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Leatherist -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 12:53:20 AM)

Artie-just be the kind of guy some girl will think makes a cool master. Hang around-it's been known to happen.



eyesopened -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 2:33:40 AM)

New to the lifestyle Masters are going to have a more difficult time than those with experience.  Your profile really doesn't say anything about what you have to offer as a Master or even what you seek in a submissive.  To be blunt, your profile just isn't interesting. 

While in my area a munch is the wrong place to seek a partner, it IS a great place to gain experience and confidence that will lead to being the kind of Master who can attract the slave he seeks.  i will agree with others, get out in real life, if for no other reason than to learn, grow and gain experience.



peppermint -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 3:21:05 AM)

First, get rid of the picture.  No picture is better than one that makes you look like a geek.  It's just way too undomly. 

Second, You admit to having little or no experience as a Master.  Why don't you try to learn to be a Dom first, and then go for Master?  

Third, your profile is very sparse.  You don't tell about yourself or your philosophy of Domming.  Your profile doesn't say if you're looking for a short term or long term relationship.  It basically says, i'm a newbie and i want a slave to obey me. 

Fourth, from your name i might think that you are seeking a free model so you can take naughty pictures and that's all.  You might consider a new name with a new, and very much expanded profile. 

And fifth...if you want to meet people you go to where the people congregate.  Go to you local munch.  Go to events.  If you don't know how to find those, follow the link in my signature.  I met my Dom while on vacation attending a kinky campout. 



petpete -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 3:38:49 AM)

All well said peppermint but you forget to tell him also that there are many smart asses in this group who profess to know all and have all the qualifications at hand and guess what??? They may have the same result as the geek looking one has. i think it has to do more about appeal. If you got that "sex appeal" well you will be half way there and will attract, no doubt about that. If you wanna keep the relationship going then you'll need that little bit extra that comes from somewhere else.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 5:27:34 AM)

call me stupid since i really don't understand the "new" math these days but when did (according to your joined date) two months become several months? 

can someone help me with that?


btw, OP, you should try CM's latest site service to find your slave ...it's almost like match.com but a lot cheaper too

*edited to add* haven't i seen you around town before because you look familiar ...merely curious



parttimehotty -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 8:07:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: Luciferica

I dunno where you'd find a slave, we live down south and slavery is illegal here..try the black market?


So you're saying it's a black thing?  *giggles wildly*


Arrrrggghhh!!! A day late & a $$ short.......that's what i was going to say!!!!!  (Or at least comment on the blk/slavery thing ;))[:D]



MasterDoc1 -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 8:49:01 AM)

I posted another wise-ass remark here but then changed my mind.



MistressDolly -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 9:44:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bmymodel

I've been on this site for several months now but can't seem to find a slave. Seems like most are already collared or don't respond. Where can I find a slave seeking a master or am I just being too nice? Confused !


A few months isn't that long (though it seems so). Like convention dating searches, it's an arduous process.

Join other communities, websites, etc., besides Collarme.



DesFIP -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 12:18:02 PM)

Haircut, new clothes, new picture. Change your screen name, makes people assume you're looking for an unpaid fetish model. Write a profile about you as a person. Don't fill it up with s & m stuff or how you're strict but not unkind. Show who you are, talk about things that passionately interest you, things that make you come to life.

And yeah, the less experience you have the more you need to stay away from master, lord, worship - stuff like that. You either will get that by inspiring it or you'll never get it. It isn't something that can be negotiated from the get go.



beargonewild -> RE: where can I find a slave? (3/31/2008 2:46:24 PM)

Hell, I've been on tis site for almost a year and hadn't found a Master yet! Mind you, I found myself a Sir several months ago in r/t. Funny part is he was under my nose all the time!Amazing how life works.



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