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azropedntied -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 1:24:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gleegal67 quote: ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD My favorite place to meet is a bowling alley. I love meeting at a bowling alley...you get to watch them flex while picking up the bowling ball...you get to check out their backside when they bend over...how I appreciate a great view! Ahhh now i see why you wanted to stay and bowl the other day ..

SteelofUtah -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 3:05:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I prefer a place that is conducive for a face to cock meeting. A true meeting of the minds. I let her choose a place that she is comfortable with....If she suggests a bowling alley or a nascar event there is a pretty good fuckin' chance I ain't showing! domi Even if your Dick was so big that it had a dick and your Dicks dick was bigger than most guys dick, that would still be a smaller than average brain. Perhaps re-think the meeting of the minds comment.... otherwise To each thier own. Happy Felatio Domiguy. Steel

Gleegal67 -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 4:12:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azropedntied quote: ORIGINAL: Gleegal67 quote: ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD My favorite place to meet is a bowling alley. I love meeting at a bowling alley...you get to watch them flex while picking up the bowling ball...you get to check out their backside when they bend over...how I appreciate a great view! Ahhh now i see why you wanted to stay and bowl the other day .. Ooops! I forget that you read my posts...foiled again!!! I enjoy watching you flex anytime....you know that! ;)

ThundersCry -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 4:44:16 PM)
Whats good and safe* for me may not be for you or others...* I have had great meets for the most part...I ask that they have a safe call ...so to speak. As for myself, I have never felt the need to have one. I do not meet if I have not developed some kind of trust... Whats wrong with grabbing her by the hair at the airport and saying...Welcome to my world...<laughs>

RumpusParable -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 4:57:30 PM)
Me, usually I meet somewhere during the daytime and plan it to only be a 30 minute encounter or so with the availability of more free time if we have a great conversation going and it stretches on naturely. I pick very every-day, common sort of places like a casual restaurant and just get tea or such to drink. Once in a while I'll veer from that, but that's the norm. That way either of us can excuse ourselves easily if we're not enjoying the meeting and it's very low stress, and even if we are enjoying ourselves it's not awkward to end the meetup whenever it feels right to or one of us does have something else to attend to that day.

LadyPact -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 6:03:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eyesopened Where i live people cannot just show up at munches, demos or other kinky events, folks have to be members already and have gone through an orientation. However, setting up a meeting where, if things don't work out, you still have 'plan B' is a good idea. Here in our neck of the woods, anyone can attend a social. These are just group gatherings, usually at an inexpensive restaurant. Any vetted member of the group (someone who's already known) can bring a guest to any munch or event. Like many groups, we share status with the surrounding groups. In other words, vetted there means they are welcome here. When I refered to demos, etc., I'm speaking more of public events, not private groups.

domiguy -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 6:13:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I prefer a place that is conducive for a face to cock meeting. A true meeting of the minds. I let her choose a place that she is comfortable with....If she suggests a bowling alley or a nascar event there is a pretty good fuckin' chance I ain't showing! domi Even if your Dick was so big that it had a dick and your Dicks dick was bigger than most guys dick, that would still be a smaller than average brain. Perhaps re-think the meeting of the minds comment.... otherwise To each thier own. Happy Felatio Domiguy. Steel It was an attempt at humor...I have in the past been accused of thinking with my dick...From many of the sub's posts I believe my dick would hold it's own in a battle of wits.

Gemini1766 -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 6:16:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw quote: I'm sure you did not mean to "put words into my post" but inadvertantly, to me, you did. Take me at the words you read. Do not add to them, please. When you do, it is your own thoughts invading, not my intended expression of my thoughts. Thanks, Gem. WTFoolishness? You don't want to hear other's opinion? Why post on the board?? Foolishness? How so? He put words into my mouth, so to say. Read my initial post, read his response. You'll see that what he said about my original post does not match what I actually said. I see plenty of opinions here. Some I don't agree with, others that I do. I've thanked people for their input. Only in the case of someone taking my own words and claiming I said something that I most certainly did not got a response from me of that nature. And that is ONE person. So, what foolishness is it for you to make the comment you have about me, when it has no real basis?

