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MistressFaye1 -> RE: Not Sure where I fit (4/5/2008 7:53:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
There is really no reason that you shouldnt be fucking like crazy at the age of 50, 60 or 70 for that matter. I am more sexual at 50 than I was at 40. It also helps to have a very hot young man who rocks your world :)
MoGa
AMEN Sister! I think I'm a lot better now that I'm passed 45. When I was a teen to twenty's, I spent far to much time denying what I really wanted and molding myself into whatever a man wanted me to be. In my thirties, I tried to hide my sexuality completely and be the wife, mother, business person that 'society' told me I should be.
Because, well, we all know that the American Society - or at least the media - screams at us constantly that if you are a female over 30 years of age and/or over 115 lbs - you should roll over and die or become 'just a mom' or maybe a public service worker because no one will ever find you sexually attractive! If you missed that little window between 18 and 25 to be hot, to frelling bad!
Last year, when I was examining my life, I realized that 45 was only HALF my expected life span. I sure as hell didn't want my life to start sliding down hill from where I was... So I got my fat happy ass in a gym and started building my body back up. With physical strength, my mental, emotional and sexual 'power' returned. It's never to late to start over.
I plan on being the Hottest Mama at the Old folks home!
I second this!!!!!!! I too plan on being the Hottest Mama in the Old Folks Home! I will be 53 this year and I too took the "normal" path once I became a mother. I laid the flogger down, got married, had babies, and a career and beat down the Domme in me showed herself a little to often in my self imposed vanilla world.
Now... here I am, sexy as hell, more daring than even in my younger days as a Domme, wiser, calmer, and better able to control the mind of a submissive! In the April roll call I said I would be collaring an exquisite slave, truth be told he is soon to be 30 years old!
Did I expect that? No. Did I plan for it to happen the way it did? No. Did I try to reject what I was feeling? Yes... and that was because of the age difference. When he spent several weeks with me, I realized that I needed to get past that and enjoy my life with someone that makes me happy. I dare say I've yet to meet a man close to my age that has the stamina, endurance, willingness to do whatever it takes to please me, and the playfullness to fill my life with laughter on a daily basis.
He's also wise. When I was talking to him about the age difference he told me, "Souls have no age." Hell, I've decided life is too short to let age be a factor in what I do and don't do. My daughters have always told me I would probably end up with someone younger than I am because "men my age seem a lot older".
So OP... I say go for it but don't limit yourself by trying to stonically sticking to an exact age criteria. That constraint you place on yourself may cause you to miss out on the chance for something wonderful to happen for you. Good luck!
Ms. Faye
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