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MsHonor -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:07:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If I have time, I advise them to go back and read.......ahhhhh LESBIAN


Hope does seem to spring eternal, doesn't it?  Anyway, exactly the point of comiseration I was going to make.  I don't know which I get more of... The oh-so-original "I know you're a lesbian, but..." or the ones who don't seem to know at all.

As much as we may want and even somehow need to comiserate and marvel at the idiocy, I'm fairly sure the real answer is the obvious one.  These are, for the most part, posers and wannabes who are in for some quick online stimulation, and following the time-tested marketing pricipals of mass-mailed advertising or spam email... If you send out a thousand copies, -someone- is going to reply.  If the "relationship" lasts long enough for them to do their one-handed tango, they're happy and move on to the next round.

The best answer is undoubtedly to give such queries the same weight and consideration flyers advertising one-day-only sales and emails offering to increase the size of your non-existent male sexual organs.




MsHonor -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:12:23 PM)

Which reminds me...  Seems to me a large number of the women complaining about people not reading their profile didn't take enough time to assure that they had their own sexual "preference" listed properly. 

I don't make initial contact much, but it's still not amusing to log in to a page that -should- list available submissives lesbians, and see profile teaser after teaser with subgirls talking about how much they'd like a large domesticated farm bird of their own.

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atursvcMaam -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:17:25 PM)

There seem to be a number of people here who do not bother to read at all.  i would say it is all about the pics, but that also doesn't seem to say anything to males in general.  Go figure. 




midgetmafiosa -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:25:55 PM)

oh werd. i find this to be absolutely true. or they read that i am interested in learning about dominance, and that's as far as they get. i get 99.9% emails from male doms who think they are the one for me. i don't respond to 90% of them. 1) if you don't have a picture, don't bother. 2) if you don't have anything creative or witty to say, then don't bother. 3) if you wouldn't approach me in real life, don't bother. In the meantime, I have no problem deleting away.

and I got the same creepy italian guy! haha!




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:33:13 PM)

I have a long profile written that states in several places that I am not looking for service. People selectively read the middle part that talks about what I was looking for when I found the boys.
Expecting them to read and notice the parts they dont like is... unrealistic. People selectively read as badly as they selectively listen.

DV




petitespitfire64 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:37:23 PM)

Some idiot got PISSED at me today because he im'd me and started asking questions and i asked him if he had read my profile. He actually had the nerve to call me "rude" for asking.
I'm going to have to post a pic of an ogre or something to scare off the nitwits.




HerLord -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:41:37 PM)

Petite... PLZ don't do that. So far I think your pic here is the best I've seen. How could it be topped. Sexy girl, hot bike.. Good damn world.[;)]




MsHonor -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:43:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64
...i asked him if he had read my profile. He actually had the nerve to call me "rude" for asking.


What an ass-hat.  I, on the other hand, never have to ask... Since my profile says not to IM me ;-)




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:46:14 PM)

I ended my profile with "Dont tel me you loved my profile and then offer yourself, it proves you never read it"




midgetmafiosa -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:47:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I have a long profile written that states in several places that I am not looking for service. People selectively read the middle part that talks about what I was looking for when I found the boys.
Expecting them to read and notice the parts they dont like is... unrealistic. People selectively read as badly as they selectively listen.

DV


Oh so true. It's a fundamental flaw that we are all guilty of from time to time.
PS - I don't think I've told you yet, but I like you. Wanna be friends?




MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:48:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

the same reason why they continue to contact profiles that state "not currently looking"

just "ignore, delete and block" - a gal's best friend

Wait, you're TAKEN?? So that's why i never got an answer to my marriage proposal..*feels the lightbulb go on at last*




MissSepphora1 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:52:48 PM)

I finally took my pics off after being contacted by someone from Dubai.  I mean, I am not looking for an online relationship.
Why do men seem to think they are ALWAYS the exception?




rook42 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:53:23 PM)

It's the dominant thing to do to become pissed off instead of admitting "No", Daneene. Why I'll never be a real sadist :(




DelilahDeb -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:53:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Why do so many women not list their weight on their profiles?


I'll give you some reasons. I'm not saying which one mine is.


  • Because their weight is used by ignorant, usually male, humans as an arbitrary means of discard.
  • Because people who want to know how much they weigh aren't looking for friends/partners/loves/mates, they're looking for trophy subs.
  • Because their weight is not a stable signficant number, unlike height.
  • Because their photos show clearly what shape they are, and anyone dumb enough to judge them based on a number instead of appearance is no one they want to talk to, let alone more.
  • Because there is a multi-BILLION dollar-per-year industry in the U.S. alone dedicated to teaching women *in particular* (they're expanding to men, you'll notice) that "you are not OK the way you are."
  • Because one woman who is 5'9" and 200 pounds may be seriously obese, and the next one with the same stats is a buffed-out tennis champion.
  • Because some individuals here make snap judgements simply because that datum is omitted. Which, fortunately, self-selects out those humans not compatible, as a general rule.


You get to pick.

Delilah Deb




MissSepphora1 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:56:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DelilahDeb


quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Why do so many women not list their weight on their profiles?


I'll give you some reasons. I'm not saying which one mine is.
  • Because their weight is used by ignorant, usually male, humans as an arbitrary means of discard.
  • Because people who want to know how much they weigh aren't looking for friends/partners/loves/mates, they're looking for trophy subs.
  • Because their weight is not a stable signficant number, unlike height.
  • Because their photos show clearly what shape they are, and anyone dumb enough to judge them based on a number instead of appearance is no one they want to talk to, let alone more.
  • Because there is a multi-BILLION dollar-per-year industry in the U.S. alone dedicated to teaching women *in particular* (they're expanding to men, you'll notice) that "you are not OK the way you are."
  • Because one woman who is 5'9" and 200 pounds may be seriously obese, and the next one with the same stats is a buffed-out tennis champion.
  • Because some individuals here make snap judgements simply because that datum is omitted. Which, fortunately, self-selects out those humans not compatible, as a general rule.



You get to pick.

Delilah Deb


How do you know they want to know your weight because they want a thin girl?  Maybe they want a bbw???
Don't jump to conclusions.




petitespitfire64 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:59:25 PM)

Holy cow, HerLord...you need new glasses.

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ORIGINAL: HerLord

Petite... PLZ don't do that. So far I think your pic here is the best I've seen. How could it be topped. Sexy girl, hot bike.. Good damn world.[;)]




MsHonor -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 1:00:01 PM)

::hands Delilah Deb the Peepee Whacking Shillelagh of DOOM! (TM) with Great Gladness::




kittinSol -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 1:00:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

How do you know they want to know your weight because they want a thin girl?  Maybe they want a bbw???
Don't jump to conclusions.



Huh... oh nevermind.




MsHonor -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 1:10:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1
How do you know they want to know your weight because they want a thin girl?  Maybe they want a bbw???
Don't jump to conclusions.


Is that really better?  The gut instinct is to say "yes", but, in the end, they're still exercising a prejudice based on a physical characteristic... The fact that they're in a minority position doesn't alter the fact that they're showing more interest in the "what" than in the "who".

Just a thought.

Edit: Stoopid typos.  Firefox inline spell check has spoiled me already... I wonder... Why doesn't it work here? It does on my forums.




submisssiveVixen -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 1:11:15 PM)

Hi :) Yes maybe they do want a BBW.





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