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What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 9:35:22 AM

Madame4a

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What is your threshold?

When do you block and delete?

What makes you do that?

For me, since I think I just found my first hard and fast one, its three successive messages -- not one a full sentence, becoming more insistent.

I hesitate doing it, but I've also done it when I get the same message over and over and I've politely declined at least once.

Things that are inappropriate or rude too-- my favorite recently "when was the last time you had a d_ _ k up your a_s?" That made me laugh, particularly since I told the boi to come look and she gave the date and time *wink*

I usually do it when I've asked more than once that they go back and read my profile and come back with "I did Mistress" I realize at that point, reading doesn't mean comprehend.

What is your threshold? or are your thresholds?

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 9:59:54 AM

Pyrrsefanie

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With you on the one-liners -- although usually I give them one chance to prove that it was just "testing the waters" by sending them a one-line reply back. If they come back with something more coherent then I give them a shot, although 9 times out of 10 they fuck that one up. If they send back another one-liner then they're not worth my time.

True story, I had a message session that went:

them: "hi how are you"
Me: "Hi there."
them: "what's up"

Overly obscene messages about how much they want to stick it in my ass get deleted as well. And I can't tell you how many times I've opened up a message only to see a picture of a giant (and oftentimes very unimpressive compared to what I'm used to with my boy) wang like BAM IN YOUR FACE WANG.

Also, the messages that start "Hi, how are you?" and then include a small novel about their fantasies with no response to mine or anything else. I don't even dignify those with a Rick Roll-ing since they'd probably get off on it.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:05:52 AM

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This should be fun......

Instant block any time anyone is going for the automatic disgust factor. If the email was written with what appears to be an attempt to hit a squick button, with long details specifically worded to obtain a reaction, I have no need to reply or accept any additional mail from that person.

The second time I receive the same form letter that I have previously declined from the same sender. Of course, the fun in this is that you get to tell them that they already sent you the same exact thing prior, and they really should keep better track of those who have already rejected them.

When anyone hits the multiple occurrence of not thinking of anything more intelligent to say than "hello Mistress" and that is the entire content of the email. If someone can't string a couple of sentences together, they probably aren't a big loss in being blocked.

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However, the number one winner in the deserving delete and block reaction is any married man who needs to be discrete because the wife can't know. I don't care if they are super-sub, the wife doesn't understand, he hasn't had sex for five years due to her illness, is willing to kiss My feet 16 hours a day, or any positive or negative aspect about him. If they are married and cheating, I want nothing to do with them.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:07:40 AM

MistressVnus

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Instant delete and block:

Crude message and/or picutres. That will also get them reported!!!

The rest, such as one liners like "hello"....or..."bowing at your feet".. might get a 1 chance response of clarification. If they don't get me.......then I just ignore or say "thanks, but no thanks."
I also hit reply just to make sure they haven't written before. The email archive on that person will only come up if you hit reply. Doesn't mean I will reply. Just let's me know if they have already done this before. If they have, I remind them of their repeated attempt with no variation in technique and add a "thanks, but no thanks."

I only block when they are crude or persist with instances like that noted above.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:11:07 AM

Madame4a

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We all have similar thresholds.. or at least I agree with all of yours.

I like when I get the form letter a second time, as I then cut and paste the first time I answered and say

"Thank you, but as you can see, a month (or whenever) ago I did say no."

If I get it again, I'll block.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:31:04 AM

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I never blocked anyone, but I threatened to male subs with it. The first one liked to write emails like, "I'll bet you can't really leave your handprint on my ass". I explained that goading me was no way to approach me, that I understood that he was new to the lifestyle, but that taunting was rude. He kept it up anyway so I told him to either learn respect or I would block him from any further contact with me.

The second one had actually wanted me to move in with him as his fulltime Mistress. As the date came closer he simply stopped communicating with me. I gave up on him, then he started writing to me calling me a time waster. I had realized by that point that he was using the same photo as a Master on the site - who knows which one stole from which. He came up with a somewhat plausible explanation, but then complained that I didn't turn him on like I used to. I told him that with no basis for trust that I did not feel like treating him sensually. He wrote two more times calling me a time waster and I threatened to block him.

I ended up deleting my profile and starting a new one. It got rid of a lot of the desperate that seemed to cling to me.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:35:48 AM

LilMissHaven

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I've only blocked one submissive man who wrote telling me his fantasies about my dominating him. I replied and asked him if he even read my profile where I'm pretty sure I indicated myself as a submissive. His reply was that I'm just confused and didn't know what I really wanted. I blocked him after that.

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 10:40:39 AM

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My thresholds are about the same here...No BS thank you!

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RE: What is your threshold? - 4/1/2008 11:05:15 AM

LadyHathor

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Immediate Block for cock shots

Immediate Block for vulgarity

Immediate Block for stupidity--one word emails, hey baby, does ur sub suck, and anyone who doesn't read My
Profile.

Immediate Block for the first email fantasies or "i need a Mistress to do xxx to Me"

Immediate Deletes with no reads, I am such a voyeur I have to see them all,---LOL

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