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littleone35 -> Condoms (10/4/2005 7:31:48 AM)
I was just wondering those who play with others then just the Masters/ Mistresses do they insist on condoms? When i was with my late master i insisted on them(it was a hard limit) until we both got tested. After that we did not play with others so we did not use them. i was on birthcontrol so it sis not affect us that way. i was just wondering if other's also insist on them? littleone

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 7:47:36 AM)
For me it doesn't matter if they are master, king, emperor or saint, condoms are on. I honestly don't know why men are so stupid to NOT have sex every time with a condom until there's proven tests and absolute consistency.

JohnWarren -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 7:53:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I was just wondering those who play with others then just the Masters/ Mistresses do they insist on condoms? When i was with my late master i insisted on them(it was a hard limit) until we both got tested. After that we did not play with others so we did not use them. i was on birthcontrol so it sis not affect us that way. i was just wondering if other's also insist on them? littleone I used condoms from the inception of my sexual life early in the 1960's. It's only with a long-term established partner do I forgo them. Of course, I has a vasectomy in 1972 so contraception is not an issue. As part of my present arrangement, Libby and I have an agreement not to do genital/genital with others but the condoms still come into play on toys we use for others.

fastlane -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 8:00:46 AM)
Unless you are Monogomous, why play Russian Roulette? Yes, Condoms do make great balloons, but to protect your lubber wear a rubber and yourself.

nephandi -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 8:02:41 AM)
i use condoms for all play that is not just me and my Dom.

perverseangelic -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 9:33:30 AM)
With anyone except my partner, anything that penetrates me is covered in latex/polyurethane. This goes for fingers, toys, penises, etc.

BalletBob -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 10:20:21 AM)
Hi Little one.....that sounds like the name my calls me...."LITTLE ONE"....LMCLAO I always insisted on a Condom when I had sessions, if MADAM's husband was involved in anything with me. I stil use them when I don't want to get things YUCKY...but slowely getting away from that. I also use a Condom on a Butt Plug I had to modify, so NOTHING gets in the seams I had to make it it, to make it shorter. Now for Perverseangelic. I never heard of using them on a finger before. I guess you must know people with BIG FINGERS..or do they use the Finger Cotts? If they use a Latex Glove, then that means 5 times the pleasure ! I've been told I have "MAGIC FINGERS" ! Yummy En Pointe Today and Loving it, BalletBob

plantlady64 -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 10:56:34 AM)
Hello There, I've had my tubes tied and still use condoms as a STD deterrent. I still use condoms during any type of penetration. To me they are are essential with all other than my Master. I would not play without one period. I'd also like to mention even with a condom you could get herpes, HPV - genital warts, crabs, head lice, and hepatitis. I say know whom you play with intimately and whom they play with, as there are still health risks with condoms on. Sincerely, sub suzanne

sub4hire -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 12:20:14 PM)
quote: I was just wondering those who play with others then just the Masters/ Mistresses do they insist on condoms? Everyone gave you great advice. Insist on them. If someone still does not want to use them walk away. It is your life you are talking about and you only have one life to give.

HentaiGamerKitty -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 1:37:29 PM)
Personally, I detest condoms, but have always used them in the past. However, I'm now involved with someone monogamously and we have both been tested, so we do not use them. It seems to me that wearing a condom would severely change the sensation of sex for the man, almost to the point of making it not worth while. Not to mention the fact that stopping to put on a condom can really affect the pacing of a scene. So basically, I think they should be used when playing with people you don't know well, but once you have a monogamous partner that you trust, I see no need.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 1:42:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HentaiGamerKitty Personally, I detest condoms, but have always used them in the past. However, I'm now involved with someone monogamously and we have both been tested, so we do not use them. It seems to me that wearing a condom would severely change the sensation of sex for the man, almost to the point of making it not worth while. Not to mention the fact that stopping to put on a condom can really affect the pacing of a scene. So basically, I think they should be used when playing with people you don't know well, but once you have a monogamous partner that you trust, I see no need. I detest condoms as well. In fact, it's a near-fetish of mine to have a man orgasm in me (probably BECAUSE it's such a rare and special thing for me). But I don't detest them enough to stay celibate or only use toys, and since I'm not monogamous and certainly not planning to have children, condoms are simply necessary. I've had one partner who insisted on using a dental dam on me. I was fine with that (my rule in sex is that we always go to the partners highest level of comfort or no sex at all...kinda like modem speeds) but understood immediately exactly why men don't like condoms. You lose a lot of the intimacy and sensations. But, not worth the risks. If this were just about feeling yummy there'd be a lot more leeway involved. But biology is biology and no amount of feeling and love will change that.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 1:47:57 PM)
I am on birth control too, but people can and have gotten pregnant from unprotected sex. joe and I have been together three years, and after our fourth month together we stoped using them, and I do like it better with out, but really technically since I don't plan on marrying him not even if there is a accidental pregnancie I should still make him wear a rubber. Ballet bob STD's can still be transmited even if you use only your hands, If he has open sores like riped cuticals or sharp nails that tear me a lil then the the skin barrier has been broken. Oh and also improperly cleaned toys can give women yeast infections.

