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Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/1/2008 7:36:14 PM

SirEbonyPhoenix

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Recently, I was asked by some friends of mine to participate in a double collaring ceremony in which the Dominant has two slaves, one who is under his consideration and the other whom he has been with for almost three years but never had an official ceremony. I wonder if anyone has any ideas on how to do something of this magnitude? i'd appreciate some positive feedback. Thanks!

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RE: Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/1/2008 7:50:07 PM

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They should hire the people at Disney World to organize the whole event- I hear the ride in Cinderella's carriage is pretty awesome.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_628719/mpage_1/key_ceremonies/tm.htm#631684
ceremonies

http://www.collarchat.com/m_574595/mpage_1/key_collaring/tm.htm#574600
collaring and wedding ceremony

http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301
Collar vs Wedding Ring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668
ring or collar, what's the difference?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638
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RE: Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/1/2008 7:53:03 PM

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First, I have to state that this has not been My personal experience. Just some thoughts on how it would work for Me.

Should I chose to hold a ceremony for two at once, I would have to think it would be memorable for both. I would have to pay particalr attention to each, as well as together. There would have to be blessings on the entire union, as well as each dynamic individually. I would have to think that each specific commitment would be honored in it's own right, independent of the other.

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RE: Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/2/2008 8:08:27 PM

SirEbonyPhoenix

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Nah, there's not enough cash in the budget to visit Dineyland! LMAO Besides, this is an adult event and I don't think Mickey and Minnie would fit in.

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RE: Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/3/2008 12:01:49 AM

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Just what comes to my mind... without much thought. i would start by setting a very sensual scene. You know, glow of candlelight, soft relaxing music (celtic would be my choice), warm fire if you have a fireplace. i'd time it to sunset, and turn off the lights to give the room an added glow. i'd give each guest something... crop, paddle, whatever and have them sit or stand to create a pathway at least wide enough for both slaves to walk past.

i'd have someone special to me stand and give some kind of blessing. Then, in turn, i'd have each girl kneel before in whatever presentation position you prefer (for me it was kneeling knees spread, hands on my thighs, head bowed) and i'd first have them say something personal they'd composed themself. A type of vow, if you will. Followed by something like "i offer myself to you Sir. i am your Sir, to use as it pleases you. my body, my heart, my mind... all that i am, all that i have, i offer to you Sir." And of course, upon his acceptance, he'd place a collar around her neck, then have her kneel to the side of him. In the end, he'd have them both kneeling on opposite sides of him, and i'd have someone again speak some sort of blessing.

And this is where the romantic in me ends, and the playful brat takes over... afterwards, i'd have him walk through everyone towards the play room. They'd each follow behind him, being whacked by the guests with whatever instruments were handed out as they passed by. Then he'd take them and give them a lovely play session. With or without the guests watching. His choice of course. my personally, i'd probably bind them both, go have a drink and a few conversations with the guests, wish them well, then go back for some playing. *chuckle*

Anyway... that's just me. But then, i wasn't taught in a traditional means, so i don't honestly know what would be considered acceptable for this sort of thing.

Best of luck!

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RE: Double collaring ceremonies:Need some ideas! - 4/5/2008 2:22:04 PM

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Thanks a lot, everyone! In fact, I just remembered that I wrote a rough draft for my friends and they are going to go over it to see if it needs to be modified since this is a double collaring. I can only hope the occasion will be a wonderful one for T/them! Thanks again!

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