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slave4abbw -> other online sites???? (4/5/2008 9:49:43 AM)
i have been advertising on other sites sorryCM and my profile states exactly what i am looking for and i get a lot of hits everyday from woman just curious .is it possible to turm some of them into our type of lifestyle thank you

metalmiss -> RE: other online sites???? (4/5/2008 1:35:02 PM)
If they're more than curious they will get in touch.. It's all a matter of patience, finding a compatible partner takes time. There's no need to "turn" anyone.. It's in you or its not.

LadyPaige -> RE: other online sites???? (4/5/2008 2:16:49 PM)
I tried that once and it didn't work. He liked the kinky sex, but D/s just wasn't there. It's either there or not, so don't expect to "turn" anone into anything they aren't or you'll end up role playing and unsatisfied.

kiwisub12 -> RE: other online sites???? (4/5/2008 5:06:12 PM)
I had a profile on a vanilla site , looking for - among other things - a relationship where I didn't want to be in charge, but have input. I received an email from a man who asked me what I would think about submitting to a master, sexually and in general. I was majorly turned on , and so, discovered my submissive side. If this man hadn't sent me that email, i would never have even thought of bdsm as a lifestyle. It was a direct result of that one email that i am now a very happy sub/slave and am so fufilled as a person. I don't think you can turn someone into a sub/slave/dominant, but if they have tendencies in that direction you sure can bring them out. If women are browsing your profile, and it is explicit, then maybe they have an interest and are too inhibited or shy to be open. If I were you I would send a very inocuous email inviting them to talk. Polite and informative would be the way to go. good luck, and maybe there is a very lucky woman out there who will discover something about herself that will change her life.

Prinsexx -> RE: other online sites???? (4/5/2008 5:58:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave4abbw i have been advertising on other sites sorryCM and my profile states exactly what i am looking for and i get a lot of hits everyday from woman just curious .is it possible to turm some of them into our type of lifestyle thank you Some 'friends' put me on Big church... I am mazed that I get pick-ups ...at least that's what my email address says....memebrs have contacted you etc....I have forgotten my password and so never check out who is contacting me. I think they must want to save my soul and that was my friend's original intention. There is a Christain bdsm group so someone once told me.....but does that mean I get hung and flogged on a cross or what? Oh God loves me.......I'll go as I am, in handcuffs and a neck brace by then probably......

angelwithhonor -> RE: other online sites???? (4/5/2008 6:16:16 PM)
Greetings to A/all i also am on a few vanilla sites..one is plentyoffish. i am very upfront of who i am and what i value.i stand straight in my submission...i dont hide it even in a vanilla site.i seek a Domiant Male... i state that in the profile .. i have had some Doms ask me if i am a submissive... but even them turned out to be nothing more than.. a big kink fest on demand... of first words...Do as i command or You arent real..hmmmmmm.... You cant make someone as you all have said, make one Dominant or submissive. Its getting very dissapointing to say the least on here and pof. I long and desire to be owned ...but i find more and more that vanilla isnt going to work..many Men are Domiant but they dont seem to have the Dynamics of the whole D/s relationship that i souly seek..peace to your search slave4bbw..peace to all of you and yours..angel kate...ps..also you have to be very careful..even on the vanilla sites..i was taken avantage of bc of not being a submissive to a complete mental case of a control freak..i paid the high price..of my complete stupidity..and have learned never ever allow my trust to go so easily..and know know the person you attend to get to know..smiles...i kicked my own ass for that one..had a Dom friend who would have but ummmmmm it was a 3 hour drive..grins

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