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Gift - 10/4/2005 12:43:16 PM

MojoRisin

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Sorry to start too many new threads... just curious. Have any of you slaves/subs ever been given away as a gift to another Dom/Master? Ever heard of that happening, being given away like a piece of property?

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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 12:47:57 PM

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quote:

Have any of you slaves/subs ever been given away as a gift to another Dom/Master? Ever heard of that happening, being given away like a piece of property?

I never have. Although in my vocabulary only a slave could be. I'm a submissive to my dom.

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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 12:58:07 PM

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Hello There,
Master has granted another Dom to have me for the evening before. Master's also taken me to a gang bang and told me to do all the men in the room. He actually got the idea frm me as we'd been discussing my fantasies. Though I had no knowledge I was to be given to these guys as a toy till I was there, my Master did it for me as he thought it was something I wanted to try. He of course stayed at the foot of the bed and protected me the whole time.
While it's not something that happens in our relationship much I do everything my Master asks me to do. If he wanted me to see someone for him again I would willingly oblige any of his wishes or instructions to be with others. Master owns me. In the end what happens to my body is his choice as I am his.
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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 1:05:26 PM

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Services are given somewhat regularly in the scene. Lots of subs like being able to serve more than one person at a party as a hostess or waitress type girl.

Actually being handed over to someone as a gift is more rare, but it occurs.

Being given away as a gift permanently is indeed a rare thing, but it does indeed occur.

I've been given away on a non-permanent basis several times.

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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 1:10:43 PM

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Sometimes I also give My slavegirl away, but only for a good spanking.
My slavegirl likes it too.

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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 4:14:05 PM

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I once had a female submissive given to me as a birthday gift. She was actually given by a switch who was also my submissive at the time. it turned out that we were very compatible and I kept her for 5 years. We remain friends to this day it just was not possible for us to be together any longer in a D/s context.

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RE: Gift - 10/4/2005 5:12:42 PM

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Long ago... (no, not in a galaxy far, far, away), My very first slave and I went to a party. That evening as we arrived, we had been greeted by a very sexy girl, scantily clad, and very talkative. she introduced herself as "shimmer" (not her real name) and said she was Master's new house pet. she made quick friends with My girl and they were like two puppies frolicking about together.

When we were about to leave, the Host came to Me and said He wanted to give shimmer to Us as a gift... for keeps. I was shocked. she was very desirable looking.... so I accepted, but still shocked.

After two days, I knew why. she was hyper. she had ADHD beat alllll to hell. she had some strange problems with telling very tall tales. she never slept. she was never unhorny, lol.... I know why He gave her away.

I found her a new home, but I will always beware the permanent slavegirl gift.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 3:40:31 PM

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How odd, I start a thread on getting a slave as a gift... and I just recieved one! she was given to me last night by a friend after we had a discussion about how lonely I was. It wasn't working out with his slave -- she's a good slave, it just isn't "there" -- you know? So, he gave her to me. She has no lease on any apartment, so legally it's fine. She's staying here until I decided whether to keep her or not.

I've made her comfortable -- gotten her settled in, sort of. Right now, she's at my feet, waiting for attention. She has just one pair of stockings (my fetish) total -- and they're on her legs now, but there's a HUGE run in them, so we'll have to replace them tonight.

She seems happy here, but only time will tell. She's a waitress at a local restaurant -- pretty girl. She has a bit of a cough, so I'm taking care of that now, her last Master, my friend didn't either care or notice it, will have to talk to him about that later. Feels good to have another slave in my care at the moment.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 3:44:00 PM

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I have been given away a few times, more over the past year than before.

I am slave, i obey.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 3:49:06 PM

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julia... how does it make you feel when you're given away?

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 4:03:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MojoRisin

julia... how does it make you feel when you're given away?

it depends on the situation, who is involved, etc.

several times i have not know the person i was given too and it was someone I would not have choosen if i had the choice.
At times like that i feel several things, cheap, nasty, etc as well as a deep desire to serve my Masters wishes.

at the end he always tells me how proud he is of me for obeying and that ALWAYS makes me know its worthwhile.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 4:35:04 PM

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Hmm,a sort of a trojan horse eh?

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After two days, I knew why. she was hyper. she had ADHD beat alllll to hell. she had some strange problems with telling very tall tales. she never slept. she was never unhorny, lol.... I know why He gave her away.

I found her a new home, but I will always beware the permanent slavegirl gift.

Sort of like "the gift of the clap",eh?

Wierd,even with people,it's kinda like the salvation army at times.......casts offs no one else wants!

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 6:05:34 PM

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It depends on what you mean by "gift." I was once given a slave to use, but she wasn't given to me permanently. So what's that, a "loan"? I'm not sure of the terminology.

I'd reserve the right to give a slave as a "gift," but I haven't done it and might never do it. The circumstances would have to be perfect, and circumstances on this great earth of ours are never perfect. I'm selfish.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 7:17:53 PM

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One of my limits is that another will not be allowed to play with or touch me intimately me without my prior knowledge and consent.

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RE: Gift - 10/5/2005 11:22:51 PM

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Once i was given as a gift just for sex to another master as my master at the time watched on.

Actually i didn't feel great about it, i felt disloyal. i was trying to enjoy it to please my master, but all the while i knew the reason he was doing this was because his medicine he was taking at the time was effecting his performance. This was more a gift for me in a way, without me supposedly knowing the complexities of my masters mind. So as he stood there watching....i just hurt inside. my job? was not to let it show.

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RE: Gift - 10/6/2005 2:38:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mossy

Once i was given as a gift just for sex to another master as my master at the time watched on.

Actually i didn't feel great about it, i felt disloyal. i was trying to enjoy it to please my master, but all the while i knew the reason he was doing this was because his medicine he was taking at the time was effecting his performance. This was more a gift for me in a way, without me supposedly knowing the complexities of my masters mind. So as he stood there watching....i just hurt inside. my job? was not to let it show.

The first time I was given away I had very similar feelings. Even though it had been discussed beforehand I wondered why he wanted me to this.

Over time, I've come to realise that this is something he intensely enjoys, the ability to give a person out as a plaything for something else.

Once i got to understand the power dynamic it became easier for me to accept as well.
It is not my job to like or dislike it but to make sure the other person does like it.

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RE: Gift - 10/6/2005 5:39:13 AM

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Yes, I have been given as a temporary gift.

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RE: Gift - 10/6/2005 6:18:01 AM

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I'm already beginning to see why this slave was given away to me as a gift.... it's not a fit I feel.

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RE: Gift - 10/6/2005 6:26:40 AM

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Before I give her away, I'm going to try some behavior modifications that I am curious of. I am going to make a tape that repeats over and over how she wants to obey everything I say and be less hyper, more relaxed. I'm going to make her listen to it all day as well as make a video that also bombards her with these messages using my computer....

Curious to see, over time, if this repeated suggestion endlessly will have an effect.

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RE: Gift - 10/6/2005 6:44:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MojoRisin

Before I give her away, I'm going to try some behavior modifications that I am curious of. I am going to make a tape that repeats over and over how she wants to obey everything I say and be less hyper, more relaxed. I'm going to make her listen to it all day as well as make a video that also bombards her with these messages using my computer....

Curious to see, over time, if this repeated suggestion endlessly will have an effect.

Depends on how good your "tape" is (CD rom with surround sound speakers can be more effective) and how involved in the process she gets.

At the least it will make her take time and focus on those things.

Suggestive hypnosis like that of course works best when coupled with understanding and working through the core issues involved. Using it alone isn't using it to its fullest and won't really get you long term personal results.

And how can she listen to it all day long?

And how is this related to giving her away?

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