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Stephann -> RE: Master & Mistress! (4/2/2008 4:44:40 PM)
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For my part, a woman who says she's a Mistress doesn't necessarily suggest she can't be a switch. What is a switch, anyway? Someone who bottoms three days a week, and tops four? An owned slave who tops once a year? What about an alpha slave?
Switch is a catchall that usually describes people who enjoys both topping and bottoming. They tend to defy D/s designators (as opposed to Master/Mistress/slave where topping and bottom aren't necessarily even part of the relationship.)
When I own a slave, she calls me Master. If I give her the ok to, in the time she's allotted, own another slave, that slave would probably call her Mistress. I don't think that dynamic is likely to come about; more likely, I would (and have had) a submissive call me Sir, and the slave referred to both of us as Master and Mistress (though Mistress, in this case, was more of a courtesy title; the submissive had no real ownership of my slave.)
So, 1) no, it's not odd. 2) it'll last as long as teh folks involved can keep it lasting. That might be a day, or ten years; it really depends on if the people are wired for a poly relationship. 3) Poly comes to mind.
Stephan
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