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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 6:22:46 AM

ChemistryMaster1

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How did the rest of Your conversation with this young lady play out?

I mean, one of the first questions I would have had, after hearing her say that her father thought I could teach her mother something, would have been, "Just what does your father want Me to teach your mom?" (And, of course, I'm a bit creeped out by the fact that this guy--if the girl is to be believed--would let his daughter know about his interest in having You instruct his wife in any way.)

This girl and her classmates? Are you a teacher? Are these college classmates, or high school--or younger?

Be careful, Sir...

Thanks,

No, I am not a teacher although I always wanted to be.

I am very careful.

she is legal and it wont be a problem if I would do her..... but i have to build it up first.

There are still a few dumb people like me who Never jump someone's bones for LUST! becuase they believe in LOVE which to many is a shared illusion.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 7:15:26 AM

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i do accept that some people think differently from the way that i do, but let me give you a scene as viewed by a dad.
   my very hott YOUNG daughter has, at one point or another, tripped across Collarme on the web. She finds a neighbor's profile, and tries to figure out a way of meeting him. (honest, up til the time she stops calling me "Dad" she will be young to me.)
     She realizes, fairly quickly, that she is a bit uncomfortable, either due to age, content, or whatever trigger, that she is not comfortable.
      it occurs to her that Dad has always sat her suitors down with a smile, and an arm around their shoulder, and the quiet but real caution, "anything you do to her, i can do to you." Those that hung around after this tended to treat her with respect. It did not seem to harm her too much (although she said it bugged her at first) as she is now quite happily married.
      being clever, sneaky and bright, i could easily see my daughter sending a fellow who scared her in my direction to set him straight.
      The part about you getting involved in any way with the mom, with the dad's permission and/or knowlege, would tend to indicate that the daughter wanted you to get hurt in a more than emotional way.
        i accept that different people have different views, but this scene in my house would mean that if you were to try for my wife, and my daughter, you would not leave under your own power.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 7:31:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: Level

*chokes upon reading the name "Brad Nailer"*

Amy will be choking on Brad Nailer by page 54 as well

okay dammit...skip to page 54 already! i have to go to work tomorrow and don't want to miss anything.

I'm surprised his name wasn't "Lance".

pssst...softness...can the next book have an earl or marquess...hell even a viscount....?
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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 7:43:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: softness

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ORIGINAL: Level

*chokes upon reading the name "Brad Nailer"*

Amy will be choking on Brad Nailer by page 54 as well

okay dammit...skip to page 54 already! i have to go to work tomorrow and don't want to miss anything.

I'm surprised his name wasn't "Lance".

it was, but this is the Coldwater version, and was edited for brevity.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 8:47:50 AM

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Sure some guy recognizes you as being the newbie on the cme block and therefore gets the hots for you doing his wife. And of course instead of approaching you directly he instead sits down his teen and tells her all of this and asks her to ask you. Uh huh, sure.

So you gonna do mama bear, papa bear and baby bear? They're all waiting breathlessly for a response Goldilocks.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 8:53:21 AM

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Actually, I think Aakasha nailed it. Daughter sees you on collarme, says, "hey dad, the neighbor guy is on a kinky sex website" and dad offers a throw-away joke line of "yeah, I bet he could teach your mother something." That sounds the most plausable.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 9:37:10 AM

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as plausible as that may be, i can't see it working out well. and in general, i am a pretty peaceful guy.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 9:55:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

It kinda squicks me.
And not in a fun happy way...

and this is why softness .. will always love blushes

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 10:20:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted

So basically a man saw you on Collarme and said to his daughter "Man, I'd really like the guy on this BDSM to teach my wife a thing or two." and then the daughter happened to run into you and ask you if you'd come over and um...do...whatever...to her mother.

Yeah, that's just creepy on several levels. I've got some of the most liberal parents who I have a very open relationship with, but this would just creep me right the fuck out.

Amen to this.. What a strange story..

