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TwistedLeather -> RE: Collared or Owned? (4/3/2008 2:37:21 AM)
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As someone put it... it depends on who you're talking to.
As i was taught, there's a different between wearing a collar and BEING collared. Just as there's a different between being a submissive and being a slave, or the difference between serving someone and belonging (or being owned) by someone. There's a difference between BDSM and D/s, and there's a difference between calling someone Sir or Master. Even pain isn't the same as being harmed. There's a difference between everything if you really think about. You basically have to have a sit down with who ever you're involved with and match ideas and definitions, do a bit of scrambling around and shuffling before you're ever really on the same page.
me personally... i'm an owned kytten. i'm not collared, though i have many collars from my Owner. i'm a pet. i'm not exactly a submissive, nor am i a slave. You'd have to get to know me, and probably talk to me for hours before you'd understand. But the gist of it is... i was taught once collared, forever collared, and basically my Master has left this world. Even gone, i still feel the love i had for him, and still feel that irreplacable surrender i felt being collared by him. Of course, the loss of him tore me apart and changed me. It's hard to go back to the way things were, and i no longer want a Master. What i want and need is what i have... my dear Owner. i belong, but i maintain my free will... well, some of the time. *giggle*
**Ok, so it's after 3am and i'm suffering from insomnia induced sleep deprivation. A few editted and unscrambled words were called for!**
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