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metalmiss -> RE: Is Desperation Taboo. if so. why? (4/1/2008 2:37:29 PM)
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Desperation is something i find very unappealing in a potential partner.. Especially as when i seek i am looking for partners of a Dominant nature. Desperation in my experience is a sign of somebody who is insecure about themselves & also theres the chance they might be saying anything in the hope it will make things more likely to go their way.. i tip towards the other end of the scale and much, much prefer confidence in a potential partner. Because if they can't be confident about themselves why should i have any confidence in them?
In answer to the second part of your question, i do find a Dominant attractive who isn't afraid to show His emotional side. i like a Man who is prepared to actually be honest about whats going on inside. But if it was a constant thing it would be overwhelming & stifling to me.. i like a Man who is capable of showing His feelings, but i wouldn't say doing so to the point of vulnerability is attractive to me.
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