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SirDominic -> RE: Rejected (5/13/2008 1:05:51 PM)
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MladyHathor,
Could'a sworn SG-1 did you in, like in season 3 or something. Oh, you're not THAT Hathor? Never mind.
The implication of your question is about deciding not to begin a relationship with someone, and my thoughts reflect that interpretation.
How someone deals with rejection tells me a lot about who they are, truly are, as a person. The Dom guys on here that call some sub gorgeous in the first email, then a b*tch in the second when they get rejected; well it just goes to show how immature they are. Same with the male subs who you have decided not to get together with calling you all kinds of names. There isn't much room in this lifestyle for immaturity, in my opinion. Anyone who acts like a spoiled five year old when they don't get what they want have a lot of issues to come to grips with before getting into any type seriously intimate relationship.
Aside from that, people get caught up in the rejection as if it was because they are somehow not good enough. They take it way too personally. It's rarely because someone is deeply flawed; often as not it's that the chemistry just isn't there. We would all be a lot better off if we didn't take all of this as some kind of personal insult.
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