Though I have not been here long I have met a few friendly people. I desire to try to find one to take me in hand and train me in both their personal style and gain a broader understanding of a D/s relationship. Though I've been on many MUCKs, and have served as a switch there, most people are subs I have found, and simply do not wish to take the time or energy to push themselves or their desires on others. Therefore, my own submissive side has been neglected and remains untrained. Any questions or comments I would appreciate. Thank you all very much.
G'Day and Welcome Colin just take your time and look around in the forums where you will learn as well as be able to ask questions which will soon get answers
The forums seem to be rather... confusing to me. I hope to figure it out in time. People on the forums, at least in the lobby, don't seem to talk much about BDSM. I've made a few corny jokes, but I don't know how to contribute in a helpful or productive way, and introduce myself to people. Any suggestions on that or my profile or anything that would help improve my image here would be most appreciated.
The forums can be confuseing but use patience and read even the older ones in that way you may find answers that you have woundered on and dont feel silly to ask a question on any thing. We read your profile and we are unable to make any sugestions there as we also dont get many replys to ours which maybe its because we are a Dom couple which is a little strange but we do say sorry in we are unable to give you any help there,just be like a flee on a dog SlaveColin and stick to it all and to your feelings.
I've been sticking to it, overall for nearly five years now, here for half a year. It just takes a while to find anything, to get to know people who are serious, and get them to realize that you are too. If anyone came through my area I'd love to meet with them, but with a minimum wage job until I can find an accounting position, I don't have that much money to travel to others.