Prinsexx -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 6:45:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet ive noticed that lots of first meets are happening in starbucks lately. whenever i go into one now i wonder... are they domme/sub? shes waiting for her master.... ;) i wonder if the powers that be at SB have any idea? nah....waiting for a master is easy..... she's probably waiting for a soya moccha latte with anything that's not made of wheat please.........or is it just in the Uk where I live that they kind of look at me funny?

softness -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 7:12:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy From many of the sub's posts I believe my dick would hold it's own in a battle of wits. thinks its mean of people to underestimate the power of the domidong besides...as Spike says "I think with my blood .. problem comes when blood just wont flow to the brain"

SteelofUtah -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/4/2008 7:15:21 PM)
Domi...... LMAO God Gave me TWO Brains but only enough blood to use one at a time. Love it. Steel

edgepassion -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/5/2008 3:34:48 AM)
If your fortunate enough to be near one, the beach is a great place to meet. The ocean’s energy and the pure beauty is, well, kinda romantic. Makes for good feelings anyway…. Especially good place for those who may be a little introverted and/or get a bit tongue-tied as there’s always something to talk about: shells, startfish, crabs, shark teeth, pelicans, dolphin, etc, etc….and then there’s the people….kids are fun to watch and talk about and they open up discussion about your own and damned if there isn’t always an idiot or three that will give you a laugh together. I like to walk for a while then maybe stop at one of the cafes (several right on the edge of St Aug Beach) and maybe grab a bite to eat, something to drink.

Justme696 -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/5/2008 6:54:26 AM)
quote: Ideas for first face to face meetings ask the girl what she likes...

DrummerDom -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/5/2008 11:37:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MontrealPhoenix Why not meet at a large park? That way there is no obligation to buy something, there are benches to sit on, and there tends to be lots of people around. Of course i'm talking about a daytime meeting not at night... edited to add: amusement park, mini golf, a mall... I too prefer parks. Typical first "Dates" for me start with a meeting at the park, a jaunt through the mall, and end at a steak and shake or someplace similar.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/5/2008 8:42:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: edgepassion If your fortunate enough to be near one, the beach is a great place to meet. The ocean’s energy and the pure beauty is, well, kinda romantic. Makes for good feelings anyway…. Especially good place for those who may be a little introverted and/or get a bit tongue-tied as there’s always something to talk about: shells, startfish, crabs, shark teeth, pelicans, dolphin, etc, etc….and then there’s the people….kids are fun to watch and talk about and they open up discussion about your own and damned if there isn’t always an idiot or three that will give you a laugh together. I like to walk for a while then maybe stop at one of the cafes (several right on the edge of St Aug Beach) and maybe grab a bite to eat, something to drink. So, how's 4:00 on the 18th look for you?

edgepassion -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/6/2008 3:28:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: edgepassion If your fortunate enough to be near one, the beach is a great place to meet. The ocean’s energy and the pure beauty is, well, kinda romantic. Makes for good feelings anyway…. Especially good place for those who may be a little introverted and/or get a bit tongue-tied as there’s always something to talk about: shells, startfish, crabs, shark teeth, pelicans, dolphin, etc, etc….and then there’s the people….kids are fun to watch and talk about and they open up discussion about your own and damned if there isn’t always an idiot or three that will give you a laugh together. I like to walk for a while then maybe stop at one of the cafes (several right on the edge of St Aug Beach) and maybe grab a bite to eat, something to drink. So, how's 4:00 on the 18th look for you? There’s that too…. The perfect post-tax antidote for you number crunchers Um, 16th is better….<poke>…

SimplyMichael -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/6/2008 6:14:11 AM)
Imagine opening the door to the motel room to find a woman waiting Kneeling Naked Blindfolded Her mouth tilted upward open and waiting First time I did it with someone she was inside the room, with another woman I was inside the room and she was in the hallway but had some clothes on. With BSB, I had told her what to wear (and not wear) and instructed her to stand facing the window looking out of the airport. She was to stand still so I could inspect her (I rather approved!!!) and to NOT move her head while I slid my hands into her hair. I SO wanted to fuck her in the parking lot but it wasn't till a few visits later that I got to bend her over in a parking lot and take her. That said, it is somewhat nutz for a woman to do any of the above...

Aileen1968 -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/6/2008 6:24:46 AM)
Heh heh heh. I'm so gooney Looney Tuney, touched in the head Please pass the ketchup, I think I'll go to bed

kallisto -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/6/2008 6:37:47 AM)
First time meetings should be a place where you both are going to be as much at ease as possible. We put so much pressure on ourselves to be our best, look our best, try not to say something stupid, that we don't need the extra worry of being somewhere that makes us uncomfortable. I'm not a big fan of crowded public places because there is too much going on and too many people in and out. A public place, yes but I don't want to run into a bunch of people that one of us may know where we spend our time talking and entertaining others. Too many distractions. Others have mentioned a park or a beach and those are great places. A riverwalk or maybe a small outside cafe or pub. Someone else mentioned a fair or carnival, I think that would be good too and fun if that's something that you both enjoy. Of course the scenarios presented by SimplyMichael are very erotic and exciting. I believe you just have to do what feels right to both of you.

velvetluxe -> RE: Ideas for first face to face meetings (4/7/2008 10:37:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: camille65 " The first time I met R in the flesh, I had flown to Atlanta. I got his room key he left at the desk ( he was in a business meeting ), then I fell asleep curled up in a chair in his room. I woke up to see him leaning against the doorjamb just watching me with a smile. " That's just hot....

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