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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 9:10:45 AM)
Men are my predominant sexual interest, but I play with men who I have no sexual interest in all the time.

ShaktiSama -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 12:41:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey I have a very rational personality and girls, especially subby girls, HAVE THE DRAMA! Lol...that's hilarious. My experience with men and women (and dominants versus submissives, for that matter) has been exactly opposite! Highest drama level yet experienced = dominant male, second highest would be dominant female, then submissive male, and submissive female the lowest. Sorry. I realize it's irrelevant, it just struck me funny.

darchChylde -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 1:43:24 PM)
I AM NOT A DRAMA QUEEN!!! i'm a hair queen whose issues require tissues

KindLadyGrey -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 6:33:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama quote: ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey I have a very rational personality and girls, especially subby girls, HAVE THE DRAMA! Lol...that's hilarious. My experience with men and women (and dominants versus submissives, for that matter) has been exactly opposite! Highest drama level yet experienced = dominant male, second highest would be dominant female, then submissive male, and submissive female the lowest. Sorry. I realize it's irrelevant, it just struck me funny. Dominant Men DEFINITELY have the drama! I rarely date them either. I tend to run far far away from people with codependency issues, regardless of their sex or lifestyle choices. I guess I've just got bad luck with the ladies [sm=banghead.gif]

Tantriqu -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 6:51:15 PM)
Yup, if a guy writes 'no drama' in his profile, he's a drama queen dom. Straight or subbie guys only for me! And tall and slim for preference; used to be my height and meso, but ever since mid-30's only the tallboys.

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 7:44:36 PM)
I would say I'm 80/20 in favor of men. It's a sliding scale, really. But I don't like penises in my porn. Teh yuck.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:09:42 PM)
OH wow, I just added NO DRAMA to my profile....should I take it out again? No way I am riding the drama llama!

TermsConditions -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:18:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa I would say I'm 80/20 in favor of men. It's a sliding scale, really. But I don't like penises in my porn. Teh yuck. No peni in your porn? Isn't it possible that they are teh two great tastes that go great together? C: "Hey you got penises in my porn!" M: "You got porn on my penises!" CM: "Hmmmmmmm....." I only raise the question.... :-)

TermsConditions -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:20:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus OH wow, I just added NO DRAMA to my profile....should I take it out again? No way I am riding the drama llama! "Drama llama" LOL ! <snort!> First I have seen this delightful turn of phrase!

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:23:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TermsConditions quote: ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa I would say I'm 80/20 in favor of men. It's a sliding scale, really. But I don't like penises in my porn. Teh yuck. No peni in your porn? Isn't it possible that they are teh two great tastes that go great together? C: "Hey you got penises in my porn!" M: "You got porn on my penises!" CM: "Hmmmmmmm....." I only raise the question.... :-) Hahaa. I find them distracting in porn. Bobbing around the way they do and all. I much prefer them in me to watching them. Coochies are much prettier to look at IMO.

darchChylde -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:24:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus OH wow, I just added NO DRAMA to my profile....should I take it out again? No way I am riding the drama llama! i checked, and the username dramaLlama has not been taken [sm=angel.gif]

TermsConditions -> RE: Excuse Me (4/7/2008 8:42:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa quote: ORIGINAL: TermsConditions quote: ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa I would say I'm 80/20 in favor of men. It's a sliding scale, really. But I don't like penises in my porn. Teh yuck. No peni in your porn? Isn't it possible that they are teh two great tastes that go great together? C: "Hey you got penises in my porn!" M: "You got porn on my penises!" CM: "Hmmmmmmm....." I only raise the question.... :-) Hahaa. I find them distracting in porn. Bobbing around the way they do and all. I much prefer them in me to watching them. Coochies are much prettier to look at IMO. That's fair. I can see if you were trying to mark time to music bobbing penises could be quite distracting; You'd always be half a beat behind. If I had to choose one over the other I'd probably stick with coochies which always appear to be at ease with themselves. Also, coochies is easier to pronounce than penises which seems to want an extra sylable.

beltainefaerie -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 11:04:23 AM)
I can be interested sexually in both men and women, but I am also happy to be play with people with whom I am not sexually involved or attracted.

