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YourhandMyAss -> RE: The Phrase You Hate (4/3/2008 10:37:00 PM)
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Why would you pick someone with traits you found unacceptable or hated in the first place? I mean assuming you knew about the traits before you went into the relationship. Going into it with the thoughts I will change x y and z often do backfire.
It'd be easier to find someone who had traits you could live with, I wouldn't chose a partner who smoked cause I think it's a stinky smelly disgusting habbit, I wouldn't choose someone who walked around with bad BO all day cause that means they do not bathe or wear deoderant, and I think its essential they care enough to take care of their hygeine, and I wouldn't pick someone who gobbled icecream like it was water, because I want someone who's going to support me in my efforts to get away from sweets and junk. So no I wouldn't need to change them cause I wouldn't willingly pick a partner who had those unacceotable traits to me. And I hope I'd find out their traits and bad habbits before choosing them, which I know don't always happen but I hope next time I'd be smart enough tp find out if their habbits were livable, and not to pick someone with things I know I'd want to change.
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ORIGINAL: camille65
Okies. I came across another one 'if you love X then why would you want to change person X'Why?? I will tell ya why. Suppose X smokes ciggies, or scarfs down ice cream like water, or has nasty BO. Ain't those things ya would want changed?
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