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Modifications - 10/3/2005 11:13:41 AM   
Camisinsanity


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Status: offline 		How many Dom's here would accept a slave who went through serious body modifications. Some that started out willingly but as discovered relationship was just abuse got them from no choice. I am serious about wanting to know an answer and am not making up details here.
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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 11:23:02 AM   
Kinkypupper


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Joined: 9/26/2004
From: Portland oregon
Status: offline 		The nice thing about the bdsm community is that everyone is equally accepted and that there is someone for absolutely everyones "kink" so without even needing to know the "modifications" I am fairly certain that you will find a compatable person.
Somepeople like tats, or piercings or body mods. some do not and thats all ok.


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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 11:24:07 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


Posts: 3645
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Status: offline 		Many dominants actually are attracted by modifications.

Trust me, if you can think of it, there are people out there who will love it.

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 11:32:21 AM   
JohnWarren


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From: Delray Beach, FL
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Camisinsanity

How many Dom's here would accept a slave who went through serious body modifications. Some that started out willingly but as discovered relationship was just abuse got them from no choice. I am serious about wanting to know an answer and am not making up details here.
Cami


May I point out you are not GIVING details either. The abuse/not abuse decision is really in those details. Absent them, no one can really make an insightful comment.



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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 12:37:38 PM   
ZandD


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Status: offline 		For some reason, the term "body modification" and your subsequent question reminded me of my love and facination of BBW's. One major reason that I deeply respect most big beautiful women is the disrespect that comes from some areas of our society. A guy can be large and that's cool (especially if you're a sports enthusiast and such). But being a woman and large is unacceptable to some. Socialogically and historically I can understand this, emotionally and mentally I have a hard time with.

In my opinion, what's going on inside is much more important that what's on the outside. If a person decides or decided to have body modificatioin, that is their business and for that person, it's special. Now, to take an entirely conservative point of view, it's they that have to live with their decision.

I cut off my beard off after 10 years and intend to keep it off. My Lady really likes my bearded face, but she loves me and if the beard never reappears, it's not going to cause her irreperable damage, and if I grow it back, she's not going to love me any more or any differently because she loves me, and not my beard.

However, in speaking to the original question, as a Dominant, I'm more interested in what's going on inside the head than what's going on with the physical appearance. BUT, now, having said that, a persons appearance can tell a lot of what's going on in their head.

I hope I was able to assist in some way. Now I'm going to take some time so I can understand what I just wrote...



Z

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 1:40:37 PM   
Awakener


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Status: offline 		This slave is NOT ruined. The physical plays a role, but is not for most, a truely deciding factor. Next time you leave the house, take a good look at the couples you come across, and you will see that asthetics are obviously secondary concerns.
Emotion, plays a real role in how we percieve others. Many women whom I have been involved with, became noticeably more atractive as I grew to care for them more.
However there are limits. It is posible to truely care for someone, yet be honestly physically repulsed. So I'd say you must ask yourself. Can you accept whatever it is, or will it always be blocking you. If this slave is displeased about something done, about the way they look, then it is extreamly important that you be able to show this slave that you accept his/her flaws. If you believe that you will only feed this slaves displeasure with themselves then do not take responsability for this slave. In my opinion if you can not make a slave comfortable with who/what they are, if you can not give them the benefit of seeing themselves through your eyes, and seeing that through your eyes they are beautiful and precious. Then do not take this slave.

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 1:43:03 PM   
Soulhuntre


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Camisinsanity
How many Dom's here would accept a slave who went through serious body modifications.


That would depend on whether I found the modifications attractve. If I did? No problem. If I didn't then thats life.

spelling fixed I hope.

< Message edited by Soulhuntre -- 10/5/2005 11:09:55 AM >

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 3:13:38 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		Are you Happy with you? once you achieve that than you can find someone who would be happy with you as well, mods or not

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 5:00:54 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

How many Dom's here would accept a slave who went through serious body modifications.


More than you can count, actually. My Master's a funny one... He hated tattoos... had never been involved with a woman who had one, let alone multiple. Along comes me. At the time, I only had one, about 4" long. He said He "could live with it." The funny part is that I now have two of them, and He designed the second one Himself.

I look at body modifications as road markers in an individual's journey through life. Each piercing, cutting, tattoo, branding, etc., is a visual, permanent representation of the person's life experiences. They're part of the total package, and to accept the person, one must accept the person's history as well.

Just my opinion.

Denise
the Kaptin's wench

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 6:04:22 PM   
nephandi


Posts: 4470
Joined: 9/23/2005
From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
Status: offline 		Yes who you are is alot more inportant that what you look like, but if you truly dislike the modifications go seek a doctor and see if any of them can be reversed, it is possible.

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 7:30:28 PM   
MstrHellsFury


Posts: 388
Joined: 1/5/2005
Status: offline 		since I'm one who's always believed I take you as I find you...I'm kinda lost as to the underlying motive for the question...if you're happy with what's done...live it...if you're not happy...seek to correct or change what you feel isn't the part of you that you find distracting or distasteful...(me I like body mods) so I guess I just a mod squad freak....lol


Fury

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 9:15:41 PM   
perverseangelic


Posts: 2625
Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		People accomidate for the person they love.

My modifications aren't extensive, and were totally my choice, but my partner isn't into modifications. He not only loves me, he gave me his permision to get my three tattoos, and has supported me in wearing them proudly.

So, it depends on the person and the commitment.

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RE: Modifications - 10/3/2005 9:24:10 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Our answers don't matter. All that matters is the answer of the dom you're interested in.

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RE: Modifications - 10/4/2005 7:49:37 PM   
suk4yoursolution


Posts: 6
Joined: 9/29/2005
Status: offline 		Cami,

I find that any body mod. done is beautiful, even the extreme. If a Dom won't accept you for the body mods you have then, they truly don't appreciate what you have gone through. I know from experience that body mods that aren't of your choosing show someone exactly what kind of a person you (for the good). I hope you find a Dom who appreciates what you've done to accomodate someone else and for the ones that you did for yourself.

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RE: Modifications - 10/5/2005 6:06:50 AM   
slavemina


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Joined: 10/3/2005
Status: offline 		Yes,.. i believe also it is easy to find many doms, who are attracted by modifications.

But again there are different leves on body modifications, right? if we are speaking
tats or piercings thats - i think so - those are moderate modifications,..but like permanent
nose piercings and having nose ring is already heavy - atleast i think so - because it affects
so cleary on person outlook,...

PS myself for example, would be happy to find Master, who would be ready to
pay me for clinic brest enlargement,... having bit bigger tits i would feel myslef
more sexy and lusty

slave mina








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RE: Modifications - 10/5/2005 9:03:45 AM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		Modifications such as tatts , piercings (specifically: ears, nipple, navel, and clit) are my favourites and a girl who I coller will know I'll be considering such things for her (especially navel). Specific branding ..Yes. the extreme modifications such as the huge limps and bumps or hornes or the elongated earlobes with the kitchen sink wedged in the hole are a huge turn off for me.

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