JohnWarren -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 1:57:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 my rule in sex is that we always go to the partners highest level of comfort or no sex at all...kinda like modem speeds) This is our policy with oral sex. Of course I keep some flavored condoms around for women who do want condom use.

Wildfleurs -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 4:04:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I was just wondering those who play with others then just the Masters/ Mistresses do they insist on condoms? When i was with my late master i insisted on them(it was a hard limit) until we both got tested. After that we did not play with others so we did not use them. i was on birthcontrol so it sis not affect us that way. i was just wondering if other's also insist on them? littleone I'm not with others, but my owner has the freedom to and for him its condoms, gloves, and such. I think if I were ever allowed to do anything sexual with others or given out it would certainly be gloves, condoms, dental dams. But with him, we don't use condoms. I'm on birth control and we've been together for several years (8 years in January). He is the first person I've ever had unprotected sex with and I must say I understand completely why people don't enjoy condoms. The sensation is completely different and the sensation of him orgasming in me is.. just heavenly. C~

theRose4U -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 4:33:55 PM)
quote: The sensation is completely different and the sensation of him orgasming in me is.. just heavenly. Humm thinking that I must be odd on this note. I personally DON'T like the feeling/mess of ejaculate inside me. I think this may have come from a long term partner that dr's told me I was actually ALLERGIC to his sperm (his was too acidic would actually burn where ejaculate was inside). Even with more current partners it just doesn't do it for me. I cringe at agreeing with fastlane lol :P quote: protect your lubber wear a rubber

Awakener -> RE: Condoms (10/4/2005 4:57:10 PM)
I will not even penetrate my regular partner without wearing a condem. It is just stupid not to. She argued with me over it, before she was deported. Insisted that since it was just us, that there just was not any need. I just do not see it that way. Once we have been together years, and ben tested many times, then I will relent but untill then, it is condoms or nothing.

perverseangelic -> RE: Condoms (10/5/2005 11:36:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awakener I will not even penetrate my regular partner without wearing a condem. It is just stupid not to. She argued with me over it, before she was deported. Insisted that since it was just us, that there just was not any need. I just do not see it that way. Once we have been together years, and ben tested many times, then I will relent but untill then, it is condoms or nothing. Huh. Interesting outlook. I gotta admit, I got rid of condoms as soon as I felt safe, with my partner. I just plain don't like them, and view them as a saftey necessity only. May I ask why you felt they were so necessary in a monogamous relationship? (This is not a judgement. It's an honest, curious question)

sub4hire -> RE: Condoms (10/5/2005 1:25:41 PM)
quote: I gotta admit, I got rid of condoms as soon as I felt safe, with my partner. I just plain don't like them, and view them as a saftey necessity only. Doug and I do not use them either, but we're also nearing 7 year's together. I know men have been whining for decades how the arousal is down due to the ribs or whatever crap they can come up with. Although, still you only have one life. It is better to be smart than sorry.

ownedjulia -> RE: Condoms (10/5/2005 1:31:02 PM)
If I'm playing with Master I rarely use condoms, with anyone else it's condoms or bye-bye!! Julia

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Condoms (10/5/2005 1:42:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedjulia If I'm playing with Master I rarely use condoms, with anyone else it's condoms or bye-bye!! Julia Why use them with your master if it's "rarely"?

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