AtlantaMistress -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 1:17:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yes, I only find males to be of any sexual interest to Me. However, I'm an equal opportunity sadist. Totally agree with LP on this. I know all men want to believe that all women are really bi-sexual, but it just isn't true. I think women are beautiful, but sexually, I am only turned on by men. I don't have a problem playing with women - enjoy that - when it comes to being sadistic, but not at all sexual. Actually - I have been told I am a prude of a Dominatrix. I have no problem with others choices - poly, swinging, etc - but I am monogamous - totally a one man type of gal. When playing with either a man or woman, I can be very sensual and a big flirt, but I do that more for the mental control it can give me in a scene. There is only one man that gets my juices flowing!

Wifeofsirtek -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 1:22:07 PM)
I would much rather have sex with female subs. There is no sexual desire to be with slave men. I thought I was the only one that felt that way.

darchChylde -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 4:37:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yes, I only find males to be of any sexual interest to Me. However, I'm an equal opportunity sadist. Totally agree with LP on this. I know all men want to believe that all women are really bi-sexual, but it just isn't true. I think women are beautiful, but sexually, I am only turned on by men. I don't have a problem playing with women - enjoy that - when it comes to being sadistic, but not at all sexual. Actually - I have been told I am a prude of a Dominatrix. I have no problem with others choices - poly, swinging, etc - but I am monogamous - totally a one man type of gal. When playing with either a man or woman, I can be very sensual and a big flirt, but I do that more for the mental control it can give me in a scene. There is only one man that gets my juices flowing! i'll admit that i find women being with one another an extreme turn on. But the idea that all men believe, or want to believe that all women are bisexual is pure fallacy. Personally, a woman i am in a relationship with being bisexual doesn't work for me at all; i mean i can deal with it, but it simply means that i cannot possibly be all that she needs to be completely satisfied in bed every time. i have the same issue with Ma'am being a switch. i deal with it, and well; but it means that i cannot possibly be all that She needs. It's a blow to the ego, and can be a major one if i were to let it.

LadyPact -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 5:09:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yes, I only find males to be of any sexual interest to Me. However, I'm an equal opportunity sadist. Totally agree with LP on this. I know all men want to believe that all women are really bi-sexual, but it just isn't true. I think women are beautiful, but sexually, I am only turned on by men. I don't have a problem playing with women - enjoy that - when it comes to being sadistic, but not at all sexual. Actually - I have been told I am a prude of a Dominatrix. I have no problem with others choices - poly, swinging, etc - but I am monogamous - totally a one man type of gal. When playing with either a man or woman, I can be very sensual and a big flirt, but I do that more for the mental control it can give me in a scene. There is only one man that gets my juices flowing! Same here, Sandy. In fact, I'd have to say that the female bottoms are usually the ones who are disappointed that I'm not bi. They tend to get rather turned on by Me.

ShaktiSama -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 6:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Personally, a woman i am in a relationship with being bisexual doesn't work for me at all; i mean i can deal with it, but it simply means that i cannot possibly be all that she needs to be completely satisfied in bed every time. Wow. That is so not true. Sorry, but being bisexual just means that you can be attracted to both sexes--not that you necessarily need two lovers or mates in your life simultaneously. There's a difference between being bi and being poly, or being into threesomes, foursomes or moresomes. Being a bisexual woman doesn't mean you can't be completely satisfied with one lover--any more than being a straight woman means you need more than one man to be satisfied. I'm not a switch, of course, but I'd be willing to bet there are monogamous switches as well.

TermsConditions -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 7:08:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress [I] know all men want to believe that all women are really bi-sexual, but it just isn't true. Generalizations are easy but give some of us some credit. Some of us only want the hot chicks with big boobs to be secretly bi.

darchChylde -> RE: Excuse Me (4/8/2008 7:27:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Personally, a woman i am in a relationship with being bisexual doesn't work for me at all; i mean i can deal with it, but it simply means that i cannot possibly be all that she needs to be completely satisfied in bed every time. Wow. That is so not true. Sorry, but being bisexual just means that you can be attracted to both sexes--not that you necessarily need two lovers or mates in your life simultaneously. There's a difference between being bi and being poly, or being into threesomes, foursomes or moresomes. Being a bisexual woman doesn't mean you can't be completely satisfied with one lover--any more than being a straight woman means you need more than one man to be satisfied. I'm not a switch, of course, but I'd be willing to bet there are monogamous switches as well. Forgive me, i should have been more clear. i was speaking of my ego and how it is effected by my perspective of the situation. Though, i will say that i believe that for a bisexual woman to remain monagomous to a man and to never sleep with women (or a woman) on the side (openly and honestly, of course) would be unhealthy. It's seldom wise to deny such an important side of one's self, i learned as much when i went vanilla for five years after a particularly bad incident at a club.

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