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RavenMuse -> RE: Expectations of a sub/slave (4/1/2008 4:22:02 AM)
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1) A prospectives profile
Firstly the basics:
Location - within reasonable travel distance of south London
Indication of :- decent communication skills, an understanding of the Dynamic and enough self awareness that they know in at least broad terms what they seek.
No red flags to compatability such as obviously Mono or signs that they have a partner who doesn't know about what they are doing (I don't cheat and I won't be party to cheating)
A face pic is preffered but not essential
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2) First contact mail
Polite, effort made to make a good first impression, NO TXT SPK!!!! Some indication that they have actualy read My profile. Indication as to why they believe W/we May have some level of compatability. What that compatability entails will depend on wether they are approaching as a potential playpartner or as a potential third.
If no face pic in profile, then I would want to see who I am speaking to within the first mail or two.
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3) First meeting
This is going to be very contextual.
In any event I expect punctuality and for them to have made some effort with appearence (Not looking like they have just been dragged through a hedge backwards!).
If it is just someone interesting and W/we are meeting to see if their is anything potentialy more then it is likely to be at a scene event and just a quick conversation, in such circumstance I have little expectation other than politeness.... of course if the potential IS there for more then there would have to be some level of chemistry there too and at least some spark of Dynamic.
If there is already the acknowledgement of interest in a prospective playpartner or third situation then the meeting is likely to be off scene and either one to one with Myself or with both Myself and My current girl. Either somewhere for coffee or a quiet pub for a drink and chat. I don't make demands before they have submitted but where interest has already been acknowledged then some of My prefferences will have already been mentioned and at least some of them being taken on board in an attempt to be pleasing is something I see as positive effort and a good sign (Such as My prefference for the girl being in a skirt rather than trousers or jeans and or My prefference for stockings over My dislike of tights). Even if the girl is shy I expect to see effort to communicate and please, I don't mind putting in the effort to help settle a girls nerves but I expect a convorastion, not to be performing a monolog.
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4) The person who is likely to be what You are mainly seeking
For Me, that means a prospective third working toward 24/7 TPE.
Honesty, their actions matching their words. inteligence and self awareness, they need to know what they are and what they seek, not simply someone enamoured of the fantasy of TPE or being a 'slave' but someone who honestly believes that is what they are, what that entails in REAL LIFE and knows it isn't the easy option, knows it can be hard work (as well as the parts they find appealing... there is no cherry picking in TPE) and is willing to put in the work to get over any problems that may arise.
I expect that someone of that ilk will be asking as many questions of Me as I will of them, after all such a girl will, if she proves compatable, be placing all that she is in My hands and she would be foolish to do so without looking into wether My duty of care, My approach and My personal limits will truely keep her safe as once she submits to Me fully then the ONLY decision that remains to her that isn't accountable to Me is the decision to walk away.
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