AM)

I'm tired an just mixed two different people up! LMAO.



colouredin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:18:10 AM)

I agree that a ell written profile is really important, I rarely get on your knees mails I mostly get, "what a well written profile" thats probably because it isnt a list of this is what i want this is what i need this is what i can give you, its simply a description of who I am which is kinda what I want people to be attracted to not the fact that I like giving blowjobs and have a super stong vagina (I do though :P)



sirsholly -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:19:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submyt

there aren't any picts, phin, but i AM a goddess <giggle>


there are a few of us Goddess's here. Welcome to the club!

*checks nose for sudden growth*



colouredin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:21:04 AM)

*waves her godess membership card. 



ChainedExistence -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:21:53 AM)

You know there is some evidence that this approach works....
A man insults a woman...tells her she's probably not his type, not smart enough  or pretty enough for him..
Woman falls all over herself to prove she is...
It's like issuing a challenge and you feel compelled to respond.
He's succeeded on some level...he got a response out of you. Now maybe this one didnt turn out like he planned, but I'll bet some do!



sirsholly -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:24:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

*waves her godess membership card. 


Hey...where's MY membership card? All i ever get is an ink stamp on my ass...



submyt -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:24:44 AM)

no problem, basheera, we have all been there.
and i know how you feel...




colouredin -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:27:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

*waves her godess membership card. 


Hey...where's MY membership card? All i ever get is an ink stamp on my ass...



aww hun, you have to raise up the ranks, i mean im THAT much of a godess I was instantly granted membership, ill talk to some people see if i can get you in :P

And Chained, I bet you are right too I know that being told that im not great at something pushes me, but I guess it depends on the method.



SteelofUtah -> RE: Being bullied by Doms (3/30/2008 8:27:15 AM)

******SWALLLOW WHAT YOU ARE DRINKING (There you go GreedyTop)*********

See now I knew this worked with Arrogant Men I had NO Idea it worked on women.

Dear Angilina Jolie,

After watching every movie you ever did, I am now convinced that you just are not my type, because you just aren't attractive enough and I have to have someone who meets my Attractiveness level, otherwise it just becomes work.

Also I don't think you have what it takes to be in a committed long term Highly Sexual relationship with a guy like me. so should you find that you are interested I just want you to know that I am not.

Steel


(So what do you think? The Snare is set I wonder if she takes the Bait)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainedExistence

You know there is some evidence that this approach works....
A man insults a woman...tells her she's probably not his type, not smart enough  or pretty enough for him..
Woman falls all over herself to prove she is...
It's like issuing a challenge and you feel compelled to respond.
He's succeeded on some level...he got a response out of you. Now maybe this one didnt turn out like he planned, but I'll bet some do!




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