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onlinesub1 -> Types of Punishments (10/6/2005 8:02:08 PM)
Today I was looking at past rules and punishments of mine and decided to write this message. Name all the punishments you ever given to a male submissive or if you are a male submissive name all the punishments you were given. I want to see how creative everyone is in giving punishments. Also it would be nice to see what other male submissives go through. I will post this in Ask a Mistress section also to get both sides of a punishment. I hope everyone enjoys this board and thanks for posting.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/6/2005 8:33:40 PM)
Frankly IME, 90% of the time when someone is concerned about a punishment being "creative" then the focus isn't on punishment (changing behavior) but sadism or play.

onlinesub1 -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/6/2005 9:13:57 PM)
I just want to see how far a Domme and/or Mistress would go to discipline their submissives and slaves

justmira -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/6/2005 9:34:43 PM)
Hi, i'm a female sub but will answer anyway. If you are talking about the worst punishment for bad behaviour it was a lecture and then not allowed any contact with Mistress for 3 days. If you're talking about a cruel and unusual punishment just to please Mistress, it was ... shudder ... i wasn't allowed to eat chocolate or anything chocolate flavoured for a week. cheers mira

onlinesub1 -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/6/2005 9:47:19 PM)
I despise being ignored as a punishment, I tend to break down within hours of no communication and beg for forgiveness [:(]

ownedjulia -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 3:22:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlinesub1 Today I was looking at past rules and punishments of mine and decided to write this message. Name all the punishments you ever given to a male submissive or if you are a male submissive name all the punishments you were given. I want to see how creative everyone is in giving punishments. Also it would be nice to see what other male submissives go through. I will post this in Ask a Mistress section also to get both sides of a punishment. I hope everyone enjoys this board and thanks for posting. I'm female slave so this may not have much relevance to you but I've had several punishments from my Master. The worst one though was when he told me I had upset him so much he wasn't even going to bother to punish me and didn't speak to me for nearly a week. If he had actually punished me it would have been easier for me to deal with, his silenece was far more effective.

nephandi -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 4:16:54 AM)
OP are you speaking aboute play "punishment" or actual punishment? for there is a huge differance between them.

sweetpettjenny -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 5:58:51 AM)
First off ...i am a female slave . There is a huge difference between rules and punishment and discipline. Creative punishments???? A punishment is meant , so that the sub, slave will not do said act again. Discipline is to teach a sub/slave what might be expected , and is not meant to cause upset ( even if its on the harsh side) rules : meant as a structure to follow and live by. I guess its different for online verse R/t . I just don't understand online dynamics

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 6:02:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlinesub1 I just want to see how far a Domme and/or Mistress would go to discipline their submissives and slaves As far as they feel it is productive. If it was no longer productive and the slave continued to disobey, the only recourse is dismissal.

atenderheart -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 6:33:07 AM)
i am a female slave.. the worst "punishment" for me is simple having Her say.."you have displeased Me lil one" and thats it i am totaly crushed and never do what ever it was that i did again... now as far as any sado maso play "punishment" that doesnt happen here... if She wants to do some S&M then we do it.. if i want my arse beat i just say Please beat my arse ... and if She wants to then its yes if She doesnt then its no... but as far as real punishment those few simple words is enough to do it ....

sub4hire -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 8:48:32 AM)
quote: I just want to see how far a Domme and/or Mistress would go to discipline their submissives and slaves Death, of course that is a rare occurance but it has happened. I've seen it happen before. Or the lesser of two evils, you are sold. To someone who doesn't care anything about you yet to abuse you.

ownedjulia -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 8:51:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 quote: ORIGINAL: onlinesub1 I just want to see how far a Domme and/or Mistress would go to discipline their submissives and slaves As far as they feel it is productive. If it was no longer productive and the slave continued to disobey, the only recourse is dismissal. There are ways to 'make' a slave obey. Sometimes actual dismissal is not necessary, maybe a temporary release or the flip side - a total lock down on the slave.