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 4:37:22 PM

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I think your best bet is to direct the girl and yourself to the nearest educational sight on the BDSM lifestyle that you can find, and then to stay as far away from her as is possible until you have good idea of this lifestyle. Oh, and FYI.... just becuase the people posting here are new this website, does not mean they are completely clueless. Better to ask lots of questions then to assume anything.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 4:51:41 PM

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Pharoh, i wouldnt even worry about it, it might have just been a flirt and you wont be approached again.
but, if you are, then definetly request to speak with the parents and find out what really is on the up and up.
good luck.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 6:50:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

Pharoh, i wouldnt even worry about it, it might have just been a flirt and you wont be approached again.
but, if you are, then definetly request to speak with the parents and find out what really is on the up and up.
good luck.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 7:50:10 PM

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First off..it sounds too good to be true..I have a bad feeling that you are being set up somehow...second off..you are a novice..I think it is too soon for you to become mentor in any way shape or form you could inadvertently cause harm where none was meant...You may be in the midst of Dominant frenzy...step away and think carefully...think of all possible negatives......Do you really think you are ready for this??...or is it an ego boost?...(this is not meant to be snarky)...Tempting

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 8:16:19 PM

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wow youre welcome,
that flower is beautimus!!!!!

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/6/2008 8:55:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: softness

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

It kinda squicks me.
And not in a fun happy way...

and this is why softness .. will always love blushes

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/7/2008 2:59:16 AM

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wow youre welcome,
that flower is beautimus!!!!!

Glad u liked the flower......and No ,it wasnt beautimus..... It was from the Heart.....as for the luck u wished for me, I tell you,” eating the sample was good enough to order the entire meal later”

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/7/2008 5:00:01 AM

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Thank you for your sincere advice,
I live by a set of rules that includes” never kiss on a first date” I know it is odd but I like to build up rapport with those I am interested in. so no need to worry. And yes the girl is HOTT.

Well...perhaps I'm just a little paranoid...but this has the makings of a setup to me. Just too many questions, some of which others have mentioned or hinted at:
-- why have his daughter seek you out? Maybe I missed it, but did she say she was into kink as well?
-- why does a man who apparently knows of CM feel the need to have a third party teach his wife new things?
-- most important, why didn't the guy just send you a private message on CM?

Just my .02 zlotys. (Of course, I worry irrationally about someone stabbing me in the back when I'm standing at a urinal. Paranoid? Naaaaaahhhh....)

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/7/2008 5:16:29 AM

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Kitten... being that I drew visual aids when my daughter and I had our first big sex talk, I understand what you're saying. But even when she becomes an adult, I will never discuss specifics of my sex life with her father, with her. That's the issue I'm having with the OP. It's not that the daughter knows about her parents sex life, but that she knows a little too much for my taste. My two pence.

Cali

i can understand what you mean. i absolutely do not have a typical mother/daughter relationship with miss satan...then again she's a damned OLD person and was at age 7 when she first asked about the facts of life. she's 25 and we have a very odd relationship. she also wouldnt have disrespect for me and use anything i said against me.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/7/2008 5:20:04 AM

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Perhaps I shouldn’t have posted this on here; they will see that I am as new as they are. But even that will be even better since I am not really interested in another man’s wife.

Do NOT lie about your experience. It WILL catch up with you if you do and you're word and related actions are what you reputation is based upon.

As for the OP, find out what they're looking for and make an honest assessment about your abilities to do it as well as your interest.

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RE: Y/your input. - 4/7/2008 6:30:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill

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ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1

Thank you for your sincere advice,
I live by a set of rules that includes” never kiss on a first date” I know it is odd but I like to build up rapport with those I am interested in. so no need to worry. And yes the girl is HOTT.

Well...perhaps I'm just a little paranoid...but this has the makings of a setup to me. Just too many questions, some of which others have mentioned or hinted at:
-- why have his daughter seek you out? Maybe I missed it, but did she say she was into kink as well?
-- why does a man who apparently knows of CM feel the need to have a third party teach his wife new things?
-- most important, why didn't the guy just send you a private message on CM?

Just my .02 zlotys. (Of course, I worry irrationally about someone stabbing me in the back when I'm standing at a urinal. Paranoid? Naaaaaahhhh....)

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

With all due respect, I can NOT answer any of these questions, because honestly I don’t have the answer for them…..because he is the one who can answer them, not Me.

Do I worry about the danger of a situation like this? YES, on a higher level more than a normal person would due to constant training and past experiences. Will that stop me from uncovering the truth? NO, it will NOT. or I better say it did NOT.

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