malesub4ever -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 6:50:03 PM)
Usually if I don't get ignored as a punishment, spanking and cbt is involved

perverseangelic -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/7/2005 10:50:16 PM)
My partner does't ignore me, because that would be way more than I could handle. I -do- get privildeges taken away. Today, for example, no cookies for me :( I forgot to change the kitty box. I never get physical stuff as serious punishment. That's always the play "you've been a bad girl" thing. THe most serious threat my partner could ever make would be "no more power dynamic"

ownedjulia -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 3:37:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny First off ...i am a female slave . There is a huge difference between rules and punishment and discipline. Creative punishments???? A punishment is meant , so that the sub, slave will not do said act again. Discipline is to teach a sub/slave what might be expected , and is not meant to cause upset ( even if its on the harsh side) rules : meant as a structure to follow and live by. I guess its different for online verse R/t . I just don't understand online dynamics Nicely put, I too, cannot understand online dynamics. There is something to be said for real life and the face to face power dynamic that can be brought into a situation than online keyboard bashing session! quote: I guess its different for online verse R/t . I just don't understand online dynamics

onlinesub1 -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 3:44:27 AM)
some people, like me, are not ready for real time so online time helps with the bare basics

ownedjulia -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 3:47:24 AM)
Don't get me wrong - I know that online can help give people some ideas but I think it can give the WRONG idea imply because some people that play around online as 'Master' or 'Domme' really haven't a clue and have never played in real. I much prefer a board such as this on a real life munch.

JohnWarren -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 5:31:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onlinesub1 some people, like me, are not ready for real time so online time helps with the bare basics Bare basics of what? Just remember that online may be exciting but it really doesn't give you any clue of what the physical aspects of a BDSM relationship is like. Even the emotional aspects are a pale shadow of what they are like when you can see and touch your partner and be seen and touched by him or her. If you want information, I've found this site to have some rational and experienced people, but I'd recommend you supplement your learning with one or two of the excellent non-fiction BDSM books that are available. Hot chat is basically interactive fiction and is as lacking in accuracy as most of the fiction in this area. As one young lady said to Jay Wiseman when he made the first cane stroke, "It didn't hurt like that online."

sub4hire -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 8:33:57 AM)
quote: I much prefer a board such as this on a real life munch. Then you have found the wrong munches. Perhaps a discussion group is in order? There is absolutely nothing wrong with the board. Some of the participants. Sure. My dom has told me to read the board on a daily basis as my daily newspaper. He knows I crave knowledge in many different facets of life. It is good to hear other people’s opinions. If you have evolved enough you know all do not have to agree with you the board can be very worthwhile. However, face to face meeting of your peer's is something that can never be obtained here. It is a different dynamic. It is exhilarating. I’d suggest for your next munch you let the host’s know you are coming in advance. That way they will take you under their hand…introduce you to others. In time once you feel safer and more comfortable you will rather have a munch as opposed to a board.

ownedjulia -> RE: Types of Punishments (10/8/2005 8:44:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sub4hire quote: I much prefer a board such as this on a real life munch. Then you have found the wrong munches. Perhaps a discussion group is in order? There is absolutely nothing wrong with the board. Some of the participants. Sure. My dom has told me to read the board on a daily basis as my daily newspaper. He knows I crave knowledge in many different facets of life. It is good to hear other people’s opinions. If you have evolved enough you know all do not have to agree with you the board can be very worthwhile. However, face to face meeting of your peer's is something that can never be obtained here. It is a different dynamic. It is exhilarating. I’d suggest for your next munch you let the host’s know you are coming in advance. That way they will take you under their hand…introduce you to others. In time once you feel safer and more comfortable you will rather have a munch as opposed to a board. sub4hire Badly worded phrase on my part. I'm afraid my fingers got ahead of me. it should have said 'boards such as this OR a munch'. My apologies for any confusion/mis-understanding.

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